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Winner of the 2009 CPR Award for Outstanding Book

In this groundbreaking book, Bernard Mayer, a pioneer in the field of conflict resolution, offers a new paradigm for dealing with long-term disputes. Mayer explains that when dealing with enduring conflict, mediators and other conflict resolution specialists need to move past the idea of how quickly they can resolve the conflict. Instead, they should focus on how they can help people prepare to engage with an issue over time. Once their attention is directed away from a speedy resolution to a long-term approach, new avenues of intervention become apparent.



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“I picked up Bernard Mayer’s new book last spring, and here is the bottom line: its impact on my practice was instant…What is more, the impact has been enduring. It has changed how I think about and talk about the work I do….”
— Sheila Heen in Negotiation Journal, January 2010

Table of Contents

Preface vii

1. A New Direction for the Conflict Field 1

2. Conflict and Engagement 19

3. Escaping the Avoidance Trap 55

4. Working the Conflict Narrative 87

5. Communicating in Enduring Conflict 119

6. Using Power and Escalation 151

7. Agreements in Ongoing Conflict 181

8. Taking a Sustainable Approach to Enduring Conflict 207

9. Conflict Specialists and Enduring Conflict 237

Epilogue: The Dynamic Nature of Enduring Conflict 267

References 273

About the Author 281

Index 283

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      Publisher: John Wiley & Sons Inc
      Publication Date: 20/03/2009
      ISBN13: 9780787997298, 978-0787997298
      ISBN10: 0787997293

      Description

      Book Synopsis
      Winner of the 2009 CPR Award for Outstanding Book

      In this groundbreaking book, Bernard Mayer, a pioneer in the field of conflict resolution, offers a new paradigm for dealing with long-term disputes. Mayer explains that when dealing with enduring conflict, mediators and other conflict resolution specialists need to move past the idea of how quickly they can resolve the conflict. Instead, they should focus on how they can help people prepare to engage with an issue over time. Once their attention is directed away from a speedy resolution to a long-term approach, new avenues of intervention become apparent.



      Trade Review
      “I picked up Bernard Mayer’s new book last spring, and here is the bottom line: its impact on my practice was instant…What is more, the impact has been enduring. It has changed how I think about and talk about the work I do….”
      — Sheila Heen in Negotiation Journal, January 2010

      Table of Contents

      Preface vii

      1. A New Direction for the Conflict Field 1

      2. Conflict and Engagement 19

      3. Escaping the Avoidance Trap 55

      4. Working the Conflict Narrative 87

      5. Communicating in Enduring Conflict 119

      6. Using Power and Escalation 151

      7. Agreements in Ongoing Conflict 181

      8. Taking a Sustainable Approach to Enduring Conflict 207

      9. Conflict Specialists and Enduring Conflict 237

      Epilogue: The Dynamic Nature of Enduring Conflict 267

      References 273

      About the Author 281

      Index 283

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