Sex and sexuality: advice, topics and issues Books
HarperCollins Publishers The Multiorgasmic Man The Sexual Secrets That
Book SynopsisEvery man can have multiple orgasms and can directly improve his lovemaking skills just by learning some simple physical techniques.This new edition of our Bestseller shows howAll men can be multi-orgasmic experiencing multiple sexual peaks. The Multi-Orgasmic Man is a now much loved and referred to classic in personal and sexual development.Based on the Eastern Taoist principles of loving, the book is a revealing, practical and highly readable guide.The book explains a range of simple physical and psychological techniques that will allow that allow men of all ages to enlarge their range of sexual experience and become multi-orgasmic. The techniques will allow men to fulfill their own sexual desires, and their partner's dreams and fantasies by dramatically improving the quality and quantity of their lovemaking.Includes:Yin and Yang in sexuality the special role of sexual energy. How to stoke up sexual energy to prolong and enhance pleasure. How to become multi-orgasmic. Sexual pro
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Gallery Books MY SECRET GARDEN
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Inner Traditions Bear and Company The Complete Illustrated Kama Sutra
Book SynopsisA fully illustrated Kama Sutrafrom the extraordinary and rare art collection of Lance Dane.Trade Review"Gives us the dazzling artwork from museums and private collections worldwide... fascinating...sex has not changed in over 2,000 years." * Lois Mark Stalvey, Red Rock News, January 28, 2004 *"A new, gorgeously illustrated edition of the famous Hindu Classic." * Erotic Review, Dec/Jan 2004, Issue 58 *"It is not, in fact, a pornographic work, but a book depicting the art of living for the civilized and refined citizen, finding its expression in the sphere of love, eroticism, and the sensual pleasures of life. . . . Rather than calling the Kama Sutra pornography and hiding it on the highest shelf of their bookcases, Western readers should see it as the expression of a refined, sophisticated people on the art of love." * Audrey Chaix, Vulpes Libris, Jan 2010 *Table of ContentsThe Complete Illustrated Kama Sutra Preface to Kama SutraIntroduction to Kama SutraBook 1--General Principles Study of the Shastras Dharma, Artha, Kama Study of Arts, Sciences Man about Town Nayikas and MessengersBook 2--Love-Play and Sexual Union Sexual Union The Embrace The Kiss Pressing and Nail Marks The Bite Sexual Vigor and Intensity Striking and Spontaneous Sounds Donning the Male Role Oral Congress Beginning and End of CongressBook 3--Courtship and Marriage Betrothal and Marriage Instilling Confidence in the Bride Courting a Maid Behavior of a Couple Kinds of MarriageBook 4--The Wife Duties of a Wife Senior and Junior WivesBook 5--Seducing the Wives of Others Characteristics of Men and Women Getting Acquainted Ascertaining Emotions Duties of a Go-between Behavior of a King Conduct of Ladies of the Inner CourtBook 6--The Courtesan Beguiling the Right Man Living as his Wife Acquiring Wealth Reconciliation Special Gains Gains and LossesBook 7--Secret Lore, Extraneous Stimulation, and Sexual Power Beautifying the Body Regarding Virility
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St Martin's Press The Mystery Method
Book SynopsisOne of the most admired men in the world of seduction (The New York Times) teaches average guys how to approach, attract and begin intimate relationships with beautiful womenFor every man who always wondered why some guys have all the luck, Mystery, considered by many to be the world''s greatest pickup artist, finally reveals his secrets for finding and forming relationships with some of the world''s most beautiful women. Mystery gained mainstream attention for his role in Neil Strauss''s New York Times bestselling exposé, The Game. Now he has written the definitive handbook on the art of the pickup.He developed his unique method over years of observing social dynamics and interacting with women in clubs to learn how to overcome the guard shield that many women use to deflect come-ons from average frustrated chumps.The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed shares tips such as:*Give more attention to her less attractiTrade Review"One of the most admired men in the world of seduction" (The New York Times)"
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HarperCollins Publishers Your Blueprint for Pleasure
Book SynopsisWorld-acclaimed sexologist Jaiya has worked with thousands of clients around the world, transforming their relationships and their lives. In her debut book, she explains that each of us has one of five erotic personality types â and to have the fulfilling sex lives we deserve we need to identify which one we are (and which one our partner is), so that we can relate to each another in the best way. Too many people feel they are simply not sexual because they don't know their erotic blueprint. Couples may feel like a mismatch, like they canât satisfy each other. But in The Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough, Jaiya shows that different types can find each otherâs âturn-onsâ â and once you have this information, you can use it to transform your sex for the better.
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Simon & Schuster Come as You Are: Revised and Updated: The
Book SynopsisA revised and updated edition of Emily Nagoski’s game-changing New York Times bestseller Come As You Are, featuring new information and research on mindfulness, desire, and pleasure that will radically transform your sex life.For much of the 20th and 21st centuries, women’s sexuality was an uncharted territory in science, studied far less frequently—and far less seriously—than its male counterpart. That is, until Emily Nagoski’s Come As You Are, which used groundbreaking science and research to prove that the most important factor in creating and sustaining a sex life filled with confidence and joy is not what the parts are or how they’re organized but how you feel about them. In the years since the book’s initial publication, countless women have learned through Nagoski’s accessible and informative guide that things like stress, mood, trust, and body image are not peripheral factors in a woman’s sexual wellbeing; they are central to it—and that even if you don’t always feel like it, you are already sexually whole by just being yourself. This revised and updated edition continues that mission with new information and advanced research, demystifying and decoding the science of sex so that everyone can create a better sex life and discover more pleasure than you ever thought possible.
