Relationships and families: advice, topics and issues Books
Crown House Publishing The Wolf was Not Sleeping: Police Care UK edition
Book SynopsisThe Wolf was Not Sleeping is a heartwarming bedtime story specially written by Avril McDonald to soothe the anxiety of children whose parents work as first responders and to encourage conversations which help them manage trauma. This book has a dedication from HRH Price William and features characters from the police force<
£7.59
Jessica Kingsley Publishers Landscapes of the Heart: The Working World of a
Book SynopsisIn this book, teacher and psychotherapist Juliet Grayson gives us privileged access to her unique client sessions. Following several couples' journeys through psychosexual therapy to more loving relationships, we witness her rich blend of life-changing approaches, including Pesso Boyden System Psychomotor (PBSP), the potent new methodology she has helped to pioneer in the UK.Exploring both the practical and theoretical aspects of her work, Juliet shakes our assumptions and shows ways to improve and ultimately heal our most intimate relationships. This is a ground-breaking book, valuable for lay readers and therapists alike.Trade ReviewBeautifully written. An enlightening and helpful exploration of various methodologies brought vividly alive with valuable case study examples that show how couples can recover the closeness of their early relationships whilst, at the same time, developing a deeper and more substantial understanding of each other that leads to a richer partnership. A compelling and lively read, steeped in humanity and compassion. I found her great many insights into the relatively new methodology of Pesso Boyden System Psychomotor fascinating. -- Sue Parker Hall, Relational Psychotherapist and Author of Anger, Rage and Relationship: An Empathic Approach to Anger ManagementJuliet is a skilled therapist who combines an intuitive understanding of relationships with a sound grasp of couples therapy techniques. Her enthusiasm for solving relationship problems, which shines through the text, together with examples of her work, makes this a valuable book for anyone curious about this field of therapy. -- Dr Michael Crowe, DM, FRCPsychBeautifully written and thought provoking, drawing from experience, casework and theory. An outstanding resource for clients and therapists alike. Highly recommended. -- Dana Braithwaite, UKCP Registered Psychosexual TherapistI am delighted to see Juliet publish the first book in the UK describing the effectiveness of Pesso Boyden System Psychomotor (PBSP) in individual and group sessions. This continues Juliet's passion: to spread the message that PBSP is a transformative method that supports people becoming more fully who they truly are and finding greater meaning and pleasure in life. -- Al Pesso, Co-Founder of PBSPThis book combines Juliet Grayson's expertise as a couples therapist with the wisdom she has acquired from Pesso Boyden System Psychomotor therapy. By showing how childhood issues come up in couple conflicts and providing resolutions through Pesso Boyden 'antidotes', she breaks new ground. -- Barbara Fischer Bartlemann, Dipl. Psych. MA, Pesso Boyden TrainerAs a lay person, I found Juliet's description of the therapeutic process clear and insightful. Her book gives the reader a strong sense of the power of these approaches, bringing the theoretical material vividly to life. -- Dr Sarah Goode, Sociologist and AuthorAfter twenty-five years of dedication to the field of therapy, Juliet shares thoughtful and creative insights into how our lives can change. I've seen her consistent love and support for many people as a therapist, now we get to take that home with us in her writing. Pesso Boyden therapy has an understanding of the unconscious born from Martha Graham dance, and insight into human nature. Juliet is a pioneer of this method in the UK, and I watch her develop it with deep respect. -- Marie-Elsa Bragg, Director of Westminster Leadership Consultancy and Duty Chaplain, Westminster AbbeyAn accessible and warming read! This book is ideal for one curious about psychotherapy. The style of writing invites a reader to 'sit beside' Juliet - with her clear mind and warm heart - while she finds a way to help and heal her client. -- Sandy Cotter, Founding Director of the Praxis Centre at Cranfield School of ManagementLandscapes of the Heart can be read from several perspectives. Its easy-to-read style will inform struggling couples - as well as benefit couples who want to improve a satisfactory relationship. Therapists (or anyone interested in becoming a therapist) will learn about the systemic nature of working with couples from the comprehensive client cases. This is an absorbing, practical and beautifully written book we will recommend to many people. -- Penny Tompkins and James Lawley, Authors of Metaphors in Mind: Transformation through Symbolic ModellingThis is an exciting and interesting book. It explores simply, clearly and sensitively difficulties we have in sexual relationships. Her description of the theoretical context to her work is lucid and accessible, which makes this book a good read for lay readers and practitioners alike. -- Jason Wright, MA, UKCP Registered Psychoanalytic Psychotherapist, Clinical Director of Number 42It's illuminating to see how the Pesso Boyden System Psychomotor method is applied in Juliet Grayson's compelling account of her work as a relationship and individual therapist. -- Sally Potter, Relationship Therapist, Executive Coach and Accredited Pesso Boyden TrainerJuliet's book is impressive. She starts off with practical clinical examples that demonstrate her work, and links that to her psychological understanding about human existence. -- Lowijs Perquin MD, PsychiatristI LOVED IT. Juliet allows us into her therapy room with openness, honesty and passion. The book demystifies couples therapy; it demonstrates how relationships can break down but more importantly how a couple can be helped to put things right again. Congratulations Juliet you have filled a real gap on the bookshelves. -- Trudy Hannington, UKCP Registered Psychosexual TherapistThis is an essential read for clients who want to enhance their self-awareness and emotional intelligence. -- Judith Lowe, MD of PPD Learning Ltd, NLP Institute, LondonJuliet has the ability to enthrall with her narrative. Within a few lines, I was gripped as if reading a page-turning thriller, wanting to know what happened next. It's more than just observational psychology, it's compelling and enlightening. The descriptions of the characters and their relationships are interwoven with Juliet's insights in a dance that carries you along. -- Antony Haynes, Registered Nutritional Therapist, Director of The Nutrition Clinic Ltd, Lecturer, AuthorJuliet's book is a real jewel. She brings depth and clarity to complex relationship issues in a way that will be of enormous value both to couples themselves as well as to therapists interested in going beyond a 'talking' approach. -- Nicholas Janni, Author and Founder of Core PresenceHave you ever been stuck, thought about going to therapy and hesitated? This is a compelling and inspiring book that I feel certain will help anyone interested in improving their relationships. -- Sharon Rooke, Psychotherapist, Chair of NLPtCAJuliet demonstrates a clear theoretical basis for her work, which is well explained. She then uses her creativity, humanity and wisdom to individualise her work and apply it to specific difficulties. -- Ruth Hallam Jones, Psychosexual TherapistA wonderful book. Practical, clearly written and full of insight, it is a valuable contribution to the literature on working with couples. -- Robin Shohet, Author and PsychotherapistJuliet Grayson is an inspirational therapist and teacher. This book is an invaluable contribution that will improve relationships - your own, or other people's. Having witnessed the Pesso Boyden technique myself, I am deeply impressed with this method. -- Paula Hall, Sexual & Relationship Psychotherapist, UKCP Reg, BACP Acc Sex Addiction TherapistTable of ContentsForeword. Brigid Proctor. 1. Jamie and Meg. 2. Frank and Maxine. 3. Rakesh and Kim. 4. Sheila. 5. Chloe and Josh. 6. Peter and Anita. 7. Horses, Therapy and Relationship. Appendices. References. About the Author.
