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Curtis Press Sexual Perversions and Paraphilias An A to Z
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£18.95
North Atlantic Books,U.S. Cupid's Poisoned Arrow: From Habit to Harmony in
Book Synopsis“If you want to be a better lover and have an amazing relationship (now or in the future), Cupid''s Poisoned Arrow is a must-read.” —real reader review Eyes met, sparks flew—all fireworks and passion. In the beginning, it felt like magic…but somewhere along the way, the flame burnt out. That cute quirk you used to love doesn’t seem so cute anymore. The connection and fire that brought you together are lost—and you may feel hurt, unsure, or disconnected. You might be trying in vain to change your partner. You may even resign yourself to a passionless fate.Ancient sages recognized the lull in intimacy, passion, and connection that happens in even the most solid relationships—and hinted at the ways we can overcome it. With an entertaining blend of personal experiences, neuroscientific research, and amorous insights from around the world, Cupid’s Poisoned Arrow shows that we can use lovemaking to balance one another—and let harmony arise naturally.Here, you’ll discover the twenty-one Exchanges, a series of intimacy-building activities that can help you and your partner connect on a deeper level. These exchanges speak directly to the part of your brain that can fall in love—and stay in love—and are based on touch, eye contact, and attentiveness.By focusing on generous pampering rather than self-stimulation, you can create a nourishing cocoon of comfort and safety…and deepen your connection through bonding-based intimacy. Incorporating the principles of yin and yang, the Exchanges offer a balanced approach that emphasizes giving and receiving to spark a fulfilling sexual connection between you and your partner.Discover why real readers are saying “It works!” and “I wish I had read this book 10 years ago.” You’ll never look back.
£15.29
Octopus Publishing Group The Little Book of Kama Sutra
Book SynopsisLet’s get it on! Make your love life sizzle with this collection of mind-blowing sex positions inspired by the classic Eastern book of erotica. With positions ranging from slow and sensual to frisky and fun, this book features all the classics as well as adventurous new positions to try. You’ll never want to go back to missionary again. The original Kama Sutra was an ancient text that provided insights into finding happiness and fulfilment with your partner – but it also depicted varied sexual positions and techniques, for a satisfying sex life. Saving you from spending your vital energy on wading through any non-raunchy teachings, this little book contains a hand-picked selection of the best and most exhilarating positions for any kind of mood. Find out all about such delights as: The Lap of Luxury The Glowing Triangle The Splitting Bamboo The Crouching Tiger The Ascent to Desire May this book help you to open your mind (as well as your legs). Remember – make love, not war!
£6.64
Cornerstone Women On Top
Book SynopsisNancy Friday''s sexually and socially empowering international bestsellers My Secret Garden and Forbidden Flowers revealed that women possess erotic imaginations at least as inventive and powerful as those of men. Women on Top looks at a new generation of women and asks: what are women''s sexual fantasies today? How have they responded to the changes brought about by feminism, and the sexual freedom it provided? In a world wallpapered with erotic images, but which still denies them full sexual freedom, women are more determined than ever that they''ll be ''nice girls'' no longer. Explicit, iconoclastic, often shocking, these erotic stories - angry, lustful, tender and dark - blow apart the old social and sexual taboos. Nothing is forbidden.
£10.44
Racehorse Kama Sutra: The Book of Sex Positions
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£11.69
Rizzoli International Publications Paradise Found
Book SynopsisFor those who desire to expand their amorous repertoire and a lush visual complement to the groundbreaking Boudoir Bible.A celebrated pioneer in the field of sexology and erotic design, Vernon unlocks the secrets of the sensual realm, taking us on a visual journey to a sexual paradise. This enlightening, luxurious tome features Vernon’s renowned “jewel-tools”—artisanal erotic jewelry and instruments of ecstasy of her own design coveted by collectors around the world—alongside extensive advice on their use to reach new levels of pleasure. The mysteries of the tantalizing ascent to paradise unfold as we are invited to explore empowerment through the sleek chains and cuffs of “Sado-Chic.” “Orchestrating the Senses,” “Tickle Your Fantasies,” “Erecting the Temple,” and “Role Play” heighten anticipation within the boudoir. “Intimate Bonds” and “Scepte
£16.98
Grand Central Publishing Thank You More Please
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£21.75
Pan Macmillan How To Think More About Sex
Book SynopsisAlain de Botton is the author of the international bestsellers, How Proust Can Change Your Life, The Art of Travel and Religion for Atheists, and other books that try to throw light on the big challenges of our lives. He is the founder of Living Architecture, a social enterprise which gets top architects to build holiday homes for rental by anyone. He is also founder of The School of Life, for which this series has been designed.The School of Life is a London-based enterprise that is dedicated to the most useful ideas relevant to the dilemmas of everyday life. We consider questions like: How can we fulfil our potential? Can work be inspiring? Why does community matter? Can relationships last a lifetime? We don't have all the answers, but we will direct you towards a variety of useful ideas from philosophy to literature, psychology to the visual arts that are guaranteed to stimulate, provoke, nourish and console.Trade ReviewIntelligent, non-self-helpy, yet immensely helpful guides to modern living. * New York Times *The School of Life offers radical ways to help us raid the treasure trove of human knowledge. * Independent on Sunday *
