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  • Independently Published Slow Sex, Jornada Sensual: Descubra o Mundo do

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  • This Is Supposed to Be Fun: How to Find Joy in

    Basic Books This Is Supposed to Be Fun: How to Find Joy in

    Book SynopsisA?certified clinical sexologist’s?radically inclusive?guide to sex and dating Swipe. Match. Get ghosted. Repeat. Modern dating can quickly start to feel like an overwhelming slog. It’s easy to forget the point of it all: this is supposed to be fun. Enter professional sex and dating coach Myisha Battle. Drawing on an engaging and diverse collection of client stories, This Is Supposed to Be Fun is a uniquely inclusive, sex-positive guide to help you skip past the games and get what you really want out of dating and relationships—no matter what that may be. Whether you’re trying to create the perfectly imperfect dating profile, stay true to your authentic self on dates, match with people interested in kink, or break up with compassion, Battle’s friendly, proven advice is indispensable. This Is Supposed to Be Fun will help make the world of dating and relationships more enjoyable (and bearable!) for everyone.

    £19.00

  • Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to

    Quarto Publishing Group USA Inc Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to

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    Book SynopsisCurvy Girl Sex provides tried and tested methods, positions, and sex hacks for plus-sized lovers of all types, and does it all in an empowering, body-positive light. Who says you have to be a size 6 to have the best sex of your life? Curvy Girl Sex is here to show you that regardless of size, shape, or flexibility you CAN get creative and have satisfying, sultry, sensual sex! Sex educator Elle Chase covers sex positions from basic to advanced in this new guide for plus-sized lovers. Elle covers specific challenges faced as plus-sized people, and provides precise, body positive tips, tricks and techniques that cater to your big, beautiful body. Curvy Girl Sex also features sections on which sex toys on the market that are best for a woman of size, the one unexpected item in just about every home that's just waiting to be used to enhance sex sessions, tried and tested methods and positions to make curvy girls quiver, and loads of "sex hacks".

    1 in stock

    £16.20

  • MY SECRET GARDEN

    Gallery Books MY SECRET GARDEN

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    £13.78

  • She Comes First The Thinking Mans Guide to

    HarperCollins Publishers Inc She Comes First The Thinking Mans Guide to

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    £13.49

  • Going Beyond 'The Talk': Relationships and

    Jessica Kingsley Publishers Going Beyond 'The Talk': Relationships and

    Book SynopsisDrawing on extensive professional and personal experience, this book offers guidance and advice on how to better communicate with 12-18-year olds about relationships and sexuality. An invaluable resource for teachers and parents, it provides you with the tools you need to feel confident and informed about how to talk about sex education at all stages.The book explores the challenges in adult-child communication about sexuality and provides helpful advice on how to establish an open and positive dialogue, covering topics like social media, porn and sexual development in UK, US and Australian contexts. Specific age-based guidance and exercises are also offered. Finally, the book ends with the Flag System for identifying 'acceptable/nonacceptable' sexual behaviour and next steps. Throughout, the book emphasizes the importance of positive sexuality education, empowering young people to make their own choices on how to enjoy their relationships and sexuality in a safe and consensual way.Trade ReviewPuberty is a crucial time in a young person's life. Preparing children for puberty is different from talking with small children about where babies come from. Fortunately this book supports you during this phase of young people's lives. 'Going beyond "The Talk"' shows how you to have an honest and open conversation about sex and sexuality at home and in school. It gives relevant facts and gives advice to overcome your embarrassment to talk about the most intimate and sensitive issues around sex. I highly recommend it! -- Doortje Braeken, former senior adviser of adolescents, gender and rights of the International Planned Parenthood Federation and International consultant for UNESCO, Plan International, Global Advisory Board for Sexual WellbeingThe life raft that helps you navigate the choppy seas of sex(uality) education for adolescents and how to talk to them about it. Thank you for giving me the understanding, insight and tools to provide the right support. I only wish my parents had read it! -- John Pope CBEThis warm, hopeful, evidence-based guide is filled with wisdom and has inclusivity at its heart. It is a must read for all adults wishing to communicate with their teenagers about relationships, sexuality, identity, and values like never before. It will challenge you and affirm you in equal measure. -- Katy Thomas, relationships and sexuality education researcher, teacher, mother of fourThis book is an eminently readable resource for anyone caring for a teenager. It gives a very clear picture of teenage development, which helps understand our own biases and how to overcome these so that our teenagers get the love, support and understanding they need. -- Arushi Singh, UN specialist on sexuality educationA highly engaging book exploring relationships, consent, respect, sexuality and identity in an accessible way. It brings together the informal learning of the home and the formal learning of schooling to provide a coherent, inclusive and joined up approach to young people's development. -- Professor Richard Woolley, University of HullThis is a unique book which successfully unifies sexuality education in school and at home. It is a practical tool for an intergenerational dialogue and addressing serious questions raised by young people. The parents and educators will find here the right words and approaches to support young people in staying safe and achieving well-being. But most of all, the reader of this book will feel the joy of sexuality education classes. -- Drashko Kostovski, IPPF European NetworkTable of ContentsIntroduction1. Being in touch2. Challenges and opportunities in discussing sexuality with adolescents3. Communicating with adolescents about sex and sexuality4. Towards a better understanding of our teenagers: Body, Brains and Sex5. The sexual lives of adolescents6. Early Adolescence (12-14+ years): What adults want to know7. Mid-Adolescence (14-16+ years): What adults want to know8. Late Adolescence (16-18+ years): What adults want to know9. "Is this OK?"10.Moving forward