£17.89
Jessica Kingsley Publishers Sulky, Rowdy, Rude?: Why kids really act out and
Book SynopsisChildren can go through difficult phases - this is a natural part of growing up. Conflicts and arguments are nothing exceptional, but rather a part of everyday family life. The authors of this practical and imaginative book show how parents can create consistent and effective structures, methods and responses, so that children can learn for themselves how to practise self-control and cooperation in a secure environment where they both belong and have autonomy.Based on years of experience working with children, including those with special needs, the authors structure their methods around the low arousal approach. With many creative suggestions and real-life examples, this book has the potential to change family life for the better forever.Trade ReviewOscar Wilde advised that if we wanted children to be good we first needed to make them happy. In this simply written, yet sophisticated book Bo Hejlskov Elvén and Tina Wiman invite us to understand the child's perspective through understanding our own part in it. Clear narrative and powerful vignettes combine to illustrate a range of gentle strategies to prevent or deal with conflict and confrontation that will appeal to parents and teachers alike. -- Richard Mills, Research Autism and University of BathSulky, Rowdy, Rude? Yet again Bo Hejlskov Elven and his colleague Tina Wiman have produced a wonderfully reflective book for families to help them focus on the behaviour of their child. In my view this book can also be read by frontline carers and other professionals working with children. There are a series of easy to read chapters which focus on how to understand the behaviour of young children and the low arousal approach permeates the entire book. In a user friendly way there are many themes that focus on how we perceive behaviours. Chapters include: 'Children behave well if they can' and my personal favourite 'conflicts consist of solutions'. The authors tailor the book well to their main audience. I would recommend this book widely. -- Andrew McDonnell, Ph.D., CEO Studio3, Clinical Psychologist, and Visiting Professor of Autism Studies at Birmingham City University, UKTable of ContentsPart One. Introduction. 1. Who has the problem? 2. Children behave well if they can. 3. People do what makes most sense in each situation. 4. The one that takes responsibility can make a difference. 5. Children learn nothing from failure. 6. You need self-control to cooperate. 7. We all do what we can to maintain self-control. 8. Feelings are contagious. 9. Conflicts consist of solutions. 10. We make demands of children that they don't make of themselves - but in a way that works. 11. It is not fair to treat everyone the same. 12. You become the leader when someone follows you.Part Two. We live in a garage. Cases: Liam and the morning row. Ava and the sibling row. Alvin wants to be alone. Hannah and tooth-brushing. The Principle of the gentle approach. Summary.
£15.99
Jessica Kingsley Publishers All You Need Is Love: Celebrating Families of All
Book SynopsisAll families come in different shapes and sizes, but they are all special when they love and respect each other. These rhyming stories are a celebration of the diversity of families and encourage inclusion and acceptance in a child's relationships.By promoting diversity and understanding in family life and elsewhere, these stories support a positive approach to life at a young age, which fosters strong mental health and well-being. Each page is dedicated to a different family, with stories exploring adoption, fostering, disability, race, gender, and illness. Filled with humour and delightfully illustrated, children will love reading these stories with friends, family and in school again and again.Trade ReviewThis excellent and engaging book celebrates families of all shapes and sizes. With a page to each story, intended to be read along with huge full colour fun illustrations, the up beat stories cover all types of modern (and post-modern) families and the ways in which our glorious LGBT community has given itself wholeheartedly to raising healthy, well-adjusted and diverse families. Recommended for younger readers and for anyone with children. -- G SceneAll You Need is Love is a resource that has been welcomed by primary school PSHE co-ordinators in Brighton & Hove as it offers enrichment to the current work they do on developing children's understanding of the range of families we are all part of. The rich diversity of families covered by this book and the engaging way they are described make it a 'must have' resource for Primary PSHE. -- Sam Beal, Partnership Adviser: Health and Wellbeing Families, Children and Learning (Education and Skills) Brighton & Hove City CouncilThis lovely book helps show that families like ours, are normal too. My husband has Huntingtons Disease, and it's part of our family life. -- Heidi Harrison, Wife, Mum, Sister and AuntieAll You Need is Love is a gentle reminder that we are all special in our own way. Through celebrating our beautiful differences, we find compassion. And through loving with an open heart, we can make the world a better place for generations to come. I love this book very much indeed. -- Jeff Chandler is an author and journalist living in LondonAll You Need is Love offers a warm and light-hearted approach to looking at different families and circumstances. The material is sensitively handled in a straightforward way, and complimented by delightful illustrations and poems. This book will certainly help children who feel they may not 'fit in' to be reassured and to celebrate their own family. -- Sarah Naish, author of The Therapeutic Parenting Books SeriesAn excellent, positive resource on diversity in families. -- Healthy BooksTable of Contents1. One of a Kind. 2. Weekend Dads. 3. My Hairy Sister. 4. Our Dad is Poorly. 5. My Daughter's a Boy. 6. Me and My Brother. 7. My Grandparents. 8. My Twin. 9. Mummy, Daddy and Me. 10. Your Family.
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Jessica Kingsley Publishers Motherhood Missed: Stories from Women Who Are
Book SynopsisMany women expect to become mothers but are childless through social rather than biological reasons - perhaps they haven't met the right person or they prioritised career or education earlier in life. Featuring international interviews by grief counsellor and researcher Lois Tonkin, this collection of first-person stories provides insight into the under-discussed situation of being childless by circumstance.Each story highlights the different aspects of being childless by circumstance, as women move through their 30s, 40s, and 50s, and beyond their ages of fertility. The book explores feelings of grief and loss, and also how women adapt positively to their changed life expectations, finding excitement in the alternative, rich and complex shapes their lives have taken.Trade ReviewWith love and care, Lois Tonkin has weaved an incredibly important book. This is the story of what it means to be a woman today - whether or not you have children. But for those women who are childless not by choice, the stories told here will help them to realise that they are not alone - that, in fact, they are part of a social phenomenon which is changing the way the world looks today. It is something that everyone needs to understand better, and Lois' book plays a vital part in achieving that. I thank and salute her. -- Jessica Hepburn, author of the The Pursuit of Motherhood, 21 Miles: swimming in search of the meaning of motherhood and Founder of Fertility Fest (www.fertilityfest.com)I nodded "yes, yes" as I read the stories Lois Tonkin has collected from women, like me, who are childless by circumstance. With candor, they articulate the self-blame, social isolation, layers of intangible losses, and indescribable grief we experience. Finally, we are no longer invisible, no longer alone. -- Kathleen Guthrie Woods, Life Without Baby columnist and author of The Mother of All DilemmasSadness, regret, happiness, acceptance and grief are all here in equal measures. As I read each story I feel amongst those whose hearts I recognise and understand. These women may be strangers but they feel like friends. I feel safe in their circle. -- Stephanie Phillips, Founder, World Childless WeekTable of ContentsAcknowledgements. Foreword by Jody Day. Introduction. 1. Gina, USA. 2. Toni, New Zealand. 3. Andrea, England. 4. Lynne, New Zealand. 5. Molly, New Zealand. 6. Leeann, Australia. 7. Bron, New Zealand. 8. Persephone, England. 9. Sonja, New Zealand. 10. Claudia, Australia. 11. Louise, New Zealand. 12. Hannah, Spain. 13. Maree, New Zealand. 14. Julia, New Zealand. 15. Raewyn, India 16. Genevieve, England. 17. Holly, New Zealand. 18. Bridget, New Zealand. 19. Yvonne, England. 20. Deborah, New Zealand. 21. Brigitte, England. 22. Georgina, New Zealand. 23. Rebecca, Australia. 24. Rachael, New Zealand. 25. Teena, New Zealand. 26. Rose, New Zealand. 27. Shanti, England. 28. Shelly, New Zealand. 29. Kathryn, New Zealand. 30. Stella, New Zealand. 31. Vicki, New Zealand. 32. Natasha, England. About the Author
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John Blake Publishing Ltd My Dad, The Guv'nor - The True Story of My Life
Book Synopsis'I am the Guv'nor's daughter - but what does that mean?'Lenny McLean, better known as The Guv'nor, was a legendary and sometimes terrifying figure: a bare-knuckle fighter, bouncer and, in later life, an actor. He was a formidable force in the East End and across London, but behind his towering demeanour was a loving father who provided a safe haven for his children. For his only daughter, Kelly, his status brought with it a reputation both to live up to, and sometimes escape.Kelly experienced the old East End way of life, often lived just outside the law, first-hand and equally the uncertainty that came with her father's mood swings and the 'black dog' that followed him around, despite their close bond. The connection between father and daughter became even more apparent as Kelly began to battle her own mental health issues that, as a mum to two young children, would threaten to destroy her life.In this incredibly frank and poignant memoir, Kelly McLean provides a unique insight into life growing up as the daughter of one of the last old-school fighters, featuring many previously untold stories. This is the story of East End life from a woman who has seen it, lived it, and sometimes been plagued by it.