£9.49
Green Candy Foundations Of Rope Bondage
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£30.59
Unbound Playing to Lose: How a Jehovah's Witness Became a
Book SynopsisIn this bold and intimate memoir Ariel Anderssen charts her journey from a strict religious upbringing as a Jehovah’s Witness to her current position as one of the most widely recognised BDSM performers in the world. Her route between the two includes a period as a wretchedly miserable, teenage political activist, a phase touring with a Christian theatre group, and accidentally discovering a talent for posing for art nude photography. This surprising and unconventional career path led her to a life-altering introduction to BDSM-themed erotic artwork and a whole world she never imagined existing.This is a book about BDSM, and about sexuality, but most of all it is about one woman’s struggle for self-acceptance and the rewards that come from confronting who you are with honesty and compassion.TRIGGER WARNING: this book contains descriptions of sexual violence that some readers may find upsettingTrade Review'In Playing to Lose, Ariel Anderssen creates an erudite and witty insight into the world of BDSM modelling, but more than that, it is a deeply felt exploration of freedom: what it takes to be free, and what it looks like' Ali Millar, author of The Last Days'Moving and heartfelt, an utterly brilliant whirlwind of a book' Rebecca Reid, author of The Power of Rude'Often hilarious, frequently moving, sometimes disturbing and even harrowing, above all fearlessly honest, Playing to Lose guides us through a journey from repression to liberation that may well liberate the reader too. It’s a brave book by a brave writer, full of challenges and insights. Like all good writing, it makes us look again at things we thought we knew or took for granted, and to some readers it may reveal a world they never knew existed or one they hoped was real' Ramsey Campbell, author of The Lonely Lands
£13.49
Skyhorse Publishing Kosher Sex: A Recipe for Passion and Intimacy
Book SynopsisGreat sex consists entirely of motions, Kosher Sex consists of motions that elicit lasting emotions. Great sex is an undertaking of two separate bodies, Kosher Sex is two halves of the same whole. Twenty-five years ago, Rabbi Shmuley Boteach's celebrated international bestseller Kosher Sex changed how we view and approach sex, marriage, erotic attraction, and personal relationships by drawing on traditional Jewish wisdom. Based on his extensive experience counseling individuals and couples, the author breaks down sexual taboos and openly yet respectfully discusses the meanings, emotions, and hidden power of sex. With his unique anecdotal style, Rabbi Boteach illustrates each and every point, using real couples who have discovered the joys of "kosher sex"—sex that blends passion and lovers—and suggests revolutionary ways of synthesizing the best that each has to offer. When half of all marriages fail and one third are sexless and platonic, Kosher Sex has an astonishing and electrifying impact. Trade Review"Boteach possesses the power to surprise as much as he does to preach. . . Sure to set off firecrackers in traditional Jewish circles...Provocative."—Publishers Weekly "Jewish teachings on sex for a wider public: Jewish, Gentile, atheist, and anyone else who cares to listen."—Time "Proves that sex can be both holy and hot."—USA Today "He's Dr. Ruth with a yarmulke."—Washington Post “Rabbi Shmuley penetrates the veil shrouding American sexuality to highlight that eroticism is the thrilling desire to comprehend the mystery of life and attach ourselves to the source of all being.” —Mehmet Oz, M.D., author of YOU: The Owner’s Manual
£19.00
HarperCollins Publishers The Big O The ultimate sex and relationship guide
Book SynopsisThe reigning sex and relationship guru of Twitter' VOGUEAre you ready to have the best sex of your life?Oloni Twitter's famous sex and relationships educator is on a mission to empower women to explore, express and embrace their sensual, sexy selves.The ultimate sex-positive manifesto will show you how to reclaim and pursue your sexual desires, sensuality, autonomy, and pleasure. By breaking down taboos, rejecting shame, and refusing repression, we can all harness the power of sexual freedom and start enjoying the sex life we've always dreamt of.With infectious energy, honesty, and humour, The Big O gives women a space to celebrate topics and conversations that have historically only been whispered behind closed doors. This book will inspire you and educate you on how to communicate with your partner (and yourself!) to have the best sex of your life, as well as debunking taboos and delving deep into important topics that need bringing into the spotlight; from masturbation and sexTrade Review‘The internet’s favourite agony aunt’ Stylist ‘The voice of female sexual empowerment’ New Statesman
£13.49
Greenery Press The Seductive Art Of Japanese Bondage
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£22.94
Aleph Book Company THE ARTS OF SEDUCTION: The 21st century guide to
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£11.99
Hearst Cosmo's Truth or Dare: Our Naughtiest Sex Game
Book SynopsisThis naughty spin on the classic Truth or Dare game features 120 enticing cards in a box. You and your sweetie simply take turns picking from the deck and choosing a spicy "Truth" or an edgy "Dare". Whichever one you choose...the results will be sizzling HOT! More sexy fun from Cosmo! This naughty spin on the classic Truth or Dare game features 120 enticing cards in a box; you and your sweetie simply take turns picking from the deck and choosing a spicy "Truth" or an edgy "Dare." Truth: What is the strangest thing that has ever turned you on? Dare: Lick your lips in the steamiest way possible. Whichever one you choose...the results will be sizzling HOT! Do you dare to play?