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Simon & Schuster The Wild Womans Way
Book Synopsis“As pragmatic as it is compassionate, this intimate, humorous, and ultimately relaxing invitation to re-wild yourself, stripping away all that is not your true nature, will leave you inspired and curious to discover the wild woman within” (Lissa Rankin, MD, New York Times bestselling author of Mind Over Medicine).For many women today, achieving a successful career, a fulfilling romantic relationship, and a rewarding personal life can feel like an unattainable goal. The pressure to “have it all” wreaks havoc on our bodies and emotional well-being, and also creates unrealistic expectations. Toxic comparisons and the need to perform enforces damaging ideals of who and what we should be, making it harder for us to connect with who we really are. But what if there was a way to break free from these patterns and beliefs? What if you could free your body from stress and trauma, tap into your inherent creativity, and connect more autTrade Review"Through simple, thoughtful exercises and engaging personal and client stories, Michaela Boehm invites us into the dancing heart of our own lusciousness, and teaches us how to share it with others. I think this book should be a required manual for all women—to live the lives we were born to in all of our capacities, and with joy and purpose. Not to mention a lot of hot sex. Don’t miss this invitation to revel in your feminine power!" -- Rachel Carlton Abrams, MD, co-author of The Multi-Orgasmic Woman and director of Santa Cruz Integrative Medicine"The societal message that the modern women is meant to be a vixen in the bedroom, a shark in the boardroom, Martha Stewart in the home, and an Om-chanting, pretzel-bodied yogini in her spiritual life leaves women feeling flooded, confused, and perpetually "not enough." Yet finally...phew...The Wild Woman's Way drips from the pages like the sweet nectar of relief. As pragmatic as it is compassionate, this intimate, humorous, and ultimately relaxing invitation to re-wild yourself, stripping away all that is not your true nature, will leave you inspired and curious to discover the wild woman within." -- Lissa Rankin, MD, New York Times bestselling author of Mind Over Medicine“Wise, warm, and wonderful, like sitting around the fire, listening to stories from a brave adventurer in the inner worlds.” -- Lorin Roche, PhD, author of The Radiance Sutras“I love this book. Herein lie simple beautiful secrets to being kinder to yourself, making you and those around you happier, healthier, and more fulfilled. Being a wild woman sounds wildly wonderful.“ -- Chris Martin, singer-songwriter, Coldplay"A concentrated dose of playful wisdom about the realms of energy, connection, and love! Much needed in this wild world of ours!” -- Jesse Carmichael, Maroon 5“Michaela Boehm is, in my opinion, the most advanced teacher currently sharing wisdom about the intersection of sexuality and spirituality. The Wild Woman’s Way is Michaela’s kind-hearted and clear-headed encapsulation of a foundational area within her vast knowledge. May this fabulous and long-awaited debut book—which everyone with a body should read—be the first in a library of her teachings.” -- Michael Ellsberg, author of The Education of Millionaires"Listen. Let go. Live. The invitation back home to your wild, natural self lies within these pages, immersed in the embodied wisdom of one who walks her talk. Read. Relax. Reclaim what has always been yours." -- Dr. Saida Désilets, author of Emergence of the Sensual Woman“The Wild Woman's Way is a roadmap to living your life with sensuality and strength; you will gain more power and joy as these pages reawaken your inner wild woman who has been waiting to be expressed." -- Christy Whitman, New York Times bestselling author of The Art of Having It All and Quantum Success“Let Michaela’s wisdom lead you to a new, harmonious relationship with your body, your beloved, and your boss. From outer work to inner sensuality, The Wild Women’s Way is an essential guide to learning how to find your 'flow' rather than pushing your 'go' all the time.” -- HeatherAsh Amara, author of Warrior Goddess Training"A must read for every Goddess looking to dial up the way they woman. The wild. The raw. The wise. Michaela Boehm walks you through every ounce of womanhood in these beautifully honest pages that are sure to find you unlocking your inner power and pleasure centers." -- Emma Mildon, bestselling author of The Soul Searcher's Handbook and Evolution of Goddess"Every page reveals the sacred wisdom of how to fully embody the divine pleasure of life." -- Rikka Zimmerman; creator of Life Transformed™ & singer-songwriter"The most practical and inspiring guide yet to self-care for a woman's physical, spiritual and emotional needs." -- Debbie Phillips, founder & CEO of Women on Fire
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Rodale Press Inc. The Man's Guide to Women: Scientifically Proven
Book SynopsisA great "philosopher" once said "trying to understand women is like trying to smell the color 9." But the fact is, men can understand women to their great benefit. All they need is the right teacher. And arguably there is no better teacher than John Gottman, PhD, a world-renowned relationships researcher and author of the bestselling 7 principles of Making Marriage Work. His new book, written with wife Julie Gottman, a clinical psychologist, and Doug Abrams and Rachel Carlton Abrams, MD, is based on 40 years of scientific study, much of it gleaned from the Gottman's popular couple's workshops and the "love lab" at the University of Washington. It's written primarily for men because new research suggeststhat it is the man in a relationship who wields the most influence to make it great or screw it up beyond repair.
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Hardie Grant Books (UK) Sex Tips for Creative Lovers: Pleasure for
Book SynopsisDo you feel like you're missing out on your sexuality? Has the time spent with your lover(s) become a bit predictable and boring? Are you tired of the same old storylines about sex – foreplay, penetrate, ejaculate, repeat? In Sex Tips for Creative Lovers, Jüne Plã teaches you how to let go of your hang-ups and explore your sexuality at your own pace. You will learn everything there is to know about sex outside of the ‘penetration’ box, regardless of your gender or sexual orientation. With maps of pleasure zones as well as an inventory of moves, it is full of tips and tricks on how to pleasure yourself and your partner, resulting in explosive new experiences. Whether you’re a virgin or sex expert, Sex Tips for Creative Lovers is perfect for anyone wanting to reinvigorate their sex life.
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Scribe Publications Come as You Are: the bestselling guide to the new
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HarperCollins Publishers Inc Passionista
Book SynopsisTransform Yourself from Passion Victim to Passionista!In the smash hit She Comes First, Ian Kerner singlehandedly waged battle against male sexual ill-cliteracy, and women everywhere benefited from his viva la vulva philosophy of female pleasure. Now, in Passionista, it''s time to learn all about what turns men onand makes them stay on. In this point-by-point, blow-by-blow guide, Kerner makes giving as much fun as receiving as he covers every angle of male sexuality, unlocks the secrets of satisfaction, and offers knowledgeable answers to the questions every woman wonders about. His advice is the closest you''ll ever come to waking up in a guy''s skin and knowing what truly makes him sexually tick.Written in the same witty, insightful, and utterly readable voice that has made She Comes First and Be Honest so popular, Passionista is the empowered woman''s guide to enjoying sex to the fullestTrade Review"In Passionista, his pleasure is all yours!" -- Tracey Cox, bestselling author of SuperSex "Passionista satisfies the reader with tasty morsels of sexual enlightenment, nibble by nibble, bite by bite." -- Lou Paget, best-selling author of How to Be a Great Lover and The Great Lover Playbook
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HarperCollins Publishers Inc The Sexual Healing Journey
Book SynopsisA guide that helps survivors of sexual abuse to improve their relationships and discover the joys of sexual intimacy. It takes them step-by-step through the recovery process using groundbreaking exercises and techniques. It helps them to create a positive meaning for sex and develop a healthy sexual self-concept.