£8.54
Headline Publishing Group Is Monogamy Dead?: Rethinking relationships in
Book Synopsis'My favourite way to learn is when a funny, clever, honest person is teaching me - that's why I love Rosie Wilby.' Sara PascoeIn early 2013, comedian Rosie Wilby found herself at a crossroads with everything she'd ever believed about romantic relationships. When people asked, 'who's the love of your life?' there was no simple answer. Did they mean her former flatmate with whom she'd experienced the most ecstatic, heady, yet ultimately doomed, fling? Or did they mean the deep, lasting companionate partnerships that gave her a sense of belonging and family? Surely, most human beings need both. Mixing humour, heartache and science, Is Monogamy Dead? details Rosie's very personal quest to find out why Western society is clinging to a concept that doesn't work that well for some of us and is laden with ambiguous assumptions.Trade ReviewBittersweet, original, honest and so funny. Rosie Wilby nails the challenges of intimacy and romance in this depressing age of Tinder. Would it be wrong to end a life of monogamy and leave my husband for her? -- Viv GroskopMy favourite way to learn is when a funny, clever, honest person is teaching me - that's why I love Rosie Wilby. -- Sara Pascoe
£10.44
Austin Macauley Publishers Who's In Charge?: Why children abuse parents, and
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Headline Publishing Group The Joy of Being Selfish: Why You Need Boundaries
Book Synopsis• Is your friendship group constantly filled with drama? • Does your boss make constant unreasonable demands? • Do you find yourself saying 'yes' to people and events to keep those around you happy? • Do you often find yourself emotionally exhausted and physically drained? If so, you need a strong dose of boundaries. It's time to discover the joy being selfish. Putting the needs of everyone around us before our own is ingrained in us from a young age. Often, this leaves us with little time or energy for much-needed self-love and self-care, and to figure out who we truly are and what we really want.Life coach and influencer '@scarrednotscared' Michelle Elman is here to teach you about reclaiming your life through the art of boundaries. The practical side of self-love, creating and upholding strong boundaries will teach others how to treat you, rid your life of drama and toxic relationships and allow you to love yourself and others in the best way possible.Trade Review'A practical guide that will reclaim your time, energy and self-belief' * Stylist *'Michelle has made me feel more confident in my own boundary setting in my workplace and relationship. I could not recommend this book enough to those who struggle saying no and put other people's happiness before their own' -- Holly Hagan'Michelle's sense of empowerment and self-love and self-care is so palpable you can actually use it as bricks and mortar to build better boundaries for yourself ... I certainly have!' -- Carrie Hope Fletcher'Michelle is the queen of boundaries. We all need this book, now more than ever! Whether it's work, romance, family or friends, Michelle will guide you through the process of setting boundaries. By the end of the book you'll be proud to call yourself selfish because it will mean you are showing yourself the love and respect you deserve' -- Katie Piper'If you feel guilty saying no, expressing your needs or standing up for yourself, allow this book to hit you with some uncomfortable but necessary truths. Michelle's signature take-no-sh*t attitude combines with genuine compassion and expertise to teach you what boundaries really look like, and why you deserve them. Every woman in my life would benefit from this book' -- Megan Jayne Crabbe, @bodyposipanda'I have learned so much from The Joy of Being Selfish and I've noticed a change in myself and my attitude. Even my friends have noticed! I didn't realise how much stuff I needed to let go of until I read this book and I've now shared it with my loved ones! Thank you for the wisest words and for showing the literal joy in being selfish' -- Sharon RooneyTable of ContentsWhat is a Boundary? • Barriers to Boundary Setting • Stages to Boundary Setting • Setting Boundaries in Different Contexts • Your New Life.
£999.99
Octopus Publishing Group You Are the Best Sister in the World Because…:
Book SynopsisGo on, admit it: your sister's pretty great, isn't she?Here's the perfect way to tell her - in your own words - just how much her friendship, support and love means to you. Fill in the gaps in this gorgeous book to create a personalized treasure trove of in-jokes, memories and all the things you love about your sis that she'll cherish forever.
£6.99
Troubador Publishing Fragrance of Freedom: Discovering Peace Through
Book SynopsisA Transparent Enquiry into the True Nature of Motherhood “Our true essential nature is free, peaceful, whole, and interconnected with all of life. We need simply turn our attention deeply within, so it may be recognised. Only then will we clearly see our child’s true essence, and come to feel our shared, peaceful Being.” Heena Vasani FRAGRANCE of FREEDOM celebrates Heena Vasani’s remarkable East-West journey through childhood. It is a magical revelation of one woman’s self-determination to forgive, to heal, to overcome, and to transform the shadow and pain of an ancestral wound into the compassionate teachings for conscious parenthood. FRAGRANCE of FREEDOM is both a prayer and a mothers call to action on behalf of children everywhere. Exquisitely designed, and illustrated by Heena’s children, this book invites us to reflect deeply on the authentic conditions required for conscious, connected parenting, and the wellbeing of children entrusted to our care. With its utter simplicity, penetrating dialogue, and transparent enquiry into the true nature of motherhood, this book returns us to the essence of Life itself. In FRAGRANCE of FREEDOM, Heena Vasani demonstrates that by facing our suffering we unearth its fierce gift, which draws us home to our Source, our true essential nature, with sudden unexpected speed, and turns our gaze once more, into Love’s Peaceful Presence. – Chloë Goodchild Founder of The Naked Voice
£13.49
Hay House UK Ltd Setting Boundaries Will Set You Free: The
Book Synopsis'Please read this book . . . and then give it to everyone you know!' - Gabrielle Bernstein, #1 New York Times bestsellerThe ultimate guide to stop people-pleasing and reclaim your personal space by setting clear boundaries.Do you feel like you're a 'pushover'? Does self-care feel selfish to you? And do you find yourself feeling resentful towards others because they don't seem to take your needs into consideration?In this book, master coach, speaker and author Nancy Levin will help you establish clear and healthy boundaries. This book includes exercises and practical tools to help even the most conflict-averse, people-pleasing readers learn new habits. You'll learn how to:· Recognize and take inventory of your boundaries· View your boundaries differently by creating a 'Boundary Pyramid'· Gather the courage to live a life of 'boundary badassery'· Learn how to say no!'This work was life-changing for me, and if you're someone who has avoided boundaries for years, it can change your life, too.' - Nancy Levin
£12.99
Karnac Books The Art and Science of Relationship: The Practice