£7.99
Inner Traditions Bear and Company Tantric Kali: Secret Practices and Rituals
Book SynopsisAccording to traditions going back to pre-Vedic times, Kali sprang from the third eye of the Goddess Durga as a destructive and terrifying manifestation of feminine power sent to lay waste to the forces of evil. Throughout India to this day, Kali is worshipped as the destroyer of bondage, capable of liberating her devotee from all rules and subjugation. In The Tantric Kali, Daniel Odier presents the mythology, practices, and rituals of Kali worship in the Tantric Kaula tradition within Kashmiri Shaivism. He reveals the practices of Vamachara, commonly known as the Left-hand Path but more accurately translated as the Path of Shakti. In this tradition the body itself is Kali’s temple, and it is therefore unnecessary to reject or deny the body to know union with the divine. Instead, nothing is regarded as pure or impure and there is complete freedom from rules. Focused on working directly with forbidden emotions and behaviors, this path allows the seeker to transcend obstacles to liberation through sexual union. According to the Kaula Upanishad, “In your behavior do the opposite to what the norms dictate but remain in consciousness.” This is the essence of Tantra. Kali is absolute reality: manifested as woman intoxicated by desire, she frees the tantric practitioner from all desire except union with the divine.Trade Review“Tantric Kali provides depth as we are guided through mythology, ritual, visualization, and life teachings to have a direct experience of Shakti from the wisdom teachings of the Kaula path. Daniel offers another treasure from the heart of his realization—steeped in his lineage with translations of the oldest ritual to Kali--songs and hymns and truly transformative practices and meditations direct from the root. A full-spectrum offering, this is the birth of another Odier classic. Daniel is one of the extraordinary and skillful practitioner teacher-scholar-writers of our time. Tantric Kali is juicy, liberating, radical, and exquisite and offers a unique compendium of tantric Kali sadhana accessible to all.” * Shiva Rea, yogini, founder of Samudra Global School for Living Yoga, and author of Tending the Heart *Table of ContentsPreface IntroductionKali and the Tantric Path1 Kali's Origins and Symbolism2 The Kaula Tradition 3 Preliminary Practices of the Kaula Tradition 4 The Nirrutara Tantra Scripture That Is Superior to All Others5 The Rituals of Kali and the Sacred Union 6 Advancing on the Kaula Path Meditation on the Eight Chakras, the Yoginis’Ultimate Practice of the Heart, and the Devouring of Inner Demons7 Hymns and Songs in Praise of Kali NotesBibliography Index About the Author
£11.39
Light Technology,U.S. Making Love to God: The Path to Divine Sex
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£17.85
Celestial Arts Lesbian Sex: 101 Lovemaking Positions
Book SynopsisWOMEN DO IT BETTER Take your lover on a Joyride. Dip into Priscilla’s Punchbowl, Tongue and Groove, and Toast Her Oven like never before. Discover 101 ways to caress, rub, lick, suck, grind, and slip inside with this groundbreaking collection of lovemaking positions for women who love women. Exploring the possibilities of every erogenous zone, this lesbian Kama Sutra offers deliciously inventive ideas for women to pleasure themselves and each other, including Gilding the Lily, Peach Gobbler, Hanky Spanky, Girl Wrap, Velvet Rope, and many more. One position will tease and delight her, another will intensify or prolong arousal, and still another will culminate in mind-blowing—and even dual—orgasms. Illustrated throughout with tantalizing, sensual photography, Lesbian Sex brings lovemaking to new heights of daring, intimacy, and ecstasy.
£14.44
Simon And Schuster Group USA The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio 2nd Ed
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£17.24
Inner Traditions Bear and Company Tantric Sex for Men: Making Love a Meditation
Book SynopsisFulfilling sex nourishes love, increases vitality, and boosts mental health. Unfortunately, prevailing attitudes about male sexuality and what is good sex work against these innate features by focusing on the excitement of ejaculation as the one and only goal. Using the tantric guidelines they have practiced for more than 25 years, Diana and Michael Richardson show men how to move beyond their preconceptions of sex as a goal-oriented--and often unintentionally stressful--event so they can relax into sex as a meditative union of complementary energies. They explain how retaining semen allows for increased vitality and extended lovemaking sessions and show the relationship-strengthening benefits of deep, sustained penetration. They also explain how to perform soft penetration and how to avoid premature ejaculation. Tantric Sex for Menincludes tried-and-true foreplay approaches, diagrams of sexual position sequences, ways to increase sexual sensitivity through awareness, and how to have ecstatic experiences through reaching a woman’s body on a sexually deeper level. The authors also demonstrate how the sexual organs can be used to heal both men and women physically, emotionally, and spiritually.Trade Review“Diana and Michael Richardson’s Tantric Sex for Men is a New Age sexual ‘how-to’ for men. Based largely on their many years of experience leading retreat seminars for couples, together with their commitment to Osho’s teachings on neo-tantra and sexuality, their latest book is a refreshingly honest and timely presentation. This book will be especially helpful to men who wish to better understand the processes by which sex can be elevated to a higher love activity. It shows men the way to a more caring, considerate, and fulfilling approach to lovemaking.” * Nik Douglas, coauthor of Sexual Secrets: The Alchemy of Ecstasy *Table of Contents Preface by Michael Richardson Introduction 1 Male Burden of Performance 2 Involuntary Ejaculation and Desensitization 3 Ejaculation Is Not Male Orgasm 4 The Equal and Opposite Force of the Female Environment 5 The Penis--A Potent Electromagnetic Instrument 6 Awareness, Movement, Penetration, and Erection 7 Dates, Foreplay, Kissing, and Positions 8 Sexual Healing and Male Authority 9 Mastering Love and Overcoming Emotions 10 Personal Experiences Appendix Exercises for Improving Your Awareness and Sensitivity Recommended Books and Resources About the Authors
£13.49
New Harbinger Publications Taking Sexy Back: How to Own Your Sexuality and
Book SynopsisIt is time for a new sexual revolution. It's time to take sexy back.The very notion of sexual pleasure has long been hijacked from women. Today's sexual climate leaves little to no space for honoring the complexities of sex-sex as pleasure, sex as connection, sex as creative expression, sex as communication, and sex as healing. This is particularly true for young women navigating today's dating world, who need to be able to identify which sexual choices feel authentic, pleasurable, and joyful, and which ones leave them feeling "less-than."In Taking Sexy Back, relationship expert Alexandra Solomon-author of Loving Bravely-offers a powerful and holistic approach to help you reclaim your sexuality, communicate your desires, draw boundaries, be safe, and build the satisfying relationships you truly want. Regardless of your current relationship status, you'll learn to cultivate your own sexual self-awareness and use that awareness to create sexual experiences that elevate, connect, expand, and heal you.Sex is about more than what your partner enjoys or finds sexy. It's about more than having an orgasm or finding the "right" positions. This book offers a road map to help you reclaim your sexual power. It offers time and space to think and feel, and to ask yourself the important question-what do you want?