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  • HarperCollins Publishers What Women Want Men To Know

    15 in stock

    Book SynopsisWhat makes women tick? And how can women and men use this knowledge to make a great relationship? Top relationships expert tells you howTrade ReviewReaders’ praise for Secrets About Men Every Woman Should Know: “I read this book many years ago and having just celebrated my 30th wedding anniversary feel I am in a position to confirm how brilliant this book is. It completely changed my preconceptions that I wasn’t even aware of… Barbara encouraged me to chuck ‘em out and enjoy life and enjoy my husband!” Gigi “One of the few books I’ve read which is worth its weight in gold.” Anon “Loved it. My bible.” Shurooq “Excellent… Highly recommended if you want to have a better understanding of men.” Marwa Ayad “Barbara talks to women as adults, which makes a refreshing change from a lot of relationship books.” Anon

    15 in stock

    £10.44

  • Atria Books The Sex Talks Deck

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    £19.80

  • Sexual Reflexology

    Inner Traditions Bear and Company Sexual Reflexology

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    Book SynopsisThe most powerful reflex points on the body are on the sexual organs. While the practice of reflexology is normally associated with massage of the feet, in Sexual ReflexologyMantak Chia gives applications for using the sexual reflex points in lovemaking, transforming sexual intercourse into a form of ecstatic acupressure. By combining the classic Taoist sexual texts with modern reflexology theory, the author provides a unique opportunity for couples to practice sexual intimacy as an act of healing. Mantak Chia shows how to evaluate a person''s sexual energy potential as well as how the size and shape of the sexual organs determine a couple''s compatibility. In addition to the specific ecstatic acupressure exercise instructions, he provides thoughtful commentary on ancient Taoist practices that reveal how we can all use our sexual essence to create healthy and loving relationships.Trade Review"Explicit illustrations, insightful text and titillating techniques from 14th-century Chinese texts bring innovative fitness possibilities into the bedchamber." * Nexus, March/April 2004 *"With the high incidence of perversion, abuse, and exploitation in our time, it is refreshing to see sexuality being celebrated and brought forward as a healing element." * Claus Sproll, Liliopoh the spirit in life, Issue 37 Vol. 9, Fall 2004 *"[Chia] provides a unique opportunity for couples to practice sexual intimacy as an act of healing." * Branches of Light, Spring-Summer-Fall 2005 *"Mantak Chia and William U. Wei note early in the book that Daoists regard the use of sexual energy not as a moral but as a health issue. They explore and explain the yin and yang of the sexes that leaves so many confused and dismayed. . . . It goes into great depth about physiological aspects of reflexology, sexual exercise, and general compatability, and details a range of practices and postures that address the health and general well-being of sexual partners." * Reg Little, New Dawn, No. 116, Sep/Oct 2009 *Table of ContentsSexual ReflexologyActivating the Taoist Points of LovePutting Sexual Reflexology into PracticeAcknowledgmentsIntroduction The Universal Tao The Healing Love Practice The Importance of Meditation in Sexual Reflexology Microcosmic Orbit Directing Sexual Energy Special Note for Women ReadersChapter 1 Male and Female Energy Yin and YangChapter 2 Sexual Energy: A Taoist Perspective Sexuality, Energy, and Relationships History of Sexual ReflexologyChapter 3 Reflexology Compatibility of the Penis and Vaginal Canal Ring Muscles Exercising the Ring MusclesChapter 4 Sexual Healing Positions Eight Sexual Healing Positions for Men Seven Sexual Healing Positions for Women Exchange of Energy as a Sexual Healing PrayerChapter 5 Sexual Energizing Postures Hand Positions Use Eye Movements in Healing Love Postures Healing Love Couples Energize the Senses Healing Love Postures for Universal Tao Practices Energizing Postures with Eight Healing BenefitsChapter 6 Ejaculation and Menstrual Cycle Management Ejaculation Management Regulating Ejaculation Frequency Mastering the Techniques of Controlled Contact Ejaculatory Control Practice Breathing Exercise Buttocks Exercise Warming the Stove (for Men) Menstrual Cycle Management Ovary Massage Breast Massage Egg Exercises and Vaginal Weight Lifting Egg Exercise Vaginal Weight Lifting Physical Sexercises Shaking the Testicles and the Breasts Spiraling Hip and Tailbone (for Men and Women) Secret Taoist Method of Urination (for Men and Women) Sun Practice (for Men and Women)Chapter 7 Sexual Reflexology and Physical Characteristics Taoist Sexual Terms Facial Features Lips Eyes Eyebrows Space between the Eyebrows Teeth Jawlines Cheeks Ears Nose Male Facial Features Summarized Female Facial Features Summarized Massaging the Face Hands and Fingers Fingers of a Man Fingers of a Woman Massaging the Hands Hair Neck Breasts Buttocks Female BodyChapter 8 Compatibility Compatibility for Life Lovemaking EnergyChapter 9 Sexercises Breathing Sexercises Deep Abdominal Breathing (for Men and Women) Energy Breathing (for Men and Women) Sexercises Massage Testicle Massage Tapping the Dragon Pearls (for Men) Penis Power Stretching Hot Hands Warm-Up Vaginal Stretch Use Visualization to Increase Sexual Energy Sexual Organs and the Brain PC Muscle and Milking Exercises Chi Muscle PC Chi Muscle Exercises Testicle Stretching Exercise Power Milking Milking and HoldingChapter 10 Internal Organs and the Five Elements Kidneys and the Water Element Female Kidney Energy Kidney Massage Massage the Ears Heart and the Fire Element Tongue Kung Fu Massage the Chest to Open the Heart Lungs and the Metal Element Massage the Lung Points Liver and the Wood Element Massage the Feet Spleen and the Earth Element Massage the AbdomenChapter 11 Secret Art of the Jade Chamber Arcane Maid's Original Nine Postures Mystical Thirty PosturesForeplayChapter 12 Romancing the Moon Grotto Foreplay Nine Major Love Points Erotic Massage Caressing the Moon Grotto Caressing the Jade Stalk Love Games Three FountainsAfterwordGlossaryBibliographyIndexAbout the AuthorsThe Universal Tao System and Training Center

