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AVOID THE JERKS AND FIND âœTHE ONEâ WHO'S RIGHT FOR YOU

"An insightful and creative contribution to managing the complexity of choosing a life partner. I heartily recommend it."
--Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., author of Getting the Love You Want and Keeping the Love You Find

"Don't be part of the 'where-was-this-book-when-I-needed-it?' crowd. It's not too late--read it now!"
--Pat Love, Ed.D., author of The Truth About Love and Hot Monogamy

Based on years of research on marital and premarital happiness, How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk (previously published in hardcover as How to Avoid Marrying a Jerk) will help you break destructive dating patterns that have kept you from finding the love you deserve:

  • Ask the right questions to inspire meaningful, revealing conversations with your partner
  • Judge character based on compatibility, relationships skills, friends, and patterns from family and previous r

    Table of Contents

    Introduction: HEART MATTERS- BUT SO DOES THE HEAD

    1. Follow Your Heart Without Losing Your Mind

    2. The RAM Plan

    3. Don’t Be the Jerk(ette)

    4. RAM Dynamic #1: Do I Really Know You?

    5. What Do We Have in Common, Really?

    6. Can We Just Talk It Out? Skills for Building &

    7. And My Third Wife Was a …” Patterns from Other Relationships

    8. You Can’t Marry Jethro Without Gettin’ the Clampetts Patterns from Family Background

    9. Try To See It My Way Mature Character & Conscience

    10.RAM Dynamic #2: Should I Trust You?

    11. RAM Dynamic #3: Will You Meets My Needs?

    12. RAM Dynamic #4: Can You Keep A Commitment?

    13. RAM Dynamic #5: Should We Have Sex?

    14. What the World Needs Now Is…Partner-Selection Education

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      Publisher: McGraw-Hill Education - Europe
      Publication Date: Publication Date: 16/04/2008
      ISBN13: 9780071548427, 978-0071548427
      ISBN10: 0071548424
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      Description

      Book Synopsis

      AVOID THE JERKS AND FIND âœTHE ONEâ WHO'S RIGHT FOR YOU

      "An insightful and creative contribution to managing the complexity of choosing a life partner. I heartily recommend it."
      --Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., author of Getting the Love You Want and Keeping the Love You Find

      "Don't be part of the 'where-was-this-book-when-I-needed-it?' crowd. It's not too late--read it now!"
      --Pat Love, Ed.D., author of The Truth About Love and Hot Monogamy

      Based on years of research on marital and premarital happiness, How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk (previously published in hardcover as How to Avoid Marrying a Jerk) will help you break destructive dating patterns that have kept you from finding the love you deserve:

      • Ask the right questions to inspire meaningful, revealing conversations with your partner
      • Judge character based on compatibility, relationships skills, friends, and patterns from family and previous r

        Table of Contents

        Introduction: HEART MATTERS- BUT SO DOES THE HEAD

        1. Follow Your Heart Without Losing Your Mind

        2. The RAM Plan

        3. Don’t Be the Jerk(ette)

        4. RAM Dynamic #1: Do I Really Know You?

        5. What Do We Have in Common, Really?

        6. Can We Just Talk It Out? Skills for Building &

        7. And My Third Wife Was a …” Patterns from Other Relationships

        8. You Can’t Marry Jethro Without Gettin’ the Clampetts Patterns from Family Background

        9. Try To See It My Way Mature Character & Conscience

        10.RAM Dynamic #2: Should I Trust You?

        11. RAM Dynamic #3: Will You Meets My Needs?

        12. RAM Dynamic #4: Can You Keep A Commitment?

        13. RAM Dynamic #5: Should We Have Sex?

        14. What the World Needs Now Is…Partner-Selection Education

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