£13.49
Orion Publishing Co 101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do
Book SynopsisAn accessible and fun guide to kinky practices for everyoneEverything you wanted to know about kinky practices is covered in this highly entertaining and readable book. Known for her bold, witty prose on all matters related to the bedroom, Kate Sloan makes this an accessible subject for anyone curious about new ways to spice up their sex lives. Whether you are looking for ideas, clarification, or just an enjoyable read, there is plenty here to keep you intrigued. The text is accompanied by helpful tips and illustrations.
£13.49
Mango Media Living An Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself and Awaken Your Pleasure (Valentines day gift for him)
Book SynopsisHeal Your Relationship with Sex “Through her own sexual healing journey and those of others, author and intimacy coach Xanet Pailet takes us back to a place where we can all develop the courage to reclaim our sexual desires. —Louann Brizendine, MD, New York Times Best Selling Author of The Female Brain and The Male Brain # 1 Best Seller in Sexual Health and LGBT Studies Overcome your discomfort: Living An Orgasmic Life is for those who find sex challenging and are uncomfortable with their sex life. Women who are alienated from their erotic side due to sexual abuse or trauma will find healing balm in these pages. Women who can’t surrender into pleasure, can’t sustain intimacy, or want to reclaim and feel empowered in their sexuality will greatly benefit from this book. Awaken your sexuality. Challenges with sexuality are common and infrequently discussed. Xanet Pailet explores the reasons that cause women to disconnect from their sexuality including shame, body image issues, sexual abuse and trauma, physical wounding, and fears of intimacy. She provides practical advice and tools to help women awaken to their sexuality in a healthy way and reclaim their libido. Add sex back into your marriage. According to the National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior, 20% of married couples are only having sex once a month—a sexless marriage. And, the number of reported sexless marriages has quadrupled in the last 20 years. Living An Orgasmic Life is filled with lessons and practical exercises to take your sex life from non-existent or mediocre to fulfilling. Learn: Why it’s so hard to talk about sex in a world where everything is about sex How sexual trauma can occur and how to heal it How to reignite your libido If you benefited from reading Sex Rx, Urban Tantra, Come as You Are, or Womancode, Living An Orgasmic Life is a must read.Table of ContentsIntroduction PART ONE: Healing yourself from Shame, Sexual Abuse and Physical Trauma Chapter 1: A Night of Goddess Worship Can Change Your Life Chapter 2: Living a Life of Lies Appearances Can Be Deceiving The Widening Divide What Happened to Us? We were doomed from the start Finding a Home in Your Body Chapter 3: Women are Programmed to Say “No” to Sex An Oversexed, Sex-Starved Culture Sexless Marriage vs Upsetting the Apple Cart Where Did my Libido Go? “Keep your legs shut!” Good Girl Madonna, Bad Girl Whore The more we have sex, the more we want sex (Good sex begets more good sex) Chapter 4: Shame: The Nastiest Five-Letter Word in the Universe The Shame/Pleasure Paradox Ancient Cultures Were Sex-Positive Shame and Your Sexual Blueprint Jessica’s Story: Body Shame Jeff’s Story: Delayed Ejaculation Shame Sexual Blueprint Exercise Tim’s Story: Shame from Inappropriate Attraction Anya’s Story: Sexually Repressed Shame Bob’s Story: Shame Around Experiencing Desire Masturbation and Shame Delia’s Story: Masturbation Shame and Disassociation from Pleasure Keith’s Story: Masturbation Shame and Early Ejaculation Body Shame: A Generalized, Cultural Disorder Exercise: Body Talk Too Big, Too Small: Sex Organ Shame Jim’s Story: Cock Size Shame Pussy Shame Annie’s Story: My Vagina is Normal! Sexual Fetishism Ralph’s Story: Cross Dressing and Submissive Shame Chapter 5: Sexual Abuse and Trauma Overt and Covert Abuse Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder Impact on Sexuality Anne’s Story: Unresolved Trauma causing Vaginismus Repression of Memories Trauma and Self-Protection Mechanisms Darla’s Story: Trauma and Disassociation Tonya’s Story: Trauma and Over-Stimulation Ellen’s Story: Slaying the Tiger Downstream Effects of Abuse Lilly’s Story: Trauma and Fear of Intimacy Cecilia’s Story: Trauma and Self-Abusive Behavior Men and Sexual Trauma David’s Story: Recreating Abusive Relationships Working with Sexual Trauma Jessie and Mark’s Story: Resolving Trauma and Reclaiming their Sex Life Chapter 6: The Body Remembers: Trauma & Physical Imprinting Trauma and Physical Imprinting Body Memory Physical Trauma’s Impact on Sexuality Heal the Body, Heal the Mind Releasing Trapped Pain from Trauma Raina’s Story: Trauma from a Routine Gynecological Exam Holistic Pelvic Care Carrie’s Story: Healing Trauma from Childbirth Jane’s Story: Weaning Herself Off a Vibrator by Rewiring Physical Patterns Exercise: Awakening New Pleasure Pathways Ingrid and Mark’s Story: Activating New Pleasure Pathways Chapter 7: Blocks to Intimacy Attachment Theory (“It really is all your mother’s fault”) Secure Attachment Anxious Attachment Avoidant Attachment Anxious Avoidant Attachment Other Influences on Attachment The Influence of Attachment Style in Adult Relationships Victor’s Story: Perpetually in the Friend Zone Emotional Detachment (Why Crying is So Good for You) Intimacy Requires an Emotional Connection Lisa’s Story: Learning How to Let Others Care for Her Tristan’s Story: Dealing with a Broken Heart Caryn’s Story: Confusing Sex with Love PART TWO: Awakening Your Pleasure Chapter 8: Beginning the Journey of Sexual Healing & Awakening Four Guiding Principles to Transform your Sex Life Self-Awareness and Courage Exercise: Visioning Letter Understanding and Banishing Sexual Shame Accepting and Loving Your Body Exercise: Create Your Vagina