Book SynopsisThis is an easy-to-read explication of relationally focused integrative psychotherapy/counselling that will be enjoyed by novice and experienced mental health professionals worldwide. Richard Erskine and Janet Moursund illuminate the central role of the therapeutic relationship, and of relationships in general, both in the healing process and in maintaining a psychologically healthy life. They posit that the therapeutic relationship is key to helping clients become integrated or whole, and present both theory and practice to demonstrate this view. The book is divided into three parts: Theoretical Foundations, Therapeutic Practice, and a full verbatim transcript of a therapy session. The book’s unique feature is the linkage of the transcript section with the earlier, theoretical and practice-oriented sections to clearly show how theory can be applied in the consulting room. For virtually every exchange between therapist and patient, the reader is directed back to a discussion of the specific aspect of theory and method that underly the actual words being spoken. The result is theory brought to life, theory brought out of the classroom or the professional workshop and into the real world of ongoing psychotherapy. This book is highly recommended for students and practitioners of psychotherapy, counselling, and clinical psychology, and will be of interest to all those who work in a mental health setting.Trade Review‘I love reading this book. It is an essential text in my counselling and psychotherapy courses. I find the relational orientation to be informative, powerful, and comprehensive while the style of writing makes the concepts and methods easy for trainees to learn. The various examples of actual therapy help my trainees to be effective therapists and also help me to be a better trainer and supervisor.’ -- Elena Maria Guarrella, Trainer and Supervisor, Istituto di Analisi Transazionale Integrativa, Roma, Italy‘This splendid book is ideal for the experienced psychotherapist and mental health counsellor while also serving as an important professional guide for someone new to the professions. It conveys Richard Erskine’s and Janet Moursund’s very meaningful philosophy, theory, and methods of relational psychotherapy. The authors address the therapeutic relationship with respect, profundity, and hope. The relevant case examples make the theory come alive. It was a pleasure to read this book and learn from two master psychotherapists.’ -- Amaia Mauriz-Etxabe, licensed clinical psychologist, certified integrative psychotherapist, trainer and supervisor; Professor of Psychology, Deusto University; Director, BIOS Institute for Integrative Psychotherapy, Bilbao, Spain‘I love this book. The writing is simple, yet the authors cover a vast knowledge of psychotherapy and counselling while offering practical guidelines on how to work with our clients. Throughout this book, I was accompanied in understanding how authentic relationships are achieved, maintained, and repaired when disrupted. The transcripts of actual therapy sessions, and the authors’ explanations, reveal how a relationally focused integrative psychotherapy enhances our clients’ healing and wellbeing. This book is a must-read for all mental health practitioners.’ -- Karen Cesarano, chartered psychologist and psychotherapist; trainer and supervisor, International Integrative Psychotherapy Association'As an integrative counsellor, I found this the most comprehensive and useful book on the subject I've come across [...] My favourite part of the book is 'Therapeutic interventions', which feels very containing and takes you step-by-step through the therapeutic encounter, starting from the first session to eventually saying goodbye. [...] This is an engaging textbook about working relationally that would be useful for any therapist, regardless of their modality.' -- Kevin Franke, integrative counsellor and group facilitator, 'BACP Therapy Today', October 2023, 34:8Table of ContentsAbout the authors Preface Introduction to the reissue PART I: Theoretical Foundations CHAPTER 1: Development of Integrative Psychotherapy Roots and Beyond Modern Psychotherapies Principles of Relationship-Focused Integrative Psychotherapy Relationship Summary CHAPTER 2: Script, Repression, and Contact Distortion Schemas and Script The Function of Script Maintaining the Script System The Consequences of Script, Repression, and Contact Disruption The Widening Spiral Summary CHAPTER 3: Relationship and Human Development The Early Experience of Relationship The Concept of Relational Needs Development and Healthy Relationships Development and Unhealthy Relationships Trauma and Its Consequences Summary PART II: Therapeutic Interventions CHAPTER 4: Healing the Hurts A Set of Interlocking Systems The Role of Relationship in the Healing Process Relationship and the Facets of Growth and Change Accessibility Summary CHAPTER 5: Creating a Therapeutic Relationship Developing Therapeutic Personhood Symmetry and Asymmetry Empathy Summary CHAPTER 6: Beyond Empathy Attunement Inquiry Involvement Summary CHAPTER 7: Beginning the Work First-Session Tasks Establishing a Safe Working Environment The Decision to Work Together The Therapeutic Contract Saying Good-Bye Summary CHAPTER 8: Moving In Affect and Awareness Fear and Anxiety Resistance and Repression Accessing Summary CHAPTER 9: Therapeutic Interventions Intervention Guidelines Interpretation Enactment and Experiment Regression Behavioral Interventions Summary CHAPTER 10: A Focus on Relationship Three Relational Concerns Transference and Countertransference Revisited Touch Therapist Error The Juxtaposition Response Shame The Moment of Meeting Summary CHAPTER 11: Termination Termination Criteria The Decision to Terminate Preparing for Termination Tasks of Termination Taking New Behaviors Out Into the World The Last Session Summary PART III: The Transcript CHAPTER 12: The Transcript Postscript Transcript Linkage Index References Name Index Subject Index
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Cicada Books I Miss You: Activities for yearning hearts
Book Synopsis‘’I Miss You is an artful resource for those looking to ease the burdens of longing and lighten their heavy hearts’’. -- Foreword Reviews With a gentle and considerate style, this evocative little gift book proposes a series of conceptual activities to help the reader work through the sense of loss that arises when someone or something is missing from their lives. For example; Spend one minute writing a list of all the things you can remember doing with the person that you miss. Simple everyday events can make as many memories as big adventures. Write as fast as you can. When one minute is up, stick the list to a window pane so that it can be seen from outside. With beautiful, stripped back illustration and elegant packaging, this book is a striking and affordable gift for a friend or for yourself.
£9.49
Headline Publishing Group The Little Book of Dad: Perfect Words for Awesome
Book SynopsisTheir bellies may stretch their spandex beyond saving and their capes may only fly after a large ominous-sounding fart, but – make no mistake – dads are superheroes. Well, half the time, at least. Because, let's not forget, when it comes to cocking things up, dads are also incredibly self-sufficient. Ignored by mums everywhere and taken advantage by babies of all ages, being a dad is arguably the world's toughest job (after motherhood, of course). Overworked, underpaid and constantly in need of feeding, dads deserve just as much attention, validation and an equal share of the duvet as mums, and yet often have to settle for second best. From taxi-ing teenagers to funding fun, juggling jobs to half-arsing house chores, dads simply are the best. Even at their hungover worst.This Little Book of Dad is a celebration of dad-hood, daddy-ing and all the dad-based shenanigans that come with it. And it couldn't be more timely. With Netflix, YouTube and Fortnite – all of whom are much more fun than you – there has never been a better time in history to sit back, relax and just enjoy the wonders of fatherhood. Consider this tiny tome a bedside companion for exhausted dads of all strange shapes, sizes and smells, which, last time we looked, was all of them.Table of ContentsHistory of dads • types of dads • DIY dads • dadioms (dad idioms/phrases/sayings) dad quiz • dads at home • dads at work • dad facts and stats • icons of fatherhood • dad drinks • dad quotes and quips • wisecracking wit and wisdom • dad bod tips • dad to-do lists • dad glossary • parenting hacks, tips, tricks and techniques • dads in film, literature and culture • evolution of the dad • famous dads • dad jokes • - and lots more dad-based stuff!
