Description
Book SynopsisA book about understanding men's lives in the modern world
Trade Review"Nicholas Townsend has produced an elegant, insightful, occasionally heartwrenching portrait of what it means to be a man in late twentieth-century America. His interviews reveal, as no mere statistics could, the tensions and contradictions that fathers face as they try to conform to a predominant cultural script. Neither villains nor victims, these men earn our sympathy as we witness their struggle to conform to The Package Deal."-Stanley Brandes, Professor of Anthropology, University of California, Berkeley "What do men want? In this provocative and thoughtful book about a group of men who graduated from high school in the early l970s, the gifted anthropologist Nicholas Townsend gives us an answer. Despite powerful pressures on them to spend more time with their children, to share more chores with their working wives, to cut their commutes, to give up their part in suburban sprawl, the men Townsend came to know were keeping their eye on another ball-the package deal. Stubborn? Retrograde? Yes. But with a deep appreciation for the contradictions they face, the system of pride and dignity with which they live, Townsend explains why. This is a highly important book for men, and for those who are trying to change them."-Arlie Russell Hochschild, author of The Second Shift and The Time Bind "By listening so carefully to men and women, by so carefully assessing the complex inter-connection of their lives and our cultural ideals, Townsend adds welcome nuance to the ongoing social and political discussion about fatherhood in America."-James A. Levine, Ed.D., Director, The Fatherhood Project, Families and Work Institute "Townsend definitively delivers an excellent contribution."-INTAMS Review "It is a real pleasure to see an anthropological approach being applied to research on family and fatherhood issues... Townsend's book is a unique and critical contribution to a discourse that links an anthropological approach to the sociological/psychological study of families and fatherhood."-Fathering "The Package Deal makes a powerful contribution to ongoing debates about the roles, values, and meanings of fatherhood in contemporary American society... Townsend does a magnificent job of bringing forth the voices of his respondents and providing emic views of contemporary fatherhood. His ethnography is masterful-deep, systematic, and insightful... Townsend's study breaks new ground."-Anthropology of Work Review "In addition to being an exceptional analytic ethnography, The Package Deal is a clear and learned introduction to the current state of knowledge about work, families, and gender. All those interested in contemporary fatherhood should read it without delay."-Social Forces "This is an interesting book requiring careful reading but it is well worth the effort."-Journal of Comparative Family Studies
Table of ContentsAcknowledgments1. Contradictions and Complications2. Package Deals and Scripts3. The Four Facets of Fatherhood4. Marriage: The Women in the Middle5. Employment as Fatherhood6. Home Ownership: Housing the Family7. Fathers of Fathers: Kinship and Gender8. ImplicationsAppendix A: The Men from Meadowview High SchoolAppendix B: Bibliographic EssayNotesReferencesIndex