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Scribe Publications The Come As You Are Workbook: a practical guide
Book SynopsisA practical workbook from the New York Times-bestselling author of Come As You Are that will radically transform your sex life. In Come As You Are, sex educator Dr Emily Nagoski revealed the true story behind female sexuality, uncovering the little-known science of what makes us tick and, more importantly, how and why. Now, in The Come As You Are Workbook, she offers practical tips and techniques that will help women to have the mind-blowing sex that they deserve (and that men have been having all along). This collection of worksheets, journaling prompts, illustrations, and diagrams is an engaging companion for anyone who wants to further their understanding of their own bodies and sexuality. Trade ReviewPraise for Come As You Are: ’Nagoski’s book deserves plaudits for the rare achievement of merging pop science and the sexual self-help genre in prose that’s not insufferably twee … [Come As You Are] offers up hard facts on the science of arousal and desire in a friendly and accessible way.’ * The Guardian (UK) *Praise for Come As You Are: ‘This is the best book I have ever read about sexual desire and why some couples just stop having sex, and what they can do about it. Come As You Are is an absolutely necessary guide for all couples who want to understand the ups and downs in their own sex life. It is a must read!’ -- John Gottman, PhD, author of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage WorkPraise for Come As You Are: ‘Emily Nagoski has written one of the most important books about sex any woman (or anybody else) could ever pick up, full of insights that are both fascinating and deeply useful. Synthesising new research and theory about sexuality with old-school sex-positive information of the sort you didn’t learn in sex ed (unless, perhaps, you are a Unitarian, or Scandinavian, or lucky enough to be in Dr. Nagoski’s class), I guarantee Come As You Are will open minds and change lives.’ -- Carol Queen, PhD, Founding director, Center for Sex & Culture
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HarperCollins Publishers Inc Taking Charge of Your Fertility The Definitive
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HarperCollins Publishers Inc Becoming Cliterate
Book SynopsisTrade Review“An excellent, thorough, inspiring and much needed guide to the source of our deepest energy, pleasure, and power—the clitoris. Everyone needs to read this book and become CLITERATE.” — Eve Ensler, author of The Vagina Monologues and In the Body of the World “This read doesn’t just zero in on the politics of pleasure inequality, it also offers up solutions that help the reader become more hands on (literally) with their own sexuality.” — Bust Magazine “Down with ill-cliteracy! The tongue is mightier than the sword! Brothers and Sisters-in-arms (and legs and butts and hearts and souls), bring your huddled masses to this book and embrace orgasm equality! Think outside HER box! Viva la Vulva!” — Ian Kerner, PhD, LMFT, New York Times bestselling author of She Comes First “Brilliant.” — GOOP “Becoming Cliterate will change how we think and talk about female sexual pleasure. The orgasm gap isn’t a consequence of women not knowing how—it’s a cultural problem that we should be reading about to discover what went wrong in the first place.” — Betty Dodson, sex educator and author of Sex for One “What a fascinating and deeply empowering book. I wish every woman could read what Dr. Laurie Mintz has to teach us about our bodies.” — Sara Benincasa, comedian and author of Real Artists Have Day Jobs (And Other Awesome Things They Don't Teach You In School) “Women experience sexual pleasure - and, often orgasm - from diverse ways of physical and mental stimulation. This book provides a wealth of information on the clitoris and ways of imagining and creating a more fulfilling sexual life.” — Debby Herbenick, PhD, associate professor at Indiana University and author of Because It Feels Good “For too long, men and women have assumed that a penis inside a vagina is the holy grail of sex.Women’s sexual satisfaction depends on way more than this. Fortunately, Mintz provides helpful suggestions to increase women’s pleasure. I encourage both men and women read this valuable and insightful book.” — Paul Joannides, Psy.D., author of Guide to Getting it On “If you sometimes feel lost on the way to your orgasm, Becoming Cliterate is the map (and the cheering section) you need to find your way. Grounded in research and packed with real-world tips, readers will thank Mintz for her truth-telling.” — Dorian Solot, co-author of I Love Female Orgasm “This book is set up like a college textbook for female orgasm, with some philosophy and pep talks and then some hands-on experimenting. And a chapter at the end for male partners to read. What more could you need?” — Book Riot “A fun and empowering reminder that sexual dissatisfaction is not inevitable….Becoming Cliterate does a good job questioning these basic assumptions, re-orienting us to another vision of what sex can be, and giving practical advice on how to be a boss bitch during sex.” — Feministing “Laurie Mintz, a professor of psychology at the University of Florida, wins this year’s award for best book title.” — New York Times “You’ll be reading for pleasure in more ways than one.” — Bustle “A manifesto for today’s orgasmic insurrection….Mintz is unpretentious and intuitive….Becoming Cliterate will help many women reach their orgasm objectives.” — Los Angeles Review of Books “Fun, funny, and empowering. A must-read for people with clits, especially those who are having sex with people with penises.” — Buzzfeed “Personable, witty, and easy to read … Becoming Cliterate could be considered a book for anyone with a vulva as well as anyone who is interested in having sex with someone with a vulva.” — Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy Dr. Laurie Mintz draws up biology, sociology, and sex therapy to provide a comprehensive manual for both achieving orgasm and raising awareness about female orgasm. Readers will walk away with suggestions for changing our culture of sexuality and, more specifically, female orgasm. — PsycCRITIQUES
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Chronicle Books Position of the Day
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Quarto Publishing Group USA Inc Bondage Basics: Naughty Knots and Risque
Book SynopsisPerfect for the bondage beginner or enthusiasts who want more practice or new ideas, this book will show you 52 bondage ties for many purposes and effects. Whether you're the top or bottom, dominant or submissive, male or female, this is an essential reference for your bedside table. Lord Mopheus will take you through the basics of BDSM, including the vocabulary, pop culture references, understanding types of participants, and the basics of kink culture. Once you've got that knot tied, you'll quickly learn about both Eastern and Western styles of knot-tying, and receive step-by-step guidance and full color photos so tying knots becomes quick, easy, and fun. This handy guide to bondage also covers safety considerations, how to communicate with your lover, and how to take bondage to the next level.
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Chronicle Books Position of the Day
Book SynopsisDrawn from the hilariously suggestive and wildy successful 'position of the day' e-postcards featured on Nerve.com showcases 366 different sexual positions - one for each day of the year. Executed in down- and-diry line-drawings, each position features a particularly apt caption. Humour meets impulse meets sex.
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HarperCollins Publishers Inc She Comes First The Thinking Mans Guide to
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Greenery Press The New Topping Book
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Hodder & Stoughton Mating in Captivity
Book SynopsisWhen you love someone, how does it feel? And when you desire someone, how is it different? This book looks at the story of sex in committed couples.Trade Review'An elegant sociological study, complete with erudite literary and anthropological references' * Daily Telegraph *'Reads like a cross between the works of Jacques Lacan and French Women Don't Get Fat' * The New Yorker *'At precisely the same moment that you're being shocked by her, you're also acknowledging the validity of her ideas. Perel's ideas are like the chorus of a really good pop song - instantly familiar because they resonate deeply. It's all rather terrifying in its intuitiveness and its pure rightness' * Observer *
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Jessica Kingsley Publishers Going Beyond 'The Talk': Relationships and
