Description
Book Synopsis'Insightful and refreshing.' - Professor Dennis Klass, Webster University Religion Department, St. Louis, USA
'A tour de force.' - Dr Colin Murray Parkes, OBE, MD, FRCPsych, President of CRUSE
Some societies and some individuals find a place for their dead, others leave them behind. In recent years, researchers, professionals and bereaved people themselves have struggled with this. Should the bond with the dead be continued or broken? What is clear is that the grieving individual is not left in a social vacuum but has to struggle with expectations from self, family, friends, professionals and academic theorists.
This ground-breaking book looks at the social position of the bereaved. They find themselves caught between the living and the dead, sometimes searching for guidelines in a de-ritualized society that has few to offer, sometimes finding their grief inappropriately pathologised and policed. At its best, bereavement care offers reassurance, validation, an
Trade Review“This is an important book with its refreshingly new insights into the process of grief and the context of bereavement. It should be on the reading list of all practitioners and students of loss and bereavement.” – Ageing & SocietyTable of ContentsSeries editor's preface
Introduction
Part one: Living with the dead
Other places, other times
War, peace and the dead
twentieth century popular culture
Private bonds
Public bonds
the dead in everyday conversation
The last chapter
Theories
Part two: Policing grief
Guidelines for grief
historical background
Popular guidelines
the English case
Expert guidelines
clinical lore
Vive la difference?
the politics of gender
Bereavement care
Conclusion
integration, regulation and postmodernism
References
Index.