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    £16.14

  • The Erotic Mind

    HarperCollins Publishers Inc The Erotic Mind

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    £16.99

  • Sexual Perversions and Paraphilias An A to Z

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  • Dissonant Hum The Way of Men

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    15 in stock

    £27.00

  • Paradise Found

    Rizzoli International Publications Paradise Found

    Book SynopsisFor those who desire to expand their amorous repertoire and a lush visual complement to the groundbreaking Boudoir Bible.A celebrated pioneer in the field of sexology and erotic design, Vernon unlocks the secrets of the sensual realm, taking us on a visual journey to a sexual paradise. This enlightening, luxurious tome features Vernon’s renowned “jewel-tools”—artisanal erotic jewelry and instruments of ecstasy of her own design coveted by collectors around the world—alongside extensive advice on their use to reach new levels of pleasure. The mysteries of the tantalizing ascent to paradise unfold as we are invited to explore empowerment through the sleek chains and cuffs of “Sado-Chic.” “Orchestrating the Senses,” “Tickle Your Fantasies,” “Erecting the Temple,” and “Role Play” heighten anticipation within the boudoir. “Intimate Bonds” and “Scepte

    £17.98

  • Thank You More Please

    Grand Central Publishing Thank You More Please

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    4 in stock

    £21.75

  • THE ARTS OF SEDUCTION: The 21st century guide to

    Aleph Book Company THE ARTS OF SEDUCTION: The 21st century guide to

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    £14.11

  • Cosmo's Truth or Dare: Our Naughtiest Sex Game

    Hearst Cosmo's Truth or Dare: Our Naughtiest Sex Game

    5 in stock

    Book SynopsisThis naughty spin on the classic Truth or Dare game features 120 enticing cards in a box. You and your sweetie simply take turns picking from the deck and choosing a spicy "Truth" or an edgy "Dare". Whichever one you choose...the results will be sizzling HOT! More sexy fun from Cosmo! This naughty spin on the classic Truth or Dare game features 120 enticing cards in a box; you and your sweetie simply take turns picking from the deck and choosing a spicy "Truth" or an edgy "Dare." Truth: What is the strangest thing that has ever turned you on? Dare: Lick your lips in the steamiest way possible. Whichever one you choose...the results will be sizzling HOT! Do you dare to play?

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    £9.94

  • Tantric Kali: Secret Practices and Rituals

    Inner Traditions Bear and Company Tantric Kali: Secret Practices and Rituals

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    Book SynopsisAccording to traditions going back to pre-Vedic times, Kali sprang from the third eye of the Goddess Durga as a destructive and terrifying manifestation of feminine power sent to lay waste to the forces of evil. Throughout India to this day, Kali is worshipped as the destroyer of bondage, capable of liberating her devotee from all rules and subjugation. In The Tantric Kali, Daniel Odier presents the mythology, practices, and rituals of Kali worship in the Tantric Kaula tradition within Kashmiri Shaivism. He reveals the practices of Vamachara, commonly known as the Left-hand Path but more accurately translated as the Path of Shakti. In this tradition the body itself is Kali’s temple, and it is therefore unnecessary to reject or deny the body to know union with the divine. Instead, nothing is regarded as pure or impure and there is complete freedom from rules. Focused on working directly with forbidden emotions and behaviors, this path allows the seeker to transcend obstacles to liberation through sexual union. According to the Kaula Upanishad, “In your behavior do the opposite to what the norms dictate but remain in consciousness.” This is the essence of Tantra. Kali is absolute reality: manifested as woman intoxicated by desire, she frees the tantric practitioner from all desire except union with the divine.Trade Review“Tantric Kali provides depth as we are guided through mythology, ritual, visualization, and life teachings to have a direct experience of Shakti from the wisdom teachings of the Kaula path. Daniel offers another treasure from the heart of his realization—steeped in his lineage with translations of the oldest ritual to Kali--songs and hymns and truly transformative practices and meditations direct from the root. A full-spectrum offering, this is the birth of another Odier classic. Daniel is one of the extraordinary and skillful practitioner teacher-scholar-writers of our time. Tantric Kali is juicy, liberating, radical, and exquisite and offers a unique compendium of tantric Kali sadhana accessible to all.” * Shiva Rea, yogini, founder of Samudra Global School for Living Yoga, and author of Tending the Heart *Table of ContentsPreface IntroductionKali and the Tantric Path1 Kali's Origins and Symbolism2 The Kaula Tradition 3 Preliminary Practices of the Kaula Tradition 4 The Nirrutara Tantra Scripture That Is Superior to All Others5 The Rituals of Kali and the Sacred Union 6 Advancing on the Kaula Path Meditation on the Eight Chakras, the Yoginis’Ultimate Practice of the Heart, and the Devouring of Inner Demons7 Hymns and Songs in Praise of Kali NotesBibliography Index About the Author