Book SynopsisDrawing on extensive professional and personal experience, this book offers guidance and advice on how to better communicate with 12-18-year olds about relationships and sexuality. An invaluable resource for teachers and parents, it provides you with the tools you need to feel confident and informed about how to talk about sex education at all stages.The book explores the challenges in adult-child communication about sexuality and provides helpful advice on how to establish an open and positive dialogue, covering topics like social media, porn and sexual development in UK, US and Australian contexts. Specific age-based guidance and exercises are also offered. Finally, the book ends with the Flag System for identifying 'acceptable/nonacceptable' sexual behaviour and next steps. Throughout, the book emphasizes the importance of positive sexuality education, empowering young people to make their own choices on how to enjoy their relationships and sexuality in a safe and consensual way.Trade ReviewPuberty is a crucial time in a young person's life. Preparing children for puberty is different from talking with small children about where babies come from. Fortunately this book supports you during this phase of young people's lives. 'Going beyond "The Talk"' shows how you to have an honest and open conversation about sex and sexuality at home and in school. It gives relevant facts and gives advice to overcome your embarrassment to talk about the most intimate and sensitive issues around sex. I highly recommend it! -- Doortje Braeken, former senior adviser of adolescents, gender and rights of the International Planned Parenthood Federation and International consultant for UNESCO, Plan International, Global Advisory Board for Sexual WellbeingThe life raft that helps you navigate the choppy seas of sex(uality) education for adolescents and how to talk to them about it. Thank you for giving me the understanding, insight and tools to provide the right support. I only wish my parents had read it! -- John Pope CBEThis warm, hopeful, evidence-based guide is filled with wisdom and has inclusivity at its heart. It is a must read for all adults wishing to communicate with their teenagers about relationships, sexuality, identity, and values like never before. It will challenge you and affirm you in equal measure. -- Katy Thomas, relationships and sexuality education researcher, teacher, mother of fourThis book is an eminently readable resource for anyone caring for a teenager. It gives a very clear picture of teenage development, which helps understand our own biases and how to overcome these so that our teenagers get the love, support and understanding they need. -- Arushi Singh, UN specialist on sexuality educationA highly engaging book exploring relationships, consent, respect, sexuality and identity in an accessible way. It brings together the informal learning of the home and the formal learning of schooling to provide a coherent, inclusive and joined up approach to young people's development. -- Professor Richard Woolley, University of HullThis is a unique book which successfully unifies sexuality education in school and at home. It is a practical tool for an intergenerational dialogue and addressing serious questions raised by young people. The parents and educators will find here the right words and approaches to support young people in staying safe and achieving well-being. But most of all, the reader of this book will feel the joy of sexuality education classes. -- Drashko Kostovski, IPPF European NetworkTable of ContentsIntroduction1. Being in touch2. Challenges and opportunities in discussing sexuality with adolescents3. Communicating with adolescents about sex and sexuality4. Towards a better understanding of our teenagers: Body, Brains and Sex5. The sexual lives of adolescents6. Early Adolescence (12-14+ years): What adults want to know7. Mid-Adolescence (14-16+ years): What adults want to know8. Late Adolescence (16-18+ years): What adults want to know9. "Is this OK?"10.Moving forward
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Seven Stories Press,U.S. The Hite Report: A Nationwide Study of Female
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Greenery Press SM 101 A Realistic Introduction
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Profile Books Ltd She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to
Book Synopsis'There are some fantastic books out there that men should read ... It really worked' Coleen Nolan, ITV's Loose Women Did you know that the clitoris has 8000 nerve endings, twice as many as the penis? Here is everything you've wondered about the female orgasm and how to make it happen. A witty, well-researched and revealing guide to giving your lover an orgasm every time. More than just foreplay, Ian Kerner argues that oral sex is the key to a great sex life for both partners. Short sections cover philosophy, technique, step-by-step instructions and detailed anatomical information, essential to both beginners and experienced lovers. 'It's time to close the sex gap and create a level playing field in the exchange of pleasure, and cunnilingus is far more than just a means for achieving this noble end; it's the cornerstone of a new sexual paradigm, one that exuberantly extols a shared experience of pleasure, intimacy, respect and contentment. It's also one of the greatest gifts of love a man can bestow upon a woman.' Ian KernerTrade ReviewThere are some fantastic books out there that men should read ... It really worked -- Coleen Nolan * ITV Loose Women *Before you give up on oral sex ... get yourself a copy of Ian Kerner's manifesto She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman and make sure your boyfriend reads it too ... It is a veritable paean to the art of good oral sex, packed with instructive sentences... I cannot recommend it highly enough -- Suzi Godson * The Times *Perhaps it's time we paid more than lip service to the idea of true sexual liberation, and perhaps She Comes First is just the sort of talking point we need to get us started -- Susanna Forrest * Guardian *Every man's must-read. Tell your guy to put down the remote and pick up She Comes First * Cosmopolitan *A practical, friendly, well-written guide for men who want to give better orgasms and the women who will be lining up to love them -- Cindy Chupack, Executive Producer * Sex and the City *Some women feel uncomfortable about oral sex. Others are Ian Kerner fans * The Times *An entire book written strictly for the pleasure of women by a man. Hallelujah! * Playgirl *If your man understands what's under the hood of a car better than the hood of a clitoris, this will enlighten him. -- Top Sante Health & Beauty * . *
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Broadway Books (A Division of Bantam Doubleday Dell Publishing Group Inc) The Lowdown On Going Down
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Kahboom Ltd MiumiU Teaches Japanese Shibari
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HarperCollins Publishers What Women Want Men To Know
Book SynopsisWhat makes women tick? And how can women and men use this knowledge to make a great relationship? Top relationships expert tells you howTrade ReviewReaders’ praise for Secrets About Men Every Woman Should Know: “I read this book many years ago and having just celebrated my 30th wedding anniversary feel I am in a position to confirm how brilliant this book is. It completely changed my preconceptions that I wasn’t even aware of… Barbara encouraged me to chuck ‘em out and enjoy life and enjoy my husband!” Gigi “One of the few books I’ve read which is worth its weight in gold.” Anon “Loved it. My bible.” Shurooq “Excellent… Highly recommended if you want to have a better understanding of men.” Marwa Ayad “Barbara talks to women as adults, which makes a refreshing change from a lot of relationship books.” Anon
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Inner Traditions Bear and Company The Sexual Teachings of the Jade Dragon
Book SynopsisReveals how the sexual practices of the Taoist Jade Dragon can help men achieve immortality through the enhancement of their sexual prowess.
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The School of Life Press Pillow Talk: cards for intimate conversations
Book SynopsisAlthough the pleasures of sex are well known, what is less emphasised are the pleasures of talking about sex: what feels nice, what we like to daydream about, what we long for, where our fantasies have come from. There is scarcely anything more interesting. Yet too often, we find ourselves not having as many good conversations about sex as we might. Maybe we don’t know where to start, or we think we should know it all by now. Perhaps some aspects of sex feel tricky, or there is simply not enough time to get around to talking about it. This pack of cards is designed to spark the best kind of pillow talk: the sort where we explore sex with intimacy, playfulness and intellectual curiosity. Here are sixty questions to provoke some of the best conversations possible, guaranteed to leave us with a new sense of liberation and closeness
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Profile Books Ltd Boys & Sex: Young Men on Hook-ups, Love, Porn,
