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'Essential reading' LORRAINE KELLY
'Hugely relatable' PAUL BAKER
'Read this book!' JAMES MAX

Son, Brother, Gay Best Friend. Lover, Enemy, Homo. Twink, Otter, Bear.


For many gay men, the relationships they have with other people are coloured by stereotypes, shame, and internalised beliefs that are often left unchallenged. Is being the 'gay best friend' really as fun and inclusive as people think? Sure, coming out to your parents is the hard part, but what happens next? And what if you're not the sexually promiscuous party boy everyone assumes you to be?

Through candid and humorous conversations with those closest to him, Daniel Harding unpacks modern gay relationships - from parents, siblings and friends, through to lovers, enemies, technology and ourselves - to explore how it's the relationships around us, breaking us down and making us back up, that are our defining moments.

Combining poignant and entertaining anecdotes with powerful interviews with other gay men and influential figures, alongside valuable insight from behavioural expert Judi James, this wise and witty book will help you to challenge the relationships you have with others - and yourself - allowing you to be truly proud of who you are.



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Whether you're gay, not sure or know someone who's gay... read this book! Daniel's candid account of his experiences will help you understand, empathise or make you realise that you're not alone. Sometimes funny, often awkward but always honest this is the account you need to read. -- James Max, presenter on TalkTV, columnist and business advisor
Daniel's book is essential reading - full of such wise advice, help and support. It's going to bring people together and will change lives. -- Lorraine Kelly CBE, journalist and TV Presenter
Hugely relatable and spoken from both the heart and the head, Gay Man Talking offers frank and funny insights into navigating the challenges around growing up, finding love and self-acceptance that many young gay men face today. -- Professor Paul Baker, author of Outrageous! The Story of Section 28 and Britain's Battle for LGBT Education
A very personal, very practical guide to coming out! Be proud. -- Laura Whitmore, TV and radio presenter

Table of Contents

Introduction
Parents
Sibling
Friend
Body Issues - A Letter
Bully
Straight Man
Sex
Phone - A Letter
Love
Couple
Age - A Rant
Dating
Role Model
Bad Gay - A Confession
Myself

Gay Man Talking: All the Conversations We Never

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      Publisher: Jessica Kingsley Publishers
      Publication Date: 21/09/2022
      ISBN13: 9781839970948, 978-1839970948
      ISBN10: 1839970944

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      Book Synopsis

      'Essential reading' LORRAINE KELLY
      'Hugely relatable' PAUL BAKER
      'Read this book!' JAMES MAX

      Son, Brother, Gay Best Friend. Lover, Enemy, Homo. Twink, Otter, Bear.


      For many gay men, the relationships they have with other people are coloured by stereotypes, shame, and internalised beliefs that are often left unchallenged. Is being the 'gay best friend' really as fun and inclusive as people think? Sure, coming out to your parents is the hard part, but what happens next? And what if you're not the sexually promiscuous party boy everyone assumes you to be?

      Through candid and humorous conversations with those closest to him, Daniel Harding unpacks modern gay relationships - from parents, siblings and friends, through to lovers, enemies, technology and ourselves - to explore how it's the relationships around us, breaking us down and making us back up, that are our defining moments.

      Combining poignant and entertaining anecdotes with powerful interviews with other gay men and influential figures, alongside valuable insight from behavioural expert Judi James, this wise and witty book will help you to challenge the relationships you have with others - and yourself - allowing you to be truly proud of who you are.



      Trade Review
      Whether you're gay, not sure or know someone who's gay... read this book! Daniel's candid account of his experiences will help you understand, empathise or make you realise that you're not alone. Sometimes funny, often awkward but always honest this is the account you need to read. -- James Max, presenter on TalkTV, columnist and business advisor
      Daniel's book is essential reading - full of such wise advice, help and support. It's going to bring people together and will change lives. -- Lorraine Kelly CBE, journalist and TV Presenter
      Hugely relatable and spoken from both the heart and the head, Gay Man Talking offers frank and funny insights into navigating the challenges around growing up, finding love and self-acceptance that many young gay men face today. -- Professor Paul Baker, author of Outrageous! The Story of Section 28 and Britain's Battle for LGBT Education
      A very personal, very practical guide to coming out! Be proud. -- Laura Whitmore, TV and radio presenter

      Table of Contents

      Introduction
      Parents
      Sibling
      Friend
      Body Issues - A Letter
      Bully
      Straight Man
      Sex
      Phone - A Letter
      Love
      Couple
      Age - A Rant
      Dating
      Role Model
      Bad Gay - A Confession
      Myself

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