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Boldwood Books Ltd New Family Required: The laugh-out-loud,
Book SynopsisBrand new from the bestselling author of Worn Out Wife Seeks New LifeSasha Greenhope has a very lovely life. Her marriage is solid, her only daughter is delightful, and the family business is going full steam ahead.The only blip on the horizon is the upcoming family reunion for her parents 40th wedding anniversary at Chadwell House – the family pile. Sasha just does not fit with her rich family. Her French mother, Delphine thinks everything Sasha does is a faux pas.. And siblings, Adele and Beau, are clearly the favourites, leaving Sasha surplus to requirementsSo when Sasha’s husband Ben takes this exact moment to reveal that they are about to go bankrupt, Sasha wants to be anywhere but stuck in a lavish marquee!Swallowing her pride, and a whole bottle of fizz, Sasha determines to ask her family for help – and maybe even a loan – only to discover that her parents and siblings are all keeping secrets of their own!Family secrets, warring siblings and a disastrous reunion… what could possibly go right?! Another brilliant laugh out loud emotional read, perfect for fans of Fiona Gibson, Tracy Bloom and Sophie Ranald!Praise for Carmen Reid:‘Escapist summer reading at its best.' Jill Mansell
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Granta Publications Ltd There Is No Blue
Book SynopsisThe three protagonists in this memoir are dead: a mother, a father, and a sister. A bookish and artistic family living in a beautiful old house in a pleasant part of Toronto. Two girls growing up in the 60s and 70s. All seems well until one of them begins to manifest signs of distress, leading, eventually, to a diagnosis of schizophrenia. In this triptych of beautifully written memoir-essays, Canadian author Martha Baillie reflects on the complex entangled lives of her mother, father and sister. There Is No Blue is both a close observation of a family's experience of a diagnosis of mental illness, and a layered story of grief.Trade ReviewThis is a stunning memoir, intense and meticulous in its observations of family life. Baillie subtly interrogates and conveys the devastating mistranslations that take place in childhood, the antagonism and porousness of siblings, and the tragedy of schizophrenia as it unfolds. I couldn't put it down. -- Lisa AppignanesiA meditation on the mystery and wonder of grief and art making and home and memory itself... Baillie's variety of attention, carved out of language, is tenderness, is love... Extraordinary -- Maud Casey, author of City of Incurable WomenExquisite -- Souvankham Thammavongsa, author of How to Pronounce KnifeStrange, unsettling, highly evocative, often disturbing. Its brave honesty is amplified by a persistent lyricism; its undercurrent of fear is uplifted by a surprising, resilient hopefulness. It is both a plea for exoneration and an act of exoneration, an authentic meditation on the terrible difficulty of being human -- Andrew Solomon
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Hay House UK Ltd Transforming the Mother Wound
Book SynopsisFind peace with your mother wound, with nervous-system regulating practices, rituals, and journaling prompts to peel back the layers of soul-wounds and awaken rooted wholeness.In this work, I undertook to honor the mystery, magic, and the unseen elements of transforming core wounding because life is so much more than what can be quantified through linear science. It is also your multi-dimensionality, your humanity, and spirituality. Let us explore together. Monika CarlessFounded in earth-based spirituality and mysticism, Transforming the Mother Wound is for anyone who seeks a gentle path to self-healing.This book is organized to help you in Remembering the Self, Finding Reconciliation with the Mother Archetype, Processing Grief and Generational Trauma, and Learning Rituals for Re-Birthing. Its dynamic exploration is focused on transformation at a cellular, intergenerational level, with interactive pages that invite you to participate in
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Crumps Barn Studio Personal Islands: FAREWELL MY LONELY and other
Book Synopsis"Ultimately we're all alone ... I have a lot of friends but there are some things no friend can share" Solitude can mean freedom. Or it can mean being in a crowd and knowing how impossible it is to truly share another's thoughts. Original and compelling, this is an intimate study of the human experience of isolation. Unforgettable fiction from TV and radio scriptwriter Michael Bartlett (The Archers, BBC Radio Drama)
£8.54
Jessica Kingsley Publishers Beyond Pronouns: The Essential Guide for Parents
Book SynopsisIf your child or teen recently told you they are transgender, non-binary or genderfluid, you're bound to have questions. You may wonder how best to support your child's transition and doubt whether you are making the right decisions.When her son came out as transgender, Tammy Plunkett had the same worries. In Beyond Pronouns, she shares her candid experiences learning to navigate her child's transition and provides clear and practical guidance to help you do the same. She deals with many frequently asked questions, including:- Is this a phase?- Why not wait until they're an adult?- How do I tell others my child is gender-diverse?- Where do we start a child's transition?Offering gentle guidance through the first 100 days and beyond, Tammy uniquely addresses the need for parents to be supported so they can best care for their child. You will find ways to face common fears, have important conversations with your child, be a good ally and much more, with age-appropriate approaches that aim for a happy and connected family.Trade ReviewThis book will come to the rescue of parents faced with the reality of a child not identifying with their gender assigned at birth. It is written by someone who has lived through this experience, in a practical, realistic, open and non-judgemental voice. It reminds us to be gentle and forgiving to ourselves as we support our gender diverse children to navigate their transition journey. -- Dr Danièle Pacaud, Pediatric Endocrinologist and Dr Martin Vetter, Child Psychiatrist, Alberta Children’s Hospital Metta Clinic (Pediatric Gender Services)This book is incredibly important and I'm going to make sure to have this available for any parent/person who wants to read this. I'm so incredibly in love with this. I adore Tammy Plunkett and I don't even know her, and I will forever be so grateful for her and her son for putting this book into the world. -- NetGalley ReviewerTammy Plunkett has written an immensely important book about gender identification, the struggles families encounter and the joy of eventually getting it right and having a happy, confident, and mature teenager as part of the family." -- NetGalley ReviewerTable of ContentsIntroduction 1. Addressing Your Own Feelings2. Important Conversations You'll Have With Your Child 3. What and When to tell Whom 4. Social Transition 5. What's in a Name 6. Do You Need a Therapist or a Doctor? 7. When There's More Going On 8. For Now, Not Forever9. Beyond the First 100 Days Frequently Asked QuestionsResources
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Crown House Publishing Boundaries in Human Relationships: How to be
Book SynopsisBoundaries are what keep us separate from other people. But they also connect us to them. Being able to manage the boundaries in our relationships enables us to stay fulfilled, happy and productive, and move beyond our psychological and emotional blocks. Boundaries in Human Relationships delves deeply into the meaning of boundaries, how to manage them and provides the practical skills and tools necessary to use them to our advantage. You will learn to understand exactly what boundaries are, recognise when you need them and how to create and maintain them using three simple skills: a clearly defined structure of boundaries specific practical steps for creating and managing boundaries - with examples and exercises an in-depth exploration of the significant areas of relationships and self-esteem through the lens of boundaries. The most important distinction anyone can ever make in their life is between who they are as an individual and their connection with others; Can you truly love another and be the whole, complete and unique person you are? How do you know the difference between your fear and your partners' fear? Or between your past anger and your here-and-now anger? The answer is boundaries and this is a practical guide to unlocking these mysteries.