Book SynopsisThe New York Times Bestseller 'Blows your mind on every page' Caitlin Moran 'Should be mandatory reading for anyone who cares about the next generation' Lori Gottlieb, New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone Peggy Orenstein broke ground with her bestselling Girls & Sex, exploring young women's right to pleasure and agency in sexual encounters. Now she turns her focus to boys with an examination of how young men are navigating sexual culture in these changing times - and what we need to do to help them. Drawing on comprehensive interviews with young men, psychologists and experts in the field, Boys & Sex dissects 'locker room talk'; pornography as the new sex education; the role of empathy; boys' understanding of hookup culture and consent; and their experience as both perpetrators and victims of sexual assault. By presenting young men's experience in all its complexity, Orenstein unravels the hidden truths, hard lessons and important realities of young male sexuality in today's world. The result is a provocative and paradigm-shifting work that offers a much-needed vision of how boys can truly move forward as better men.Trade ReviewFull of information about what young men really think and do when it comes to sex * Telegraph *Blows your mind on every page -- Caitlin MoranThe definitive book on girls, porn and hook-up culture ... reveals how teenage boys are also struggling * Sunday Times Magazine *Both an examination of sexual culture and a guide on how to improve it * Washington Post *I can't think of a more important book for our times . . . Should be mandatory reading for anyone who cares about the next generation -- Lori Gottlieb, New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to SomeonePeggy Orenstein sheds light on a sensitive and too often misunderstood issue ... Her reporting on sexuality is insightful -- Sheryl SandbergBroadly welcomed by men as well as well as women * Observer *A clear-eyed portrait of how toxic masculinity takes root-and how we must course-correct in raising our boys before it's too late * Esquire *An affirmation of hope, and an exercise in the power of listening * Salon *A sobering look at the landscape in which young men are growing up * Chicago Tribune *A stunning portrait of young men in quiet crisis * GQ *Expertly written ... A candid and fascinating portrait of young American masculinity * Publishers Weekly *A brisk, bracing read * Men’s Health *If you care even a little bit about women in the 21st century, you MUST read Peggy Orenstein's Girls & Sex * Caitlin Moran on Girls & Sex *Eye-opening and compassionate -- The Good Men Project
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Inner Traditions Bear and Company Tantric Jesus: The Erotic Heart of Early
Book Synopsis Offering a new understanding of Jesus as guru and master of left-handed Tantra, James Reho, an Episcopal priest and tantric initiate, reframes the Christian story and restores to modern Christianity the tantric wisdom practices that were edited out of church tradition and forgotten over the centuries. He explains how tantric Christianity views the human body as the primary “temple” of the Holy, with erotic energy as the signature of Divine Presence within. Rev. Reho reveals the similarities of the earliest Christian practices to the tantric yogas of India and Tibet and explores the role of Kundalini and the chakras. He details how to work with mantras, icons, and pranayama breathing exercises, as well as with gazing as a spiritual practice. Informed by the insights of ancient texts and early masters of Christian spirituality, the author provides step-by-step instructions on how to practice Christian tantric sex with a life-partner of the opposite or same sex.Trade Review“Episcopal priest Reho peels back the Platonic influence on Christianity to uncover a radical rearticulation of spiritual practice in this engrossing guide. . . . the work beautifully serves any Christ follower seeking concrete, simple suggestions for body-based spiritual practice.” * Publishers Weekly *“This is a book for our times. Deeply feminist in nature, it offers the hope of freeing Western men and women from the limitations of a sterile understanding of Christ and Christianity. This freedom is essential if we are going to heal the divisions in humanity and heal our planet from the ravages of dualistic exploitation. I highly recommend this book to anyone interested in exploring their personal experience of Christ.” * Mary Ann Whalen, LCSW, psychotherapist *“James Reho is truly on to something here. Please read this book. You will understand the great Christ yogi in a new and powerful way. You will make real use of the peace and power Jesus brought to human life.” * Mark Whitwell, author of Yoga of Heart and The Promise *“James Reho calls us into the marriage of East and West, the conjoining of Heaven and Earth, the pregnancy of spirit and matter. Tantric Jesus is a courageous call into the frightening and freeing world of oneness.” * John Philip Newell, author of The Rebirthing of God *“I welcome Tantric Jesus for its potential deep implications for the future of Christianity in dialog with Eastern spirituality. . . . James Reho helps point us in the right direction, one in which our consciousness can be raised higher, richer, and fuller as a result of a conscious and knowledgeable dialogue between the Mystery of Christ and the living tradition of Tantra through the erotic spiritual process of holy longing.” * Russill Paul, author of Jesus in the Lotus: The Mystical Doorway Between Christianity *“As an Episcopal priest and a yogi, James Reho is a bridge between cultures and spiritual traditions. Tantric Jesus, his insightful and skillful first book, likewise bridges mind and spirit, theory and practice, erudition and accessibility, passion and rationality, the sacred masculine and the sacred feminine. The book is revolutionary without losing heart.” * Christian de la Huerta, teacher, speaker, and author of Coming Out Spiritually *“A brilliantly written and tremendously inspiring treatise on Tantra. A complete revelation!” * Diana Richardson, author of The Heart of Tantric Sex *“For anyone who is longing to be transformed by the divine energies present in all of creation and the cosmos, Tantric Jesus is required reading, a sound and reliable guide for all who are traveling along the perilous but grace-filled path to the Heart of the Divine.” * The Rev. Peter Savastano, Ph.D. *“With scholarship as thorough as its topic is controversial, Tantric Jesus infuses the traditions of Christianity with the embodied practices of Hindu Tantra. . . . Do the practices in this book, and your understanding of the historical Jesus and the path of Christianity will never be the same.” * Will Johnson, author of Breathing Through the Whole Body and Eyes Wide Open *“James Reho brings out hitherto unrealized parallels between the tantric mode of the East and Christian practice in the West. The heavenly and the earthly come together in this fascinating book. As a Christian, I am richer for having read it.” * The Rev. Robert Corin Morris, D.D., Episcopal priest and founder of Interweave, Inc *Table of ContentsForeword by the Reverend Dr. Matthew Fox Acknowledgments Part I Five Roots of Christian Tantra 1 Introduction to Christian Tantra 2 The First Root The Reality and Goodness of the World 3 The Second Root Christ-Shakti as Divine Activity 4 The Third Root The Body as the Temple of God 5 The Fourth Root Eros and Antinomian Behavior 6 The Fifth Root Guru and Param-guru Part II The Practice of Christian Tantra 7 Opening the Heart Activating the Christian Energetic Synthesis Practice: The Prayer of the Heart 8 Repeating the Sacred Name Mantra, Japa, and the Jesus Prayer Practice: The Jesus Prayer 9 Engaging the Holy Image Working with Icons Practice: Emanating the Deity 10 Gazing The Eyes as Doorways into God Practice: Gazing with a Partner 11 The Washing of the Feet Opening the Channel to the Divine Practice: Sacred Foot Washing 12 Sacred Sexual Union Entering the Life of the Tantric Trinity Practice: The Sacrament of the Bridal Chamber Afterword Why Tantric Christianity Matters Notes Glossary Bibliography Index
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Inner Traditions Bear and Company Sacred Relationships: The Practice of Intimate