Timeline Bethany’s Story: My Period Betrayed Me Julia’s Story: Where Did My Beautiful Body Go? Laina’s Story: Menopause Madness Embodiment—The Place to Begin Chapter 9: Coming home to My Body and Welcoming Pleasure Welcoming Pleasure The Road to Becoming a Sex and Intimacy Coach Sexological Bodywork SkyDancing Tantra Teacher Training Somatica: The Glue that Holds it All Together Chapter 10: So What is Tantra Anyway? Origins of Tantra The Emergence of SkyDancing Tantra Exercise: The Yoni Talk Chakras and Sexual Awakening Exercise: Subtle Energy Principles of Tantra Exercise: Chakra Sounding Chapter 11: How to Reignite Your Shrinking Libido Desire and Your Hormones Desire and Your Internal Landscape Exercise: Sacred Space Ritual: A Partner Practice Vanilla Sex Can Kill Your Libido Karen’s Story: Boring Sex Desire and Your External Landscape Exercise: Peak Sexual Experience Survey Knowing What You Want Who Initiates Sex? Understand Your Sexual Style When Sexual Styles Conflict Anne and Jeremy’s Story: Conflicting Sexual Styles Switching it Up: Sexual Styles Aren’t Static Core Erotic Theme Exercise: Identifying Your Hottest Sexual Movie Chapter 12: Great Sex is about Polarity Why Opposites Attract Fantasy and Cultural Taboos Collette and Liam’s Story: Creating Sexual Polarity through Role-Play Sexual Polarity is Upside Down in our Society Andrea’s Story: Finding Her Feminine Self Exercise: Fun Ways to Find Your Sexy Masculinity and Male Sexuality Paul’s Story: Permission to Feel Desire Genevieve and Carl’s Story: Learning to Surrender into Dominance Chapter 13: Realizing Your Pleasure Potential Slow Things Down Get Out of Your Head and Into Your Body The Ins and Outs of Orgasm The Power of Touch The Three Minute Game Exercise: Touching for Your Own Pleasure You are Responsible for Your Arousal Learning What You Want Exercise: Self-Loving Practice Orgasms Don’t Just Happen in Your Genitals Anal Pleasure Chapter 14: Living an Orgasmic Life Sex is a Basic Human Need like Food and Shelter A Sexual Woman is a Creative Woman Sex Transmutation Quantum Physics and Sex Exercise: Feed Your Creativity The Process of Transformation Nora’s Story: Making a Career Change Intuition: The Greatest Gift of All Exercise: Cultivating Your Intuition by Learning Your “Yes” and “No” Lara’s Story: Making a Life Changing Decision to be a Single Mom Brant’s Story: When Sex and Creativity Flows, So Does the Money Darleen’s Story: Reinventing Oneself in Her 60s Your Story Next
£13.29
Broadway Books (A Division of Bantam Doubleday Dell Publishing Group Inc) Red Hot Touch
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£11.69
Bruno Gmunder Tie Me Up
£12.34
Gefen Publishing House Newlywed Guide to Physical Intimacy
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£14.39
Orange Avenue Publishing Sex An Uncensored Introduction
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£11.65
Quarto Publishing Group USA Inc Getting the Sex You Want: Shed Your Inhibitions
Book SynopsisHere is a proven couples counseling method applied to sex for the very first time. Communication problems can erode a relationship in and out of the bedroom. This guide takes a proven communication method, which has been used to counsel millions of couples, and applies it to sex for the very first time. The Imago Relationship Therapy, which was pioneered by Harville Hendrix in the national bestseller and self-help classic Getting the Love You Want, shows readers how to understand and build trust with their partners through a unique form of dialogue. New in paperback, Getting the Sex You Want teaches readers how to build sexual communication skills quickly and connect with their partner in a new way. Readers learn exercises that enable them to communicate their sexual needs and desires, get past old issues, and revive passion in their relationship.
£18.99
Llewellyn Publications,U.S. Modern Sex Magick: Lessons in Liberation
Book SynopsisThis text argues that everybody harbours a power within that is so potent it defies the imagination. The guide shows the reader how to harness that power during sex.
£18.04
Cornerstone Men In Love
Book SynopsisThis is a book about men who love women. But it is not a collection of love stories. It is a study of the secret, erotic fantasies that men have always kept hidden, a taboo-shattering investigation that reveals the deepest, most conflicting feelings that men have about women, men and their own sexuality. Men in Love goes beyond the socio-sexual cliché of woman seen as either madonna or whore to reveal the conflict of love and rage at the centre of men''s emotions and erotic desires. Based on thousands of candid responses from men ranging from their teens to their sixties, Men in Love - startling and shocking - will change men''s deepest feelings about their sexuality and make the women who care about them understand them as never before.Trade ReviewA labour of love for all humankind. Nancy Friday is still on the cutting edge * Houston Chronicle *Brilliant. Courageous. Moving * Washington Post *Nancy Friday - guru to a generation of feminists * Daily Mail *A clever, compassionate woman ... Women need people like Friday to write the script for them - Janet Street-Porter * Sunday Times *Nancy Friday has never shied away from hot-button topics * Salon.com *
£10.44
HarperCollins Publishers Inc The Multiorgasmic Couple
Book SynopsisA classic work on human sexuality, The Multi-Orgasmic Couple —along with The Multi-Orgasmic Man and The Multi-Orgasmic Woman, the other volumes in the ground-breaking trilogy—is the first popular, accessible book designed to help sexual partners achieve new levels of sensual pleasure and intimacy. Co-written by Mantak Chia, the foremost expert in the field of Taoist sexuality, and Rachel Carlton Abrams, M.D., a family practice physician specializing in holistic health and sexuality, The Multi-Orgasmic Couple combines ancient Eastern wisdom with Western knowledge to provide the sexual secrets that every couple needs to know.