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    £11.39

  • Light Technology,U.S. Making Love to God: The Path to Divine Sex

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    5 in stock

    £19.95

  • Simon And Schuster Group USA The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio 2nd Ed

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    £18.39

  • Taking Sexy Back: How to Own Your Sexuality and

    New Harbinger Publications Taking Sexy Back: How to Own Your Sexuality and

    5 in stock

    Book SynopsisIt is time for a new sexual revolution. It's time to take sexy back.The very notion of sexual pleasure has long been hijacked from women. Today's sexual climate leaves little to no space for honoring the complexities of sex-sex as pleasure, sex as connection, sex as creative expression, sex as communication, and sex as healing. This is particularly true for young women navigating today's dating world, who need to be able to identify which sexual choices feel authentic, pleasurable, and joyful, and which ones leave them feeling "less-than."In Taking Sexy Back, relationship expert Alexandra Solomon-author of Loving Bravely-offers a powerful and holistic approach to help you reclaim your sexuality, communicate your desires, draw boundaries, be safe, and build the satisfying relationships you truly want. Regardless of your current relationship status, you'll learn to cultivate your own sexual self-awareness and use that awareness to create sexual experiences that elevate, connect, expand, and heal you.Sex is about more than what your partner enjoys or finds sexy. It's about more than having an orgasm or finding the "right" positions. This book offers a road map to help you reclaim your sexual power. It offers time and space to think and feel, and to ask yourself the important question-what do you want?

    5 in stock

    £14.24

  • Red Hot Touch

    Broadway Books (A Division of Bantam Doubleday Dell Publishing Group Inc) Red Hot Touch

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    £11.69

  • Bruno Gmunder Tie Me Up

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    15 in stock

    £12.34

  • Newlywed Guide to Physical Intimacy

    Gefen Publishing House Newlywed Guide to Physical Intimacy

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    £14.39

  • Getting the Sex You Want: Shed Your Inhibitions

    Quarto Publishing Group USA Inc Getting the Sex You Want: Shed Your Inhibitions

    Book SynopsisHere is a proven couples counseling method applied to sex for the very first time. Communication problems can erode a relationship in and out of the bedroom. This guide takes a proven communication method, which has been used to counsel millions of couples, and applies it to sex for the very first time. The Imago Relationship Therapy, which was pioneered by Harville Hendrix in the national bestseller and self-help classic Getting the Love You Want, shows readers how to understand and build trust with their partners through a unique form of dialogue. New in paperback, Getting the Sex You Want teaches readers how to build sexual communication skills quickly and connect with their partner in a new way. Readers learn exercises that enable them to communicate their sexual needs and desires, get past old issues, and revive passion in their relationship.

    £21.96

  • How To Blow His Mind In Bed

    Little, Brown Book Group How To Blow His Mind In Bed

    Book SynopsisHow to Blow His Mind in Bed'' is written by ''Men''s Health'' magazine''s resident sexpert, Siski Green. In her refreshingly honest new book, she will debunk the myth that a man only cares about his own orgasm, and give the inside knowledge on what they really want in the bedroom. Siski has had unrivalled access to the innermost thoughts of men through her work, and has a unique insight into their worries, desires and needs. But she has also dealt with many women''s queries from the ''Men''s Health'' website, so she understands exactly what they really want to know about how men think. HOW TO BLOW HIS MIND IN BED will offer women inside knowledge on how to make a man excited, what his erogenous zones are, his feelings and concerns, and improving his orgasms and your techniques. It is a must-read for every woman who wants to improve and enhance what they already know, to have even better sex.