Book SynopsisIn this workbook, Anaiya Sophia and Padma Aon Prakasha explain how to reactivate your primal sexual expression in harmony with the Divine, navigate the waters of Divine Relationship with a partner, and ignite the alchemical process of Sacred Marriage or Hieros Gamos--union with God. Integrating shamanic, gnostic, tantric, and alchemical traditions with sacred sexual practices, including teachings from the Temples of Isis, they explore how to unite the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine energies within each of us and experience the Great Work of sexual alchemy. They explain how, when two lovers come together and abandon themselves to loving each other, they re-enact the primal union of the Cosmic Couple, Shiva and Shakti, that created the universe.Trade Review“A divine invitation to wholeness! To read this powerful book is to remember the path of Sacred Relationship. This book is a lighthouse of connection, illuminating the path for those who have momentarily forgotten their call to union. Open these pages, and the bridge will appear.” * Jeff Brown, author of An Uncommon Bond and Soulshaping *“This latest work is a true guidebook for those on the mystical and conscious path of divine loving. The authors seamlessly bring together deep esoteric wisdom with practical application for those on the path--whether single or coupled. The practices, with expanded wisdom and spiritual meaning, allow those called to go deeper into heart and soul-centered loving. A must-read for divine lovers everywhere!” * Heather Strang, spiritual teacher and author of The Quest: A Tale of Desire & Magic *“This amazing book provides profound insight into the new paradigm of relationships in a way I’ve never seen before. The authors expertly navigate through the often confounding subject to reach the core of the Divine Human experience. Through these 72 pearls of wisdom you’ll discover your own relationship with divinity and your perfect partner.” * James F. Twyman, peace troubadour and author of The Moses Code *Table of ContentsAcknowledgments Preface by Anaiya Sophia Preface by Padma Aon Prakasha Introduction: How to Use This Book Book of Wisdom Attributes of the Divine Feminine Benevolence Birthing Blessing Comfort Compassion Devotion Elegance Gratitude Joy Kindness Mother Nature Openness Passion Queen Sexuality Surrender Transmutation Virgin Wisdom Women's Holy Yoni Womb Book of Truth Attributes of the Divine Masculine Aloneness Consciousness Decisive Discernment Drive Faith Father Fearless Freedom Generator Giving Guidance Honor Intelligence King Man's Holy Lingam Orchestrator Pillar Power Responsibility Truth Victory Book of Alchemy Attributes of Divine Marriage Alchemy Commitment Communication Container Creation Divine Love Embodiment Feelings Friendship Holy Desire Humility Inner Child Integrity Listening Prayer Rapture Sacred Contribution Self-Love Sensuality Sovereignty Transparency Trust Parting Words from Anaiya Parting Words from Padma Index About the Authors
£13.59
Atria Books The Sex Talks Deck
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Profile Books Ltd The Concise Seduction
Book SynopsisThe companion book to the bestselling Concise 48 Laws of Power, which has now sold over 125,000 copies in the UK. Amoral, ruthless, clever and cunning, this is the essential guide to the art of seduction.Trade Review'What Greene does so masterfully is take us on a fascinating trip into the psyches of the great seducers and offer a wealth of strategies for those who might like to dabble in the murky waters of manipulation themselves. One by one he exposes the techniques of behaviour control used by and against all of us in every area of our lives from business to bedroom. But it is when he explores the scheming psyche of the sexual predator that he is at his most compelling.' - Daily Mail 'It unearths the two sides of seduction: the characters and the process. The book prepares you for the ultimate seduction: your boss.' - Fran Cutler, the Daily Express
£9.49
Inner Traditions Bear and Company Sexual Reflexology
Book SynopsisThe most powerful reflex points on the body are on the sexual organs. While the practice of reflexology is normally associated with massage of the feet, in Sexual ReflexologyMantak Chia gives applications for using the sexual reflex points in lovemaking, transforming sexual intercourse into a form of ecstatic acupressure. By combining the classic Taoist sexual texts with modern reflexology theory, the author provides a unique opportunity for couples to practice sexual intimacy as an act of healing. Mantak Chia shows how to evaluate a person''s sexual energy potential as well as how the size and shape of the sexual organs determine a couple''s compatibility. In addition to the specific ecstatic acupressure exercise instructions, he provides thoughtful commentary on ancient Taoist practices that reveal how we can all use our sexual essence to create healthy and loving relationships.Trade Review"Explicit illustrations, insightful text and titillating techniques from 14th-century Chinese texts bring innovative fitness possibilities into the bedchamber." * Nexus, March/April 2004 *"With the high incidence of perversion, abuse, and exploitation in our time, it is refreshing to see sexuality being celebrated and brought forward as a healing element." * Claus Sproll, Liliopoh the spirit in life, Issue 37 Vol. 9, Fall 2004 *"[Chia] provides a unique opportunity for couples to practice sexual intimacy as an act of healing." * Branches of Light, Spring-Summer-Fall 2005 *"Mantak Chia and William U. Wei note early in the book that Daoists regard the use of sexual energy not as a moral but as a health issue. They explore and explain the yin and yang of the sexes that leaves so many confused and dismayed. . . . It goes into great depth about physiological aspects of reflexology, sexual exercise, and general compatability, and details a range of practices and postures that address the health and general well-being of sexual partners." * Reg Little, New Dawn, No. 116, Sep/Oct 2009 *Table of ContentsSexual ReflexologyActivating the Taoist Points of LovePutting Sexual Reflexology into PracticeAcknowledgmentsIntroduction The Universal Tao The Healing Love Practice The Importance of Meditation in Sexual Reflexology Microcosmic Orbit Directing Sexual Energy Special Note for Women ReadersChapter 1 Male and Female Energy Yin and YangChapter 2 Sexual Energy: A Taoist Perspective Sexuality, Energy, and Relationships History of Sexual ReflexologyChapter 3 Reflexology Compatibility of the Penis and Vaginal Canal Ring Muscles Exercising the Ring MusclesChapter 4 Sexual Healing Positions Eight Sexual Healing Positions for Men Seven Sexual Healing Positions for Women Exchange of Energy as a Sexual Healing PrayerChapter 5 Sexual Energizing Postures Hand Positions Use Eye Movements in Healing Love Postures Healing Love Couples Energize the Senses Healing Love Postures for Universal Tao Practices Energizing Postures with Eight Healing BenefitsChapter 6 Ejaculation and Menstrual Cycle Management Ejaculation Management Regulating Ejaculation Frequency Mastering the Techniques of Controlled Contact Ejaculatory Control Practice Breathing Exercise Buttocks Exercise Warming the Stove (for Men) Menstrual Cycle Management Ovary Massage Breast Massage Egg Exercises and Vaginal Weight Lifting Egg Exercise Vaginal Weight Lifting Physical Sexercises Shaking the Testicles and the Breasts Spiraling Hip and Tailbone (for Men and Women) Secret Taoist Method of Urination (for Men and Women) Sun Practice (for Men and Women)Chapter 7 Sexual Reflexology and Physical Characteristics Taoist Sexual Terms Facial Features Lips Eyes Eyebrows Space between the Eyebrows Teeth Jawlines Cheeks Ears Nose Male Facial Features Summarized Female Facial Features Summarized Massaging the Face Hands and Fingers Fingers of a Man Fingers of a Woman Massaging the Hands Hair Neck Breasts Buttocks Female BodyChapter 8 Compatibility Compatibility for Life Lovemaking EnergyChapter 9 Sexercises Breathing Sexercises Deep Abdominal Breathing (for Men and Women) Energy Breathing (for Men and Women) Sexercises Massage Testicle Massage Tapping the Dragon Pearls (for Men) Penis Power Stretching Hot Hands Warm-Up Vaginal Stretch Use Visualization to Increase Sexual Energy Sexual Organs and the Brain PC Muscle and Milking Exercises Chi Muscle PC Chi Muscle Exercises Testicle Stretching Exercise Power Milking Milking and HoldingChapter 10 Internal Organs and the Five Elements Kidneys and the Water Element Female Kidney Energy Kidney Massage Massage the Ears Heart and the Fire Element Tongue Kung Fu Massage the Chest to Open the Heart Lungs and the Metal Element Massage the Lung Points Liver and the Wood Element Massage the Feet Spleen and the Earth Element Massage the AbdomenChapter 11 Secret Art of the Jade Chamber Arcane Maid's Original Nine Postures Mystical Thirty PosturesForeplayChapter 12 Romancing the Moon Grotto Foreplay Nine Major Love Points Erotic Massage Caressing the Moon Grotto Caressing the Jade Stalk Love Games Three FountainsAfterwordGlossaryBibliographyIndexAbout the AuthorsThe Universal Tao System and Training Center
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St Martin's Press Love Worth Making
Book SynopsisWinner, Nautilus Gold Book Award for Relationships and Communication.Can sex survive monogamy? Yes, once you understand how sexual emotions really work.This award-winning, paradigm-shifting guide turns traditional sex therapy inside-out to reveal the hidden rules for great sex. Gentle, compassionate, and filled with compelling stories from Dr. Stephen Snyder's thirty years as a sex therapist working with over 1,500 individuals and couples, Love Worth Making is essential reading for anyone hoping to keep sexual inspiration alive in a committed relationship.