£22.01
FROM YOU TO ME I Made A Book About You: Create a book that's as
Book SynopsisThe pages you can handwrite in are: * One of my favourite memories of you is . . . * How you inspire me . . . * The moment I knew we would be friends . . . * Something we have in common . . . * A song that reminds me of you . . . * One of my favourite things about you is . . . * Something I want to do with you in the future . . . * Something I admire about you . . . * Something you have taught me . . . * I can always rely on you to . . . * If I could grant you a magic wish it would be. . . * You deserve a medal for . . . * Our favourite thing to do together . . . * Something I would like to thank you for . . . * The best thing you have said to me . . . Printed on high-quality paper that feels lovely to write on, this gift book is designed to be completed by you and given to someone special. Made with paper & love, from you to me. Why we love it A wonderful gift that is truly unique and special. A sturdy hardback cover gives the gift a high-quality and luxurious feel. Featuring your words and with gorgeous illustrations, this is a truly personal gift. There's even space for a gift message inside.
£9.50
FROM YOU TO ME Everything Is Better Because Of You: A heartfelt
Book SynopsisEverything Is Better Because Of You is a lovely hardback gift book for someone special. It's filled with many reasons they mean everything to you. The charming rhyming text and wonderful hand drawn illustrations, with a bear and rabbit representing a special relationship between two people, provide a meaningful celebration of closeness and wellbeing. With space for a handwritten personal message in the front, the book begins: * You mean everything to me . . . * From the stars in the sky . . . to the fish in the sea. * Because of you the sun glows . . . you brighten up the shadows. * Because of you I enjoy each minute . . . of life's adventures, the sky's the limit. It continues with many more meaningful statements, each illustrated in full colour. This delightful book will let that special person in your life, whoever they are, know how much they mean to you. It makes the perfect gift on their birthday, for Christmas, on Mother's Day or Father's Day or just because you care. Made with paper & love, from you to me. Why we love it Super cute illustrations of a bear and a rabbit capture their wonderful relationship, at the same time reflecting one you have with someone special to you. The soft touch cover adds to the high-quality finish of this heartfelt, keepsake gift.
£9.50
Hawthorn Press Between Form and Freedom: Raising a Teenager
Book SynopsisBetty Staley explores the vibrant and exuberant nature of adolescence, offering a wise guide to raising a teenager, including: the stages of adolescence, the search for the self, the birth of the intellect, the release of feelings, male-female differences, temperaments and character. Challenges are tackled around self-esteem, pregnancy, behavioural problems, stress, depression, media, genderfluidity, eating disorders, drug and alcohol abuse. Growth needs are explored in relation to family, friends, the media, education, the arts, loyalty and relationships. Parents value this wise, practical guide, as Betty uniquely addresses teenagers' soul and spiritual needs at a time when the quest for meaning is so vital.
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Jacaranda Books Art Music Ltd Through the Leopard's Gaze
Book SynopsisIn her captivating memoir Through the Leopard's Gaze, Njambi McGrath details the harrowing circumstances of her life as a young girl in Kenya, who one fateful night was beaten to a pulp and left for dead. Thirteen-year-old Njambi, fearing her assailant would return to finish her, courageously escaped, walking through the night in the Kenyan countryside, risking wild animals, robbers and murderers, before being picked up by two shabbily dressed but safe men. She buries the memories of that fateful day and night, and years later ends up in London with a British husband and children. Then one day a simple unassuming wedding invitation arrives in her mailbox causing her to have to confront the remnants of a past she had thought was behind her.This is a book about survival, and courage when all else fails. It's a searingly honest examination of human cruelty and strength in equal measure.Trade ReviewImportant voice * The Times *Deliciously tart lines * Evening Standard *Compelling rarely heard perspective * FESTMAG *Cutting edge confident comedian * FRINGEREVIEW *A must see * The Scotsman *Trail blazing * Guardian *
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Mirror Books Christine McGuinness: A Beautiful Nightmare
Book SynopsisWe all know the fairy-tale. An everyday girl meets her Prince Charming, they get married, have children and ride off into the sunset. Sadly, this isn't always the case and Christine McGuinness is keen to change the stereotype that marriage, fame and fortune brings an easy and blissful life... This is Christine's first book, where she tells the world her life story for the very first time. As well as outlining the difficulties and joys of being a mother to three autistic children, the autobiography delves into her anorexia battle, fertility troubles, her marriage, modelling career and tough childhood, subjects which are sensitive and many of which she hasn't spoken about before. She is a mum of three to eight-year-old twins Leo and Penelope and four-year-old Felicity, all of whom have been diagnosed with autism. In this frank and candid read, Christine reveals the struggles she's overcome in her life and still battles with today, but at the heart of it, she's on a mission to learn more about autism and to educate others and change the stigma around the condition. Christine wants to campaign to improve rights for those with invisible disabilities. She wants her children to be able to get a job, have relationships and live independent lives. Alongside writing her book, Christine and her husband Paddy are filming a BBC documentary about autism. It will air this Autumn. In the book, Christine will give readers a detailed insight into what being a full-time mum with three autistic children is like.
£17.00
Triarchy Press Being with Others: Curses, spells and
Book SynopsisMany of our significant relationships are based not on trust, respect and growth but on an unconscious compulsion to deny our own problems, flaws and fears. We see the consequences at home and at work, where we repeat the same mistakes and act out familiar patterns of behaviour with our partners, friends and colleagues in ways that leave us stressed and unhappy. In 'Being with Others', psychotherapist and business psychologist Nelisha Wickremasinghe explores how it is impossible to build relationships based on openness, trust and respect when our brains and bodies are in threat. Following on from her acclaimed book Beyond Threat she unravels why so many of us are often in threat, and how we can overcome these feelings to find freedom, authenticity and forgiveness in our relationships. In Being with Others we learn how: * We are cursed by our ability to think and remember, and by the dictates of culture, family and own conflicted characters. * Unconsciously, we cast ‘spells’ – in the form of psychological defences – to try to rid ourselves of these curses. * Our most trusted spell is the belief that magical ‘Others’ – partners, children, celebrities, gurus or gods – can heal, protect and save us * Spells don’t work… and how we can free ourselves from our curses. 'Being with Others' shows us how to recognise our curses, cast off the spells and use four different Perception Practices to wake up to the scintillations of insight that can deepen our relationships. It is an invitation to reclaim our imagination, intuition and bodies from the grip of the powerful emotions of our threat brain. It is a book for all of us who want to grow richer relationships with others and our own selves. Table of ContentsPart One: Curses Introduction Curses Blessings The spell of the Big O Submission Doubt Staying curious Reading 1. Curses, emotions and threat brain The consequences of an over-active threat brain Behaviour starts in the body 2. The curse of consciousness Self-reflection Worry and rumination Distraction and obliteration Beyond consciousness 3. The curse of memory Our vigilant brain Memory and the unconscious Memory and consciousness Memory and learning 4. The curse of character Nature, nurture and calling Dependency and shame 5. The curse of the family Relational dances Disconfirmation Double binds Collusion Parental projection Affect, power and meaning From the family to the cultural dance 6. The curse of culture Culture as collective habits Gendered beliefs Rationalism and Descartes’ error Individualism and the demise of context Reflections on Part One Venturing forth Part Two: Spells Introduction The neurobiology of spells The Big Os To submit or to dominate? The ingredients of a spell Compassionate awareness 1. Lovers The parental imago The misinterpretation of emotion Projection - meeting our unconscious in romantic love 2. Children Reproduction – a creative, transcendental act? Thy mother’s glass – parental projection revisited Children as symbols of lost innocence The construction of childhood Children and the cultural curse Big O love and overparenting Disinterested love 3. Charismatics What is charisma? Charismatics as transference objects Charismatics and alienation Charismatics and the cultural curse Charismatics and toxic drive 4. Groups The impulse to sociability Destructive affiliation Collective narcissism Herds Hordes Brilliant following 5. Imaginals Belief as subjective reality Fantasies Introjection The Inner Critic Reflections on Part Two Part Three: Scintillations 1. Freedom Utopia – freedom from Re-orientating – freedom with Scintillations and the growth of consciousness 2. Perception Practices Practice One: Returning to centre Practice Two: Receptivity – noticing our scintillations Practice Three: Hermeneutic inquiry Practice Four: The inward turn 3. Being with others Self-creating Indifference Beyond thou Epilogue Coda Bibliography Glossary Index
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Darton, Longman & Todd Ltd Become a Boundaries Badass
Book SynopsisIn the culture of the modern world we are socialised to be Passive Pushovers. This book will guide you to reversing that, to becoming a Boundaries Badass, standing strongly and serenely in your own strength. Not as a bully, of course, but as a strong woman or man. In her unique style, which has helped many tens of thousands of people through her You're Not Crazy It's Your Mother books Danu Morrigan explains what Boundaries are, why they are so important and why we struggle with them, before introducing powerful guidance and techniques for setting them in our lives and relationships, and how to overcome the challenges we might face when we do so. Includes instructions for using EFT/Tapping techniques as part of this process.