    £10.99

  • Greenery Press (CA) The Toybag Guide to Playing with Taboo

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    £9.95

  • Toybag Guide To Basic Rope Bondage

    Greenery Press Toybag Guide To Basic Rope Bondage

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    £9.49

  • Lulu Press Secrets of Speed Seduction Mastery

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    £14.96

  • Sadomasochism in Everyday Life The Dynamics of

    Rutgers University Press Sadomasochism in Everyday Life The Dynamics of

    1 in stock

    Book SynopsisLynn Chancer advances the provocative thesis that sadomasochism is far more prevalent in contemporary societies like the United States than we realize. According to Chancer, sexual sadomasochism is only the best-known manifestation of what is actually a much more broadly based social phenomenon.Trade Review"An important contribution to that most pressing of cultural projects -- uncovering the psychic roots of authoritarianism.""A brilliant, highly original analysis of contemporary U.S. society. Chancer illuminates fundamental issues in American culture, in the workplace, in gender relationships, and the minefield of race." -- Ruth Sidel, Hunter College, and author of On Her Own: Growing Up in the Shadow of the American Dream"A brilliant, highly original analysis of contemporary U.S. society. Chancer illuminates fundamental issues in American culture, in the workplace, in gender relationships, and the minefield of race." -- Ruth Sidel, Hunter College, and author of On Her Own: Growing Up in the Shadow of the American DreamRuth Sidel, Hunter College, and author of On Her Own: Growing Up in the Shadow of the American Dream: "A brilliant, highly orginal analysis of contemporary U.S. society. Chancer illuminates fundamental issues in American culture, in the workplace, in gender relationships, and the minefield of race."Table of ContentsAcknowledgments Introduction Reflecting on a Set of Personal and Political Criteria Part One Expanding the Scope of Sadomasochism Chapter 1 Exploring Sadomasochism in the American Context Chapter 2 Defining a Basic Dynamic: Paradoxes at the Heart of Sadomasochism Chapter 3 Combining the Insights of Existentialism and Psychoanalysis: Why Sadomasochism? Part Two Sadomasochism in Its Social Settings Chapter 4 Employing Chains of Command: Sadomasochism and the Workplace Chapter 5 Engendering Sadomasochism: Dominance, Subordination, and the Contaminated World of Patriarchy Chapter 6 Creating Enemies in Everyday Life: Following the Example of Others Chapter 7 A Theoretical Finale Epilogue Notes Index

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    £27.90

  • Finding God Through Sex

    Sounds True Inc Finding God Through Sex

    10 in stock

    Book SynopsisWhen it comes to sex, most of us want more. The question is: more of what? According to David Deida, when the depth of intimacy you've been experiencing is no longer fulfilling to your heart and body—when you sense that sexuality should go far beyond an embrace of brief satisfaction—the time has come to explore your unique sexual path to the divine. In Finding God Through Sex, this brilliant writer and internationally renowned expert on spiritual sexuality presents a revolutionary new way to love—one in which sex literally becomes an erotic act of devotional surrender, "making love, magnifying love, from the boundless depth of your heart through every inch of your body and in merger with your lover." Through provocative vignettes that illuminate the many moods that color lovemaking, and direct instruction that speaks honestly to the masculine and feminine desires within each of us, Deida brings wisdom gained from 30 years' work with thousands of couples to illustrate the distinct yet complementary avenues men and women can skillfully travel toward untamed passion and sacred unity. What unfolds is an unparalleled road map to the place where we "love as the cosmos loves: One loving itself as an other, yet remembering itself as One."

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    £13.99

  • Rivers Oram Press Against Nature: Essays on History, Sexuality and

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    £12.30

  • The Viagra Myth  The Surprising Impact on Love

    Jossey Bass The Viagra Myth The Surprising Impact on Love

    Book SynopsisShows us that while Viagra has proved enormously helpful to many men, it has also uncovered previously ignored aspects of identity and authenticity in sexuality and relationships. This title provides insight and instruction about the reality of quick-fix solutions, sexuality, personal growth, and meaningful relationships.Trade ReviewMorgentaler, a practicing urologist and a professor at Harvard Medical School who has done research on erectile dysfunction, wants to explode the "notion of Viagra as an automatic solution, as the quick fix to all sexual problems." He has no problems with the millions of prescriptions of Viagra that doctors have make since the drug was introduced in 1998. But he is effective at presenting facts that are not so well known, such as that the drug works in 80% of men with performance anxiety but only two-thirds of men with other types of erectile dysfunction. What he does best, however, is to demonstrate how "a firm erection cannot solve deeper problems." Each chapter describes a situation in which a patient who thought that Viagra was the answer to his problems finds that there are other explanations. In one, a man learns that his performance problems have to do with the lack of trust he and his partner share; in another, a man who thinks that Viagra will make his sexual performance last the right time learns that "studies have shown that humans average only a minute and a half for the sexual encounters." Short bullet-point summaries of important information at the end of each chapter and an excellent section of "Frequently Asked Questions About Viagra" help make this book an important resource for both physicians and patients who are contemplating prescribing or using the drug, but who may be doing so for all the wrong reasons. (Oct.) (Piblishers Weekly, August 18, 2003) "...reveals for the first time the drug's popularity is waning as it leaves a trail of broken relationships and shattered expectations in its wake." (The Independent, 27 August 2003) "...warns that the drug may be killing passion rather than igniting it." (The New Zealand Herald, 28 August 2003) "...argues that the drug's side effects are not so much medical as emotional." (The Independent, 29 August 2003) Viagra can help many men, asserts urologist Morgentaler (Harvard Medical Sch.; The Male Body). But its cure-all-penises reputation is only a myth. It is most effective for erectile dysfunction caused by performance anxiety, less so for premature ejaculation and for medically caused problems. Viagra cannot supply desire, guarantee partner satisfaction, or rescue a relationship aground on different issues. Moreover, secret use of the drug can raise issues of trust and honesty with a partner. Yet there are effective treatments for when Viagra fails-injections, implants, vacuum devices, and couple therapy. Morgentaler's needed corrective is readable and well organized, with case histories and summaries - plus a chapter on gay relationships. Unfortunately, it lacks a resource section, guidelines for finding a doctor/therapist, and illustrations. A good general work on sexual dysfunction is Lawrence Hakim's The Couple's Disease, and Robert Butler and Myrna Lewis's The New Love and Sex After 60 is also highly recommended. Morgentaler's books is a valuable if imperfect addition to collections where Viagra books circulate frequently. (Index not seen.) —Martha Cornog, Philadelphia (Library Journal, October 1, 2003)Table of ContentsDedication. Acknowledgments. Introduction. Chapter 1: Viagra And The Perfect Cure. Chapter 2: The Viagra Edge: Is Harder Better? Chapter 3: Performance Anxiety and Viagra. Chapter 4: Viagra And Desire. Chapter 5: Viagra And Premature Ejaculation. Chapter 6: When Viagra Doesn’t Work. Chapter 7: The Viagra Myth In Gay Relationships. Chapter 8: Viagra and Prostate Cancer. Frequently Asked Questions About Viagra. Epilogue: The Future Of The Viagra Myth.