£15.30
Skyhorse Publishing You and Your Gender Identity: A Guide to
Book SynopsisAre you wrestling with questions surrounding your gender that just don’t seem to go away? Do you want answers to questions about your gender identity, but aren’t sure how to get started?In this groundbreaking guide, Dara Hoffman-Fox, LPC—accomplished gender therapist and thought leader whose articles, blogs, and videos have empowered thousands worldwide—helps you navigate your journey of self-discovery in three approachable stages: preparation, reflection, and exploration.In You and Your Gender Identity, you will learn: Why understanding your gender identity is core to embracing your full being How to sustain the highs and lows of your journey with resources, connection, and self-care How to uncover and move through your feelings of fear, loneliness, and doubt Why it’s important to examine your past through the lens of gender exploration How to discover and begin living as your authentic self What options you have after making your discoveries about your gender identity This unique, interactive guide can help you answer the questions you’ve been asking yourselfTrade Review“What sets You and Your Gender Identity: A Guide to Discovery apart is its interactive nature . . . it is an invaluable experience.” —Sally Bend, Bending the Bookshelf “Dara’s comprehensive guide presents a detailed walk-through of the process of more firmly establishing your gender . . . With an impressively detailed toolkit of exercises, Dara’s book has the potential to streamline and accelerate this process in an extraordinary fashion. This is the book I wish I had on hand when I felt helpless in the face of my anxiety about my changing body.” —Zinnia Jones “I wish a book like You and Your Gender Identity: A Guide to Discovery had been available when I began to question my gender identity . . . Had I been exposed to the concepts found within these pages back then, I might have been spared some of the intrapersonal and interpersonal struggles that ensued.” —Zander Keig, LCSW“What sets You and Your Gender Identity: A Guide to Discovery apart is its interactive nature . . . it is an invaluable experience.” —Sally Bend, Bending the Bookshelf “Dara’s comprehensive guide presents a detailed walk-through of the process of more firmly establishing your gender . . . With an impressively detailed toolkit of exercises, Dara’s book has the potential to streamline and accelerate this process in an extraordinary fashion. This is the book I wish I had on hand when I felt helpless in the face of my anxiety about my changing body.” —Zinnia Jones “I wish a book like You and Your Gender Identity: A Guide to Discovery had been available when I began to question my gender identity . . . Had I been exposed to the concepts found within these pages back then, I might have been spared some of the intrapersonal and interpersonal struggles that ensued.” —Zander Keig, LCSW
£11.69
Murdoch Books Great sex starts at 50: How to age-proof your
Book Synopsis"What a book. Slip between these covers. Satisfaction guaranteed."Kathy Lette, international bestselling writer and author of Puberty Blues, Mad Cows and The Boy Who Fell to EarthGet ready for the ride of your lifeFifty-plus looks nothing like it used to. Fitter, healthier, many of us hit half a century with little sign of slowing down. And yet...there's no denying that something happens to us sexually at 50. The menopause brings with it a whole slew of challenges, from bottomed-out libidos to painful sex, weight gain and body image issues. Many men grapple with erectile dysfunction and the mixed blessing that is Viagra. Toss in dodgy knees, stiff backs and fatigue and sex can become a source of stress rather than pleasure. Other challenges go beyond the physical: how do you ignite desire after decades with the same person? And what if you (or your partner) simply no longer wants to have sex?Happily, information and enthusiasm are all it takes to reclaim a robust sex life, whatever your situation. Let international sex expert Tracey Cox navigate you through what's actually happening to your body and what you can do about it. She'll show you how to age-proof your libido and stop comparing the sex you had when you were young with the sex you have now; how to arouse yourself and your partner (hello, sex toys!), how to flirt (remember?), how to create the perfect conditions for sex, what to do when infidelity visits, how to navigate sex when you're fifty- (or sixty- or seventy-) something and single, and so much more. Using a blend of research, case histories and personal anecdotes, Great Sex Starts at 50 is real, reassuring, honest, funny and most of all empowering. This is not about trying to stay young, or turning back the clock-it's about being the best version of yourself so you can live the second half of your life as happily as the first.Trade Review"Oh, OH, OHHH!!!!!!!! what a book. Slip between these covers. Satisfaction guaranteed." Kathy Lette, author of 11 international bestsellers, including Puberty Blues, Mad Cows and The Boy Who Fell to Earth.Table of ContentsIntroductionChapter 1: Five things that will revolutionise your sex lifeChapter 2: How to age-proof your libidoChapter 3: But I don't feel sexy anymoreChapter 4: The motherf*cker that is menopauseChapter 5: I love my partner, but don't want to have sex with them anymoreChapter 6: Women don't have a low libido, we're bored!Chapter 7: How to have (hot) sex without an erectionChapter 8: Why sex toys can solve most of your problemsChapter 9: How to survive in a sexless relationshipChapter 10: Affairs: Yours, theirs and dealing with the falloutChapter 11: Fiftysomething and singleReferencesFurther ReadingAcknowledgementsIndex
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Greystone Books,Canada Better Sex Through Mindfulness: How Women Can
Book SynopsisAS SEEN IN “THE PRINCIPLES OF PLEASURE” ON NETFLIXALSO FEATURED IN BUSTLE • DAN SAVAGE LOVECAST • JEZEBEL • NEW YORK TIMESFind out how mindfulness is the key to cultivating desire, increasing sexual pleasure, and finding joy in intimacy.Studies show that approximately half of all women experience some kind of sexual difficulty at one point in their lives, with lack of interest in sex being by far the most common―and the most distressing. And when sex suffers, so do all other areas of life.But it doesn’t have to be that way. In Better Sex through Mindfulness, acclaimed psychologist and sex researcher Lori A. Brotto offers a revolutionary approach to improving desire, arousal, and satisfaction inside―and outside of―the bedroom. A pioneer in the use of mindfulness for treating sexual difficulties, Brotto has helped hundreds of women cultivate more exciting, fulfilling sexual experiences.In this accessible, relatable book, she explores the various reasons for sexual problems, such as stress and incessant multitasking, and tells the stories of many of the women she has treated over the years. She also provides easy, effective exercises that readers can do on their own to increase desire and sexual enjoyment, whether their goal is to overcome a sexual difficulty or simply give their love life a boost.Trade Review"A masterpiece and masterclass in female sexuality."―Ian Kerner, New York Times-bestselling author of She Comes First
£12.34
Simon & Schuster Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will
Book SynopsisThe definitive guide to creating the sex life of your wildest dreams—just by talking about it!—from sexpert couple Vanessa and Xander Marin. INSTANT NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER AARP.org Books to Improve Your Love LifeWhy is it so hard to talk about sex, even with the person who regularly sees you naked? You know communication is important in a relationship, but you just don’t know how to get started with such a sensitive subject. Maybe you’ve never talked about sex at all, and the thought of it makes your palms sweat. Or you’re feeling so disconnected from your partner that sex is the last thing on your mind. Maybe you’re too scared to be honest about what you really want. Or you have no freaking clue what you want, so you’re not sure how to tell your partner anything helpful! Sex Talks “helps us overcome the myths that drag us down” (John Gottman, New York Times bestselling author of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work). Together, sex therapist Vanessa Marin and her husband, Xander, show you that the best thing you can do for your sex life doesn’t even involve taking off your clothes. Sex Talks covers the five essential conversations every couple needs to have: 1. Acknowledgement: a.k.a. “Sex is a thing, and we have it.” 2. Connection: a.k.a. “What do we need to feel connected to each other?” 3. Desire: a.k.a. “What do we each need to get turned on?” 4. Pleasure: a.k.a. “What do we each need to feel good?” 5. Exploration: a.k.a. “What should we try next?” With gripping storytelling and an intimate peek at what really goes on behind other couples’ closed bedroom doors, Vanessa and Xander share their successful advice that has already helped thousands of clients. Sex Talks “redefines what it means to have great sex” (Logan Ury, author of How to Not Die Alone), providing the sex education you wish you’d had, plus the tried-and-tested tools you need to create the sex life of your wildest dreams.