£10.44
Wilkinson Publishing Divorce the Court
Book SynopsisDivorce The Court is an essential book for anyone navigating the emotionally charged and complex journey of separation. Caroline Counsel draws from her extensive experience as a family lawyer, mediator and independent children's lawyer to provide unique insights into the psychological challenges faced by separating couples. With unique insights into the psychological challenges faced by separating couples, she provides accessible, empathetic, and practical advice designed to minimise the emotional fallout for everyone involved-especially children. The book also includes practical, scenario-based guidance that readers can continually turn back for comfort and strategies regardless of the specific challenges they may be facingFrom managing complex feelings like anger and hurt to making critical decisions while overwhelmed, Divorce The Court empowers readers to approach separation with clarity and compassion, prioritizing the needs of both parents and children.
£23.99
Thorntree Press, LLC Ask: Building Consent Culture
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Thorntree Press, LLC It's Called Polyamory : Coming Out About Your
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Thorntree Press, LLC The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression, and
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£16.79
Sand Hill Review Press I'll Never Know
Book SynopsisWith 80 fading fast in the rearview mirror and handball, health and other lifelong joys littering the roadside, retired San Francisco Monsignor Harry George Schlitt relates the realities, indignities and sometimes hilarity of recognizing he''s not the man he once was. Like many his age, FATHER HARRY of the GOD SQUAD, as he''s best known, has embraced what environmentalist Bill McKibben dubbed codger power. Prayerfully accepting the fogey truism that if you can no longer join them, you can still beat them, Father Harry draws from a lifetime of media ministry to a global congregation ranging from the ragtag to political leaders, the military to peaceniks, from teens to the incarcerated and dying. Always the loyal priest bound by promises and duty to his episcopal elders, Father Harry is finally freed to speak his mind by his de facto irrelevance at age 82 and his proximity to the pearly gates. Covering a five-year period spanning grim historic societal events like the Covid-19 pandemic and the orchestration by the religious right of a serious threat to undo both Vatican II and the papacy of Francis, I''ll Never Know: The Rock & Roll Priest Looks at 80 is a soulful tonic, two parts grin and one part wry. Since 1968, Father Harry worked as a rock & roll deejay, TV host and now podcaster and cyber celebrant for the Sunday Mass. His first book, I''ll Never Tell: Odyssey of a Rock & Roll Priest, won awards and international acclaim.
£15.44
Cedar Lane Press Sexually Woke: Awaken the Secrets to Your Best
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£15.19
Agar Publishing She In Paradise; Kauai, Poetry, Paint
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Atria Books Single and Forced to Mingle A Guide for Nearly
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£8.99
Simon & Schuster Claim Your Confidence
Book SynopsisYou Are a Badass meets Grit in this powerhouse guide to overcoming your fear and finding the confidence within—from Christie’s ambassador and author of the “insightful, inspiring” (New York Journal of Books) The Most Powerful Woman in the Room Is You.“How do I become more confident?” is the question Lydia Fenet hears almost every time she speaks to women across the country. Navigating a two-decade career at the world’s leading auction house while raising three children, Lydia had her own journey of learning self-assurance. Through stories of overcoming challenges in both her work and personal lives, she demonstrates that confidence isn’t something that only some people are born with; rather, it’s inside every one of us, waiting to be claimed. Claim Your Confidence offers case studies, insights, and advice on how to: - Harness the Power of Positivity - Slam Your Im
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Invisible Publishing Send Me Into the Woods Alone: Essays on
Book SynopsisDispatches from modern motherhood by a reluctant suburbanite Send Me Into The Woods Alone is an honest, heartfelt, and often hilarious collection of essays on the joys, struggles, and complexities of motherhood. These essays touch on the major milestones of raising children, from giving birth (and having approximately a million hands in your vagina) and taking your beautiful newborn home (and feeling like you’ve stolen your baby from the hospital), to lying to kids about the Tooth Fairy and mastering the subtle art of beating children at board games. Plus the pitfalls of online culture and the #winemom phenomenon, and the unattainable expectations placed on mothers today. Written from the perspective of an always tired, often anxious, and reluctant suburbanite who is doing her damn best, these essays articulate one woman’s experience in order to help mothers of all kinds process the wildly variable, deeply different ways in which being a mom changes our lives. Reading Pepler’s essays is like hanging out with your best mom-friend—the one who puts it all out there, makes you feel normal and has you laughing so hard you pee a bit."—Kim Shiffman, editor-in-chief, Today's Parent "Easily the most validating book you’ll read this year."—Ann Douglas, author of Happy Parents, Happy Kids and The Mother of All Pregnancy Books Trade Review"Send Me into the Woods Alone isn’t your average essay collection about motherhood. Erin Pepler shares moments of unconditional love and great joy; however, these aren’t what set this book apart. It’s the messiest moments that make this book memorable…Most importantly, Pepler writes about the times when she felt that she failed her children, providing tangible examples that many readers will find comforting and relatable. At fewer than 200 pages, Send Me into the Woods Alone is a quick read with short, digestible chapters. It’s perfect for any busy parent who is looking to steal a few minutes to read by themselves. In fact, as Pepler writes in the book’s eponymous chapter, escaping from parenthood is a privilege that is sometimes essential. “Walk away, but not too far,” she writes. “Love your family hard, but don’t forget to make space to love yourself.”—HerizonsThis is the book I wish I had had as a companion during those early, difficult months and early, difficult years. Because this book is not just instructive and insightful, it is great company. And hilarious" —Marsha Lederman, The Globe and Mail "With her funny and fierce new book, Send Me into the Woods Alone: Essays on Motherhood, Pepler is leading the charge for 100 per cent honest parenting stories."—Briony Smith, Toronto Star "Tremendously moving, but also very funny—I kept reading parts aloud to whoever happened to be in the room with me. Like motherhood itself, Send Me Into The Woods Alone is equal-parts light and dark, joy and misery, [a] writer who’s unafraid to be complicated and tell the truth."—Kerry Clare "Erin Pepler's collection of honest, funny, and relatable essays are infused with hard-won wisdom and insights into the strange, difficult and wonderful world of motherhood. Reading Pepler’s essays is like hanging out with your best mom-friend—the one who puts it all out there, makes you feel normal and has you laughing so hard you pee a bit."—Kim Shiffman, editor-in-chief, Today's Parent "Calling a collection of parenting essays Send Me Into the Woods Alone is a stroke of genius, but Erin Pepler doesn’t spend all of her truth-telling humor on the title. Her witty, warm stories will make you laugh in recognition at the absurd contradictions, frustrations, and complexities of modern motherhood / life in general. With a rare dry humor, Erin gives herself, and her reader, the space to—gasp!