    £16.99

  • Blow Each Other Away

    Random House USA Inc Blow Each Other Away

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  • Lulu Press A to Z Of BDSM

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  • Createspace Independent Publishing Platform Better Anal Sex 27 Essential Anal Sex Tips You

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    £10.66

  • Morgan Thorne A Guide to Classic Discipline

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  • How to Bonk at Work: The Golden Rules of Bonking

    Headline Publishing Group How to Bonk at Work: The Golden Rules of Bonking

    Book SynopsisHow to Bonk at Work is the only guide to getting your end away at work, and is bursting with useful advice that you'll need if you are to have any chance of 'fishing on the company pier'. It starts with the Golden Rules of Workplace Fornication and follows up with many practical, real-life examples, showing you not only how to do it, but how to enjoy getting the job done while you're on the job!How to Bonk at Work includes advice on selecting your optimum bonk partner, a list of the best places to bonk, an Office Bonkasutra (more than 50 workplace positions), details of how to avoid pre- and post-bonk problems and how to improve your life by becoming a regular workplace bonker. All are complemented by useful diagrams, expert opinions and testimonials.Table of ContentsAfter the introduction, from a prominent office romeo, How to Bonk at Work covers many realistic workplace situations. What do to when:; You only have a five-minute break; You hear someone coming; You are stuck in a meeting; You make a mess; Someone else makes a mess; You want to leave early; You arrive late; and many more real situations that you may have faced. All are complemented by useful diagrams, expert opinions and testimonials. Don't have a go until you've had a flick through this unique book.