£15.19
Mystic Productions Essence of Shibari: Kinbaku and Japanese Rope
Book SynopsisThe art of kinbaku, also known as shibari, is an elegant way to connect with a partner or add erotic spice in your life. Japanese-style bondage artist Shin Nawakiri shares his safe, sexy, and beautiful techniques in this newly-translated book, which contains numerous ties for the beginner artist and for intermediate or advanced players, including: sensual body wrapping without knots, binding one wrist or body column, body harnesses, futomomo (thigh ties), and takate kote (chest and arm binding). Explore the history of kinbaku, practical shibari for graceful and steamy play, the psychology of bondage (for those tying and those being bound), and more. Now is your time to enjoy this delicious form—learning from a renowned rope artist in the privacy of your home.
£19.76
Inner Traditions Bear and Company Yoni Massage: Awakening Female Sexual Energy
Book Synopsis"Yoni" is the Sanskrit word for the female genitalia, describing not only the anatomy but also encompassing the energetic and spiritual dimensions. While a Yoni massage offers women the opportunity to enhance their sexuality, Michaela Riedl shows that the effects of this practice are much more profound and have ramifications affecting every area of life. Long held inhibitions in the West about sexuality and the shame and guilt associated with the sexual zones of the body have created deep-seated barriers that prevent individuals from fully expressing themselves. The practices provided in YONI MASSAGE are designed to allow women to overcome these barriers and reconnect to their innermost core and deepest feminine nature. Yoni massage is not simply a hands-on technique but involves the conscious direction of energy throughout the body through deep breathing and visualization. It gives women the ability to cleanse and energetically stimulate the charkas as well as achieve emotional healing by releasing the traumatic pain that often becomes seated in the Yoni. The author explains that the relegation of this important spiritual and energetic center to a 'private part' hinders the process of enlightenment. Once women are able to be in touch with their yoni energy, their connection to the entire web of life is restored to its rightful place. · Provides emotional healing by releasing traumatic memories stored in the yoni · Includes exercises that use sexual energy to cleanse and stimulate the chakrasTrade Review"Yoni massage offers women the opportunity to enhance their sexuality and is actually a long-held practice. . . . new age and health collections will find it intriguing." * The Midwest Book Review, June 2009 *Table of ContentsPREFACE Introduction 1 Female Sexuality EXPLORING THE YONI Touching the Labia Touching the Clitoris Massaging the Goddess Spot Exercise for the Muscles of the Pelvic Floor Massaging the Uterus Entering into Energetic Contact with the Uterus Entering into Energetic Contact with the Ovaries GENDER SIMILARITIES IN ANATOMY AND SEXUALITY MOON TIME--THE FEMALE CYCLE Encountering Menstruation THE FEMALE ORGASM Exercises to Increase Desire Exercises with the Yoni Egg The Self-Love Ritual 2 Energetic and Spiritual Basics YIN AND YANG Becoming Conscious of the Energy Cycle in the Body Becoming Aware of the Flow of Energy in the Yoni THE CHAKRAS Cleaning and Energetically Stimulating the Chakras BREATHING AND CONSCIOUSNESS Preparatory Breathing Exercises Deep Pelvic Breathing Chest Breathing Upper Chest or Collarbone Breathing Combined Breathing Alternate-Nostril Breathing The Tantric Breath of Fire BREATHING DURING YONI MASSAGE Breathing in the Microcosmic Orbit Experiencing the Big Draw A BRIEF INTRODUCTION TO THE WORLD OF TANTRA 3 The Yoni Massage THE REFLEXOLOGY ZONES OF THE YONI THE YONI MASSAGE--PHASE BY PHASE Phase 1: Honoring the Shakti Phase 2: The Preparatory Full-Body Massage Phase 3: Awakening Desire Phase 4: Opening the Yoni Flower Phase 5: Stimulating the Pearl Phase 6: Entering the Temple Phase 7: Stimulating the Goddess Spot Phase 8: The Finale Phase 9: Saying Farewell CONCLUDING THOUGHTS Appendix Experience Reports The Origin and History of Yoni Massage Notes Further Reading Acknowledgments About the Author Index
£14.24
Hay House UK Ltd Tantra Made Easy: Discover the Path from Sex to
Book SynopsisAn introductory guide to the sacred sexuality practices of Tantra and how you can weave them together to create wholeness in your life. Tantra is often described as the 'path of love' or 'the way of the heart'. It is a spiritual path that brings apparent opposites into unity so that life can flow with ease. Sexuality is fused with spirituality, masculine with feminine, playfulness with depth, and the dark shadows of the psyche with the light of conscious awareness. And the catalyst for this union is love. In this book, sacred sexuality teacher Shashi Solluna explains how Tantric practices can help you become fully alive and move from sex to spirit and from spirit to sex in a creative dance of life. You will learn: - the philosophy of Tantra as a spiritual path - different ways to explore your own sexuality - techniques to open your heart and cultivate sacred relationships - how to activate your sexual energy and experience a richer, more fulfilling sex life - how to unite the physical with higher spiritual consciousness through intimacy, sensuality and orgasm This title was previously published under the title Tantra (Hay House Basics series).
£10.79
Tarcher/Putnam,US Art of Sexual Magic Cultivating Sexual Energy to
Book SynopsisI recommend The Art of Sexual Magic to all those who want to know from the depth of their own being that sexual ecstasy and exaltation of the spirit are the same experience in different disguises.--Deepak ChopraRestoring a sense of sacred significance to the act of lovemaking, the practice of sexual magic also enables couples to celebrate the highest form of erotic communication. Sexuality becomes a way to honor both physical instincts and spiritual yearnings. A world-renowned expert in the field of Tantric sexuality, Anand sensitively guides readers through a series of unique exercises, many of which are based on ancient erotic rituals. In the process, readers will become sexual magicians, gaining enchanting new powers that are magically accessible to every man and woman. Beautifully illustrated, with more than sixty explanatory drawings, The Art of Sexual Magic is a life-changing book for those who seek to discover the magic potential of sexual energy
£17.85
Llewellyn Publications,U.S. Love Sex and Awakening
Book SynopsisShares the unique adventures of a true Tantric pioneer
£16.19
Quarto Publishing Group USA Inc Bondage mini book
Book SynopsisThe Bondage mini book is filled with everything you need to know about the basics of bondage, including 32 sexy knots and all in one petite mini-book. Whether you’re male or female, top or bottom, dominant or submissive, this pocket guide to bondage has the rope tying techniques you need to know for a wild and fun night. This quick and handy reference takes you through the basics of BDSM, tying techniques, safety considerations, and an overview of kink culture. With easy-to-follow, step-by-step photographs, you can use these restraints and ties with your partner tonight. Embrace your kinky side with the Bondage mini book!
£8.99
HarperCollins Publishers Inc The Erotic Mind
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£15.99