—complain about some of the less thrilling parts of parenting, and to acknowledge that it’s always “okay to not feel okay.” She even cheerfully recognizes the sheer boredom that we’d all like to pretend doesn’t exist. (When I read, “Chutes and Ladders is not a game, it’s a curse,” I gave a silent cheer). On the next page, though, you’ll find yourself with a sudden lump in your throat when she deftly captures the mysterious, fierce love that, thankfully, also comes with the territory"—April Daniels Hussar, Managing Editor, Romper "A kind and compassionate book that acknowledges all the emotional heavy lifting that is motherhood. Send Me Into the Woods Alone is the perfect antidote to that guilt-inducing social media post that has you questioning every parenting decision you’ve ever made and/or your decision to become a parent at all. Erin Pepler understands the struggle and she’s there to offer a well-timed message of encouragement, just when you need it most. Easily the most validating book you’ll read this year."—Ann Douglas, author of Happy Parents, Happy Kids and The Mother of All Pregnancy Books "Send Me Into The Woods Alone is one of the most supportive books on parenting I've ever read. It's insightful, heartwarming and oh-so-funny. This is a must-read for mothers."—Shannon Lee Simmons, author of Worry-Free Money "It’s not often you read a book about parenting that is as intimate and honest as Send Me Into The Woods Alone: Essays on Motherhood. Pepler showcases her vulnerability and insight on every page, all salted with humour and relatability.As a parent you will identify with Pepler’s personal journey through motherhood through her 28 essays. You will commiserate with some and be an observer on others. Either way, you will fully enjoy every word knowing that you are not alone. Pepler’s got you!"—Jane Bradley, Publisher of ParentsCanada "Send Me Into the Woods Alone swivels between the funny and the dead-serious, all in an attempt to paint this fulsome picture of early motherhood. … I felt this book was written just for me. In fact, I wish I’d read it earlier when my own kids were much younger. … I really could have used this book at that point in my life."—Anne Logan, CBCTable of ContentsIntroduction: Motherhood has some universal truths, but it’s a wildly variable experience with many different paths to get you there. Also, Penny from Dirty Dancing did not have appendicitis, as I’d assumed. The Miracle of Life and Other Feats of Strength: Growing and birthing a human being is no joke, and it’s not always a good time—but yes, it’s worth it. A Million Hands In One Vagina: A personal essay on letting student doctors into your vagina so they can learn, and being in labour for over 50 hours. When The Baby Snatcher Is You: Walking out of the hospital with a newborn can feel a whole lot like kidnapping an infant, even when you know the infant is yours. Now take that baby home and raise it to adulthood! No pressure. Lullabies From Pop Radio: Pop songs can be perfect lullabies—especially if your kids don’t know any better. Everyone Lies On The Internet: Everyone lies on the Internet, including moms, and it’s making it harder for all of us to feel good about ourselves and our parenting. The Art of Beating Kids at Board Games: Playing with your kids doesn’t have to involve dolls or imaginary play—sometimes, it means crushing them at Monopoly or chess (and then, feeling proud when they start crushing you). Something Terrible is Going To Happen To Your Family: A personal essay on motherhood and anxiety. Interludes in My Driveway: Sometimes, a mom just needs to sit in her car in her own driveway and pause before going on with the rest of her life. The Thing You Love Most Isn’t Always Fun: Being a parent can be really lovely at times. Those times are pretty rare. I Want To Be A Park Dad: A woman imagines what it’s like to be a dad at the park for just one day. My Feral Child, My Love: There’s something wonderful about raising a child who is perfectly, terrifyingly wild at heart. Zombie Rats: A personal essay on catching an injured rat in Tupperware. The Slow and Tragic Death of Santa Claus: Being a parent means being the keeper of magical lies of childhood: Santa Claus, the Easter Bunny, the Tooth Fairy. The Suburban Dream: A city woman moves to the suburbs and falls apart, but eventually finds her way. You’re Not Superwoman And That’s Okay: There are impossible expectations on women in life and in motherhood, and we’re set up to fail. No person can do it all, and that’s okay. Places I Have Failed: Sometimes, you set out to teach your kids about the world and then realize you’ve taught them very little about a lot of important things. Why Mommy Drinks: A personal essay on the demeaning and damaging effect #WineMom culture can have on women. My Job Is Not A Hobby: No matter how hard women work or how much they achieve, they are forever treated as support staff to their husband’s CEO. Sure, I'm A Painter: Trying to get to the bottom of why my son inexplicably thinks I'm a professional painter. Watch Me Hold A Grudge: A man insulted my toddler son in 2015 and I’m still mad. Send Me Into The Woods Alone: Even if you love your family more than anything in the world, the idea of hiding in the cabin in the woods for a few days is extremely tempting. All Tragedy Is Yours: When you’re a parent, you absorb the grief of other parents in an act of empathy. While this can be painful, it also makes us better in a lot of ways. Your Parents Were Never Old: It’s easier to have perspective on your childhood and your own parents when you’re looking back and seeing things more clearly. I Don’t Want To Sleep Through The Night Anymore: Getting the thing you want sometimes means missing what you used to have — even sleepless nights with a young child. Babies Are Going To Smash The Patriarchy: If every generation does things a little differently and a little better than the last, then our kids are going to be the ones to break down walls and smash the patriarchy (or so a mom can hope). Please Don't Grow Up to Be Assholes: As a mother, I have one request of my kids: please, don’t grow up to be assholes.
£12.34
Vitasta Publishing Pvt.Ltd Working Mum Survival Guide
Book SynopsisIn a world where full-time jobs and family duties collide, mothers face a mighty challenge. The relentless pressure to excel both in professional and parenting roles inevitably leads to stress, burnout, and a profound sense of being overwhelmed. Creating harmony in this multifaceted terrain of raising children is a delicate juggling act that relies heavily on meticulous planning and informed guidance. From infants to teenagers, each developmental stage presents unique challenges and opportunities that require careful consideration. With more than 15 years of dedicated service as an accomplished Childcare and Family Advisor, P Davis has touched numerous lives with her expert guidance. A devoted wife and caring mother, she oversees a successful children''s centre registered and regulated with the UK's Department of Education. Working Mum Survival Guide is her experience on paper. It is a reflection of her many years of valuable experience.
£15.99
Double 9 Booksllp The Tragic Bride
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Double 9 Booksllp The Troll Garden And Selected Stories
Book SynopsisWilla Cather published a collection of short stories called The Troll Garden. The stories share a common theme in that they feature characters who desire for the world of beauty and imagination but are continuously attacked by the obscene and vicious outer world. In the short tale The Sculptor's Funeral, the townspeople of a prairie village are shown in their reactions when a well-known sculptor's body is brought back to be buried there. Today Paul's Case, the book's concluding story, is regarded as a national classic in America. While some stories are amazing and fantastic others can create panic and trill among the readers. Willa Cather attempts to compile many of his classic thoughts in a single draft and offered at an affordable price so that everyone can read them. The book leaves the readers with an overwhelming sea of emotions.
£10.99
Double 9 Books Sir George Tressady Vol.-I
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Double 9 Books Sir George Tressady Vol.-II
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Double 9 Books The Yacht Club Or The Young BoatBuilder
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Double9 Books Llp Capn Warrens Wards Edition1
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Double 9 Books The Naturewoman
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