    £8.50

  • Enochian Sex Magic And How to Workbook

    New Falcon Publications,U.S. Enochian Sex Magic And How to Workbook

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    £26.34

  • Strategies for Child Welfare Professionals

    Jessica Kingsley Publishers Strategies for Child Welfare Professionals

    Book SynopsisExpert guidance for child welfare and youth care professionals looking to increase their knowledge about, and skills in, working with transgender and gender expansive youth and their families. Many professionals working in child welfare and youth service (including line workers, supervisors, managers, and administrators), lack adequate knowledge about trans or gender expansive identities, which means they are not sufficiently prepared to address or respond to the needs of trans or gender expansive youth. This guide will provide readers with the information they need to do their jobs effectively with youth of all genders, including guidance on relationships, discrimination, mental health, foster care and homelessness. It provides examples of successful practice in a variety of case narratives from youth and their families.Trade ReviewLong overdue, Mallon's book is powerfully honest, informative and practical-offering readers that chance to take a deep and enlightening journey into the lives and experiences of trans and gender expansive youth. A must read for people who work with youth in any capacity! -- June Paul, Assistant Professor, Social Work Department, Skidmore CollegeThis book is not just for child welfare professionals serving the transgender/gender expansive youth population, but for anyone providing caring to children and youth. Giving us the gift of an invaluable gender GPS, Gerald Mallon guides us through the imperatives for ensuring the gender health of young people of all genders in all communities and all living situations. A must on everyone's book shelf. -- Diane Ehrensaft, Ph.D. Director of Mental Health, UCSF Child and Adolescent Gender Center, Author of Gender Born, Gender Made and The Gender Creative ChildThis book, like its author, is innovative, clear, and honest. Gary Mallon has written a comprehensive practical guide for child welfare professionals who want to improve their skills working with transgender and gender-expansive youth and their families. In this book, Gary Mallon combines state-of-the-art knowledge with case examples gathered over his 45 years of experience in the field of child welfare. Written with an accessible style and a positive tone, this book offers lots of strategies and concrete actions that youth workers can take to improve their support to transgender and gender-expansive youth and their families. -- Mónica López López, PhD, Associate Professor, University of Groningen, the NetherlandsNot only a practical guide for youth, community and social workers, this book also offers a dive into the complexities of trans and gender-expansive young people's experiences. Packed with stories from T/GE youth, this volume offers advice and resources for the fields of psychology, social welfare, health and education. -- Dr Stephen Hicks, Senior Lecturer in Social Work, University of Manchester (UK)Mallon's book unpacks the complexities of working with transgender and gender-expansive youth and their families. Using the voices of T/GE youth themselves, the reader is grounded in an understanding of the difficulties of discrimination and social transitions, yet the book reminds us of the normal everyday lives of T/GE and all youth - their development, loves, relationships. -- Stephen T. Russell, Director, School of Human Ecology, UT AustinGary Mallon has devoted his career to ensure that social work professionals and child welfare services have the knowledge and skills they need to work effectively with LGBT+ young people. This publication specifically addresses the needs of transgender and gender expansive young people and their families. Professor Mallon's expertise on this topic is without question; the strength of this publication is that it is written with young people firmly at the centre, with quotes from young people included throughout the text. It addresses all areas of practice, including: language usage; transition issues; discrimination; education;, relationships; and child welfare programmes, including homelessness. It is an absolute 'must have' for any organisation that works with young people. -- Professor Christine Cocker, University of East Anglia, Norwich, United KingdomTable of ContentsIntroduction: Preparing to Work with Transgender and Gender Expansive Youth; Explanation of Terms; 1. The Basics; 2. The Developmental Process of Forming a Transgender or Gender Expansive Identity; 3. Family Issues; 4. Mental Health Issues; 5. Medical Transition Issues; 6. Educational Issues; 7. Discrimination and Anti-Transgender Harassment and Violence; 8. Creating Healthy Social Environments; 9. Relationships & Dating; 10. Child Welfare Programs; 11. Runaway and Homeless Youth Programs ; 12. A Call for Transforming Organizations; References; Resources; About the Author

    £22.99

  • Tabou Editions Shibari from Basic to Suspension: A Pocket Guide:

    15 in stock

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    15 in stock

    £18.95

  • Aphrodisiac

    Hay House Inc Aphrodisiac

    10 in stock

    Book SynopsisFrom the co-founder of one of the world''s most respected herbal education websites: recipes, rituals, practices, and personal stories to help you live a more sexually fulfilled and vital life.Plants are the great healers of the earth, and their capacity to support healthy sexuality is just as powerful. This beautifully written and illustrated book brings you into a relationship with herbs for sexual fulfillment and empowerment.Drawing on her own knowledge of herbalism and sacred sensuality, along with intimate stories from students who implemented her teachings, Kimberly Gallagher guides you on a personal journey of growth aided by the aphrodisiac properties and sensual uses of healing herbs and flowers such as damiana, cacao, and rose. Kimberly is an author and co-founder of LearningHerbs, a widely respected herbal education website.In Aphrodisiac, you''ll find thoughtful, soulful rituals and dozens of recipes for putting the herbs to use, such aTrade Review"Kimberly Gallagher's life-changing, life-enhancing, and life-expanding book Aphrodisiac is quite simply delicious. She takes the reader on a spine-tingling, heart-opening, and pulse-quickening awakening of all of our senses, leading each of us to experience the expansive wonder of all the sensual delights that life can offer." - Regena Thomashauer, New York Times best-selling author of Pussy: A Reclamation and Creatrix of Mama Gena's School of Womanly Arts "Aphrodisiac is a sensuous delight and a love letter to life itself. It invites and entices us to engage in the everyday aspects of life as sensuous acts of pleasure, and then goes on to explain in lovely detail exactly how to do so. This is Eros as its finest. Kimberly will help you create new levels of rapture and ecstasy as well as deeper heart connections." - Rosemary Gladstar, herbalist and author "Aphrodisiac is the book that I've always wanted! It encompasses a truly holistic understanding of sexuality that includes our relationship with the natural world and its healing, life-enhancing, Eros-encouraging plants. Just reading the recipes alone is a huge turn-on! Let Kimberly be your brilliant, wise, and empowering guide to the luscious world of wondrous plants (along with rituals, meditations, and more) that have the power to enhance our erotic connections with ourselves, with others, and with nature." - Sheri Winston, wholistic sexuality teacher, author of the award-winning Women's Anatomy of Arousal and Succulent SexCraft, founder of the Intimate Arts Center "In an age characterized by stress and uncertainty, Aphrodisiac invites us to remember pleasure and how good life can feel. Imagine all the good things you know you should be doing for yourself and your relationships-connecting with nature, pampering yourself, improving communication, having mind-blowing orgasms . . . the things we aspire to do and rarely find the time for. Aphrodisiac is a guide to discovering self-care, joy, love, and beauty." - Thomas Easley, author of The Modern Herbal Dispensatory "While plants have been used to enliven our sensuality since time immemorial, the idea of 'aphrodisiacs' is too often presented as something spurious, or something coercive. In reality, a person's sexuality is as important to their wellness as their digestion. Kimberly Gallagher offers us a guidebook to the use of herbs known to connect us to the fullness of our lives' and bodies' sensual health." - jim mcdonald, herbalist"Within just a few pages of Aphrodisiac, your center of gravity changes in relation to your concepts around sensuality, sexuality, and pleasure. This veritable feast of the senses will rock your world, leading you on a journey of sensory revelry unlike what you have experienced before. Kimberly Gallagher is your artful guide in discovering greater sexual fulfillment and harnessing sexual creativity to fuel all aspects of your life." - Kami McBride, author of The Herbal Kitchen "Kimberly Gallagher elevates the path of herbal aphrodisiacs to a higher plane, so that every reader may find steps to liberating deep desire and expressing joy. Plants on the physical plane provide sweet adventures for each of our paths to erotic bliss. Aphrodisiacshould be given to every person who has loved and wants to love." - Amanda McQuade Crawford, MA, MFT, MCPP, RH(AHG), Consulting Medical Herbalist