£16.19
HarperCollins Publishers Inc Sex Recharge
Book SynopsisJust as a physical fast, or change in diet, will rapidly alter your metabolism and natural body chemistry, so too will a sex/dating detox impact your neurochemistry, enabling you to reset, rewire and, ultimately, rejuvenate your love life. This title introduces the basic underpinnings of the Detox program.Trade Review"In a town where everyone wants go down in history remembered for something, Ian Kerner wants to go down as the champion of going down." -- New York magazine "Love Sex and the City? Revisit the world of strategic dating with Be Honest-You're Not That Into Him Either." -- People "Men, while still lame, can no longer hide behind the old excuse of ignorance when it comes to pleasuring a woman--the facts are all here in this complete guide." -- Dr. Drew Pinsky, co-host of Loveline "Move over, Casanova. Step aside, Don Juan. Out of the way Mr. Big. Meet Ian Kerner, the author of She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman." -- New York Post "Required reading for all men who are dating and all women who are wondering why they're not satisfied." -- Cindy Chupack, writer/executive producer of Sex and the City "Take note, guys. This book is your secret weapon." -- Jauretsi Saizarbitoria, Jane Magazine "This book has an incredible amount of detailed, useful information about pleasuring women. I kind of knew I was doing everything wrong, but now I know why. Thanks Ian!" -- Joel Stein "This well-written, hands-on, fluff-free book puts the 'big-penis-big-orgasm' theory to rest once and for all, and offers men the tools they need to have their partners coming back for more. No man or woman should be without it." -- Michele Weiner-Davis, M.S.W., author of The Sex-Starved Marriage "Witty and informed ... this must-read promises to help you break your bad dating habits and stay true to your own intentions." -- Us Weekly "Ian Kerner is that rare man who truly loves women and wants to help them. Be Honest-You're Not That Into Him Either is a smart and very funny guide to getting off your butt and getting back on the journey that will eventually lead you to someone who love -- From the foreword by Amy Sohn, New York magazine columnist "Here comes a book that puts men in their places - smack dab in between women's legs!" -- Cake "Every man's must-read. Tell your guy to put down the remote and pick up She Comes First." -- Cosmopolitan "Be Honest-You're Not That Into Him Either is a funny and truly helpful look at what modern women may have forgotten (or just won't admit) about themselves. Ian Kerner's insights show us what we really think, why it matters, and how we can get what we really want." -- Jane Buckingham, author of The Modern Girl's Guide to Life "Armed with a doctorate in clinical sexology, Kerner has devoted his life to the study and practice of good sex-there are few men that wouldn't benefit from the female-centric philosophy and techniques that Kerner advocates." -- Salon.com "An entire book written strictly for the pleasure of women by a man. Hallelujah!" -- Playgirl "A funny and truly helpful look at what modern women may have forgotten (or just won't admit) about themselves. -- Jane Buckingham, author of The Modern Girl's Guide to Life "[Kerner] addresses common sexual concerns with compassion and straightforward advice." -- New York Post "Women will be putty in your hands if you read this book!" -- Anka Radakovich, author of The Wild Girl's Club "You've all heard about 'lunch at the Y.' Well, this book will make it a feeding frenzy." -- -Sue Johanson, host of Oxygen's Talk Sex PRAISE FOR BE HONEST-YOU'RE NOT THAT INTO HIM EITHER: "Love Sex and the City? Revisit the world of strategic dating with Be Honest-You're Not That Into Him Either." -- People PRAISE FOR SHE COMES FIRST: "The sex manual getting the most attention these days is She Comes First... With a cool sense of humor and an obsessive desire to inform, [Kerner] encourages men through an act that many find mystifying." -- New York Times PRAISE FOR BE HONEST-YOU'RE NOT THAT INTO HIM EITHER "Unlike many nuptial-obsessed manuals, Be Honest is about figuring out how to best serve your own needs, both sexual and otherwise, and still respect yourself in the morning." -- Elle.com "It's refreshing and reassuring to know that Ian Kerner is out there in the world showing people how to love." -- Helen Fisher, PhD, author of Why We Love: The Nature and Chemistry of Romantic Love "Who knew that a temporary bout of celibacy could be so sexy? This book will gently hold your hand throughout the process, challenging you with questions you never dared ask yourself and inspiring you with stories and manageable to-do lists." -- Em & Lo, authors of Buh Bye: The Ultimate Guide to Dumping and Getting Dumped and Sex Toy: An A-Z Guide to Bedside Accessories "Kerner makes intimacy intimate again, as well as downright lustful. You'll walk away trusting your instincts instead of subscribing to the fabricated ideas of what sexy 'should' be." -- Stephanie Klein, author of Straight Up and Dirty
£9.99
Little, Brown Book Group How To Blow His Mind In Bed
Book SynopsisHow to Blow His Mind in Bed'' is written by ''Men''s Health'' magazine''s resident sexpert, Siski Green. In her refreshingly honest new book, she will debunk the myth that a man only cares about his own orgasm, and give the inside knowledge on what they really want in the bedroom. Siski has had unrivalled access to the innermost thoughts of men through her work, and has a unique insight into their worries, desires and needs. But she has also dealt with many women''s queries from the ''Men''s Health'' website, so she understands exactly what they really want to know about how men think. HOW TO BLOW HIS MIND IN BED will offer women inside knowledge on how to make a man excited, what his erogenous zones are, his feelings and concerns, and improving his orgasms and your techniques. It is a must-read for every woman who wants to improve and enhance what they already know, to have even better sex.
