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Book SynopsisAlthough the impact that clients can have on therapists is well-known, most work on the subject consists of dire warnings: mental health professionals are taught early on to be on their guard for burnout, compassion fatigue, and countertransference. However, while these professional hazards are very real, the scholarly focus on the negative potential of the client-counselor relationship often implies that no good can come of allowing oneself to get too close to a client''s issues. This sentiment obscures what every therapist knows to be true: that the client-counselor relationship can also effect powerful positive transformations in a therapist''s own life.
The Client Who Changed Me is Jeffrey Kottler and Jon Carlson''s testimony to the significant and often life-changing ways in which therapists have been changed by their patients. Kottler and Carlson draw not only upon their own extensive experience - between them, they have more than fifty years in the field -
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"...I was struck by the honesty and sense of inadequacy of therapists when acknowledging that they were ultimately powerless to help the individuals. Many took the painful experience forward to inform their future work, refusing to remain complacent.
"Kottler and Carlson's book provides a powerful illustration of how ultimately such personal development leads to a better therapist.
"Although suitable for all therapists this is especially relevant for those exploring their transition into a deeper developmental stage both personally and professionally."
- Angela Cooper, Psychotherapist and counsellor, therapy today September 2006
Table of ContentsAbout the Authors. From Clay to Fire: A Mythological Tale. Arredondo, The Client who Inspired her Therapist. Brown, A Spiritual Awakening. Carlson, Self-surgery to Remove the Transponder. Duncan, When Courage is Enough. Ellis, Learning From a Difficult Customer. Gray, Little Things Make a Big Difference. Hardy, Mister Black Doctor. Keeney, A Family of Pirates. Kirschenbaum, A Flood of Feeling. Kottler, About Last Night. Krumboltz, The Story of the Sun and the Wind. Lankton, Clients Tune Me Up. Love, The Broken Heart. Marlatt, A New Name. McCullough, The Lady Cloaked in Fog. Murphy, A Language of Shrugs. Neimeyer, Using Metaphors to Thaw a Frozen Woman. Oaklander, The Kitten that Roared. Pedersen, A Lesson in Humility. Pittman, An Affair with an Alien. Scharff, The Patient Who Taught Me to Be a Therapist. Walker, Finding Justice with a Sledge Hammer. Yapko, Caught in a Controversy. How Clients Change their Therapists. References. Contributors.
