Description
Book SynopsisThis ground-breaking book about sexuality speaks to women on the autism spectrum in fresh new ways, opening doors to discussion, and blowing the lid off taboo subjects.
One of the many problems women on the spectrum face is not always understanding how relationships and boundaries work for other people. This book provides answers, plus more that they may not even have thought to ask. Covering one night stands, the importance of safe sex, self-respect, and double standards, there is a wealth of information about the ethics and self-understanding involved in relationships. Written with humour and honesty, this is the go-to guide for sex on the spectrum.
Trade ReviewWhat a rare treat this book is. Artemisia takes us on a wonderful, descriptive ride through her romantic and sexual adventures as an autistic woman trying to work it all out and never losing hope of finding love. -- Sarah Hendrickx, Autistic adult, author and consultant
If you are living the single life and sex on the spectrum always has baffled you this is the book to grab. I couldn't put it down once I started. Artemisia is such a wise woman and I love her honesty and perseverance not to mention the 105 important rules. Read this book and learn from one of the best. This is truly a brilliant piece of work. -- Anne Skov Jensen, Founder/Coach A-Team Denmark, Speaker
Who cares about Carrie Bradshaw! Have an insight into Artemisia's Life! Her intense perception, frank description and critical reflection of her own experiences take you on a profound and yet entertaining road trip through the jungle of dating. -- Annette Beger, MA in Management of Art
A memoir full of delightful and important information regarding life on the spectrum. Sometimes hilarious and twisted, other times dark and suspenseful, always sensual and inevitably controversial, the book is a must read. -- Ioannis Voskopoulos (Psychologist) and Lamprini Ioannou (Psychologist, Family Therapist, Marte Meo Therapist)
Artemisia states she is a modern-day feminist and she lives up to that throughout the book. Outspoken, straightforward, clever, witty and most importantly HONEST. Artemisia says it as it is and addresses topics that have been neglected or ignored in the past. The book is imaginative and engaging. I just love the 'Rules' section that she has added to each chapter, so much wisdom that could easily be applied to all single women, regardless of whether or not they are on the Spectrum. -- Maxine Aston, Couple Counsellor, Trainer and Author. Specialising in Asperger Syndrome
If you are living the single life and sex on the spectrum always has baffled you this is the book to grab. I couldn't put it down once I started. Artemisia is such a wise woman and I love her honesty and perseverance not to mention the 105 important rules. Read this book and learn from one of the best. This is truly a brilliant piece of work. -- Anne Skov Jensen, Founder/Coach A-Team Denmark, Speaker
Table of ContentsIntroduction; 1. A Tale of Two Cities; 2. Her Big Fat Greek Weekend; 3. Asclepius; 4. La Dolce Vita (The Sex Date); 5. One Night Stands; 6. Leonardo; 7. Romero / Knock First; 8. The Price of Fame..or at least of Google; 9. Double Standards; 10. Aspie Sex in the City; 11. Arrivederci Roma; 12. It's all Greek to Her; 13. Scandal and Wisdom; 14. Getting Stood Up; 15. Romeos and Vampires; 16. Bridges and Hopes; 17. Creepers; 18. The Quickie; 19. Happiness; 20. Being Lonely; 21. Penises; 22. Good Girls, Bad Boys, Jealousy and Loyalty; 23. The Friend Zone; 24. Everything IS Bigger in Texas; 25. Aspie Anxiety and That Damn Glow; 26. Travel, Traditions and Transitions; 27. Contradictions and Choice; 28. The Married Muslim; 29. The Virtual Life; 30. The American Boy; 31. Bron; 32. Writer's Block; 33. Night of the Living Dead; 34. Lonely, Old, Aspie and Ugly; 35. Aspergirls; 36. Ego; 37. A Cherub in Firenze; 38. Due Uomini; 39. Condoms; 40. Michelangelo and Monda Lisa; 41. Pressing Charges; 42. June, not April in Paris; 43. Bitter Blood Moon; 44. The Marquis de Socks; 45. Persephone in Trastevere; 46. Me Too / The Male Brain; 47. Helmets; 48. The Big Bang; 49. The Beginning of the End; 50. The Scoundrel; 51. Blind Date Booty Call; 52. The Convenient Arrangement; 53. Daddy Issues; 54. Innocence Betrayed, then Lost; 55. Drowning, or Intimacy; 56. Towers; 57. "Grab em by the Penis"; 58. The Sexual Savant; 59. Falling Apart; 60. E for Elusion; 61. Final Thoughts; 62. Safe Sex is the Best Sex