£10.44
Little, Brown & Company Letters To Penthouse Xxiii True Confessions
Book SynopsisAn uninhibited peak through the keyhole.
£7.99
Clarkson Potter/Ten Speed Naughty Knots Light Bondage and Bedroom Tricks
Book SynopsisLearn the ropes of erotic bondage with a discreet knot-tying guide featuring a playful ribbon-tie closure. Follow the step-by-step illustrations and discover how to restrain your partner simply and safely. You'll also learn how to fashion a suggestive rope corset, a crop for spanking, and other bedroom tricks that will have you bound for adventure!
£9.89
Lo Scarabeo Kamasutra Tarot: Tarot Deck
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£18.70
Greenery Press (CA) The Toybag Guide to Playing with Taboo
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£8.96
Greenery Press Toybag Guide To Basic Rope Bondage
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£9.49
Lulu Press Secrets of Speed Seduction Mastery
£12.95
Freedom Press Love Sex and Power in Later Life A Libertarian
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£6.70
Greenery Press The Artisans Book of Fetishcraft
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£22.94
Orion Publishing Co Astrosex Capricorn
Book SynopsisThe perfect Valentine''s Day gift!AS FEATURED IN THE SUNEverything you need to know to have the best sex according to your star sign.Next time you have sex, you''ll be seeing stars...Harness the power of the zodiac to guide you to pleasure that''s out of this world. From what sex positions will have you ascending, to the turn-ons that''ll make more than just the moon rise, as well sex toys, masturbation tips and more - this little book has big astrology energy.A cheeky hardback with foil on the cover corresponding to your sign''s element (earth, water, air or fire) and illustrations throughout - this is the perfect guide for out-of-this-world fun.It''s time to let your ruling planet show you how to rule the bedroom.
£6.99
Rutgers University Press Sadomasochism in Everyday Life The Dynamics of
Book SynopsisLynn Chancer advances the provocative thesis that sadomasochism is far more prevalent in contemporary societies like the United States than we realize. According to Chancer, sexual sadomasochism is only the best-known manifestation of what is actually a much more broadly based social phenomenon.Trade Review"An important contribution to that most pressing of cultural projects -- uncovering the psychic roots of authoritarianism.""A brilliant, highly original analysis of contemporary U.S. society. Chancer illuminates fundamental issues in American culture, in the workplace, in gender relationships, and the minefield of race." -- Ruth Sidel, Hunter College, and author of On Her Own: Growing Up in the Shadow of the American Dream"A brilliant, highly original analysis of contemporary U.S. society. Chancer illuminates fundamental issues in American culture, in the workplace, in gender relationships, and the minefield of race." -- Ruth Sidel, Hunter College, and author of On Her Own: Growing Up in the Shadow of the American DreamRuth Sidel, Hunter College, and author of On Her Own: Growing Up in the Shadow of the American Dream: "A brilliant, highly orginal analysis of contemporary U.S. society. Chancer illuminates fundamental issues in American culture, in the workplace, in gender relationships, and the minefield of race."Table of ContentsAcknowledgments Introduction Reflecting on a Set of Personal and Political Criteria Part One Expanding the Scope of Sadomasochism Chapter 1 Exploring Sadomasochism in the American Context Chapter 2 Defining a Basic Dynamic: Paradoxes at the Heart of Sadomasochism Chapter 3 Combining the Insights of Existentialism and Psychoanalysis: Why Sadomasochism? Part Two Sadomasochism in Its Social Settings Chapter 4 Employing Chains of Command: Sadomasochism and the Workplace Chapter 5 Engendering Sadomasochism: Dominance, Subordination, and the Contaminated World of Patriarchy Chapter 6 Creating Enemies in Everyday Life: Following the Example of Others Chapter 7 A Theoretical Finale Epilogue Notes Index
£27.90
Watkins Media Limited Deep Sniff: A History of Poppers and Queer
Book Synopsis3, 2, 1... inhale, deep. From the Victorian infirmary and the sex clubs of the 1970s, poppers vapour has released the queer potential inside us all. This is the intriguing story of how poppers wafted out of the lab and into gay bars, corner shops, bedrooms and porn supercuts. Blending historical research with wry observation, Adam Zmith explores the cultural forces and improbable connections behind the power of poppers. What emerges is not just a history of pub raids, viral panics and pecs the size of dinner plates. It is a collection of fresh and provocative ideas about identity, sex, utopia, capitalism, law, freedom and the bodies that we use to experience the world. In Deep Sniff, what starts as a thoughtful enquiry into poppers becomes a manifesto for pleasure.Trade Review"A pharmacornucopia of sensory pleasures, Adam Zmith’s Deep Sniff is an entire queer curriculum opened up by poppers.""Absorbing, riotous, keenly-researched and utterly celebratory, Deep Sniff is exactly the kind of queer history we need right now! Through the heady prism of poppers, Zmith explores the queer body with such curiosity and nuance – and explodes just how very political and ongoing the search for autonomous pleasure really is."“A fascinating, joyful social and personal history of an underrated drug. Zmith manages to capture not just the intriguing story of poppers and their role in queer life, but also something of their ineffable chemical pleasure.”“Adam Zmith's Deep Sniff is a fascinating dive into the history of a common, yet rarely remarked upon part of gay male life in the late 20th and early 20th century: poppers. Deftly intermingling history, personal experience, and cultural commentary, Deep Sniff is a remarkable addition to queer history.”“A book on poppers and its dilated pleasures is long-overdue. Knowledgeable and naughty, Deep Sniff is a giddy, unashamed rush that doesn’t need to be kept in the fridge after opening.”