    10 in stock

    £22.79

  • Oral Sex Mini Book

    Quiver Books Oral Sex Mini Book

    10 in stock

    Book Synopsis

    10 in stock

    £10.67

  • Carnal Knowledge: Sex Education You Didn't Get in

    Prestel Carnal Knowledge: Sex Education You Didn't Get in

    10 in stock

    Book SynopsisWhen it comes to sex, there’s practically no question that Zoë Ligon hasn’t heard and researched. Her Instagram and YouTube videos, as well as product reviews, are extremely popular for their up-front approach. Now, she brings her wealth of experience and open-minded attitude to a sex-positive guidebook that’s honest, inclusive, and right on time. Lusciously illustrated, this book takes readers through every aspect of sexuality—from body basics and physiology to maintaining healthy relationships. It highlights the usefulness of sex toys in aiding solo and partnered exploration and explains why there should really be no stigma around using these practical tools. It also includes advice on setting boundaries, being respectful of other people’s gender identities, and thinking outside the orgasm. Elizabeth Renstrom’s dreamy, colorful photographs drive home Ligon’s philosophy that there’s no one “right” way to have sex. With its focus on intimacy, body positivity, and self-care, Carnal Knowledge can lead you to enjoy sex with security and confidence.

    10 in stock

    £14.24

  • How to Have Feminist Sex

    Penguin Books Ltd How to Have Feminist Sex

    2 in stock

    Book Synopsis''Funny, kind, generous and smart - I could have done with the wisdom of Flo Perry far sooner'' Dolly AldertonWe talk about feminism in the workplace and we talk about dating after #MeToo, but women''s own patriarchal conditioning can be the hardest enemy to defeat. When it comes to our sex lives, few of us are free of niggling fears and body image insecurities. Rather than enjoying and exploring our bodies uninhibited, we worry about our bikini lines, bulging tummies and whether we''re doing it ''right''.Flo broaches everything from faking it to consent, stress to kink, and how losing your virginity isn''t so different to eating your first chocolate croissant. Her mission is to get more people talking openly about what they do and don''t want from every romantic encounter.Trade ReviewPerry is on the charge to show feminism for the sexy movement it is, and offers it in a hilarious, accessible and completely non-judgemental package. * The Evening Standard *cheeky, sweet and extremely witty...figures of all shapes and sizes and ages and races (clothed and unclothed) contort and grin and dart across the pages, bringing to vivid life Perry's wisdom about as broad sexual quandaries as libido, trust, faking orgasms, consent, body image, pubic hair, nude photos, porn, ghosting, and virginity....an emotionally intelligent discussion about the climate in which women - but not just women - are navigating relationships * The i *Thank God for Flo Perry * The Times *Funny, kind, generous and smart - I could have done with the wisdom of Flo Perry far sooner -- Dolly AldertonFlo Perry is on a mission to improve your sex life...How To Have Feminist Sex is undoubtedly alluring (most books about sex are) but it's also a manual on how to get yours in bed and how to 'have the sex you want'. * Metro *

    2 in stock

    £16.14

  • Sheet Music Uncovering the Secrets of Sexual

    Tyndale House Publishers Sheet Music Uncovering the Secrets of Sexual

    4 in stock

    Book SynopsisWith his characteristic warmth and humor, Dr. Kevin Leman offers a practical guide to sex according to God''s plan. This frank and practical book is a perfect resource for married and engaged couples. Dr. Leman addresses a wide spectrum of people, from those with no sexual experiences to those with past sexual problems or even abuse. Using frank descriptions, this book has a warm and friendly tone that will help couples overcome awkwardness in discussing an issue important to all married couples.

    4 in stock

    £14.39

  • Mindful Shagging: the calmer sutra

    Ebury Publishing Mindful Shagging: the calmer sutra

    1 in stock

    Book SynopsisShag yourself zen.Release all stress with 60 calmer-sutra sexercises and meditations.With easy-to-follow instructional diagrams, and memorable mantras, this book will show you how to achieve inner peace, the fun way. Redirect your energy, master the power of intention. Inhale. Exhale, Cooooooohm.

    1 in stock

    £15.30

  • Queerying Occultures: Essays from Enfolding Vol.

    Original Falcon Press Queerying Occultures: Essays from Enfolding Vol.

    2 in stock

    Book Synopsis

    2 in stock

    £18.89

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