£10.44
Mystic Productions Shibari You Can Use
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£18.86
Sounds True Inc Finding God Through Sex
Book SynopsisWhen it comes to sex, most of us want more. The question is: more of what? According to David Deida, when the depth of intimacy you've been experiencing is no longer fulfilling to your heart and body—when you sense that sexuality should go far beyond an embrace of brief satisfaction—the time has come to explore your unique sexual path to the divine. In Finding God Through Sex, this brilliant writer and internationally renowned expert on spiritual sexuality presents a revolutionary new way to love—one in which sex literally becomes an erotic act of devotional surrender, "making love, magnifying love, from the boundless depth of your heart through every inch of your body and in merger with your lover." Through provocative vignettes that illuminate the many moods that color lovemaking, and direct instruction that speaks honestly to the masculine and feminine desires within each of us, Deida brings wisdom gained from 30 years' work with thousands of couples to illustrate the distinct yet complementary avenues men and women can skillfully travel toward untamed passion and sacred unity. What unfolds is an unparalleled road map to the place where we "love as the cosmos loves: One loving itself as an other, yet remembering itself as One."
£13.29
Jessica Kingsley Publishers The Autism Spectrum Guide to Sexuality and
Book SynopsisUnravelling the complexities of relationships and sexuality, this straight-talking guide will help you to navigate the associated social, emotional and physical issues. Expert advice and real life examples give you the knowledge to reflect on your own sexuality, provide you with information on different types of relationship, and gives you the confidence to decide which type of relationship is right for you. Together with important information on sexual health, this book will help you to understand how to find and maintain a relationship of your choosing in a safe and enjoyable way. Exploring the often unspoken rules of sex and relationships, this book also covers often unaddressed topics, such as: · what sexual attraction looks and feels like · how to identify your own sexual identity and preferences (and how they may change) · what your rights are, and how to stay safe · having children, or choosing not to, the impact of this on relationships · how to recognise power imbalances within relationships, and what to doTrade ReviewAll too often in life and literature autistic people are cast as sexless, childlike beings. In fact, this could not be further from the truth. The Autism Spectrum Guide to Relationships and Sexuality addresses this by providing a highly useful guide for adults on the autism spectrum which focusses on practically everything related to relationships, dating and sex. I would have found this book particularly helpful when I was a young adult coming to terms with my gender identity and sexuality and starting to have my first experiences of sexual relationships.The book is completely free of any kind of judgement or moralising. It is respectful and inclusive of the various sexualities and gender differences that people have. The book includes detailed information on a number of topics which autistic adults will find useful, such as different types of sexuality, starting relationships, dating, sexual pleasure and ending relationships. The text is subtle and nuanced, providing information on some complex topics such as people whose sexuality changes over time and how that can impact on their partner. Few topics are left out so it really is a one-stop-shop for adults on the spectrum wanting to gather some useful strategies and understanding around the topic of relationships. -- From the foreword by Jeanette Purkis, autism advocate, public speaker and author of Finding a Different Kind of Normal and The Wonderful World of WorkThe Autism Spectrum Guide to Sexuality and Relationships is a solid guide...Powerful, easy-to-read and practical advice providing knowledge and strategies for people with autism. -- Ioannis Voskopoulos and Labrini Ioannou, PsychologistsTable of ContentsForeword by Dr Wenn Lawson. Foreword by Jeanette Purkis. Introduction. 1. Overview of Relationships and Sexuality. 2. Gender. 3. Types of Sexuality. 4. Types of Relationships. 5. Understanding Your Own Sexuality. 6. Understanding the Sexuality of Others. 7. Sexual Relationships. 8. Non-sexual Relationships. 9. Starting Sexual Relationships. 10. Sexual Relationships in Real Life. 11. Meeting Online and Transitioning to Real Life. 12. Ending Relationships. 13. Reasons Why You Should End Long-term Relationships. 14. Maintaining Long-term Relationships. 15. Sexual Activity and Sexual Pleasure. 16. Sexual Activity By Yourself. 17. Sexual Activity with Someone Else. 18. Having Children (Your Own and Others') and How this Affects Relationships. 19. Choosing Not to Have Children. 20. Physical and Mental Health and Relationships. 21. Physical and Mental Health and Sexual Activity. Summary.
£14.99
Little, Brown Book Group The Mammoth Book of Erotic Confessions: The largest ever collection of intimate admissions by ordinary people
This bumper collection of well over one hundred first-person accounts of sexual experiences details the most daring and outrageous liaisons the contributors have ever had. Some will amuse you, some may cause a raised eyebrow, and some are downright outrageous, but each and every one is arousing. Categories have been deliberately avoided to seduce readers into each, fresh confession with an open mind, but whatever your kink, you will find it here. Whether you're into good old-fashioned spanking, bondage, solo, foursomes, watersports . . . you'll find it here. Stories include:'Sharing My Wife the Back Way', Martin, Hertfordshire'Getting the Job', Kitty, Los Angeles'College Reunion', Liza, Denver'Seducing My Daughter's Girlfriend' Isabelle, Chicago'You Have the Right to Remain Silent', Kathleen, Liverpool
£12.34
