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NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER

Reassuring, wise, compassionate and funny’ - THE TIMES

What does it really take to create lasting sexual connections in long-term relationships?

Most couples struggle at some point to maintain their sexual connection. But a lot of the advice we are given on sex is either not very good or steeped in cultural assumptions and expectations that can end up hurting us.

In Come Together, leading sexual wellness educator, Dr Emily Nagoski, takes on one of the most misunderstood subjects of all time - sex in long-term relationships - and shows us that most of what we've been taught about enjoying sex is wrong.

Featuring inclusive stories and examples from a wide range of couples and individuals, you'll find out what great sex really looks like and the best way to overcome obstacles - including relationship conflicts, gendered beliefs about how sex 'should be' and body image worries.

With insight, humour and empathy, Come Together will radically transform the way you approach sex and desire, and empower you to create long-term, fulfilling sexual connections.



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Every couple I see in therapy comes in with cultural myths and misperceptions about sex that get in the way of the connection they desire. Emily Nagoski gifts us with an illuminating, relatable, and often funny book that completely reframes how we think about sex in long-term relationships. Come Together is a game-changer and should be required reading for every couple who wants to reimagine what great sex can look like. * Lori Gottlieb, New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone and co-host of the Dear Therapists podcast *
Come Together is a revelation! It gives us the permission to redefine intimacy on our terms through engaging storytelling and science. It’s time we replace shame and obligation with exploration and pleasure. A must read! * Eve Rodsky, New York Times bestselling author of Fair Play *
Come Together is wise and deeply comforting. Once again, Emily Nagoski is dismantling myths about sexuality and giving everyone permission to discover what is already true and love what they discover. * Angela Chen, author of Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex *
A generous book that will help readers unpick everything they've been told about sex, and access more pleasure in the process. * Natasha Lunn, Sunday Times bestselling author of Conversations on Love *
Emily Nagoski is a national treasure – helping us all understand how to finally build true, joyful, confident sex lives. * Glennon Doyle, author of Untamed *

Come Together: The Science (and Art) of Creating

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      Publisher: Ebury Publishing
      Publication Date: 01/02/2024
      ISBN13: 9781785045004, 978-1785045004
      ISBN10: 1785045008

      Description

      Book Synopsis

      NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER

      Reassuring, wise, compassionate and funny’ - THE TIMES

      What does it really take to create lasting sexual connections in long-term relationships?

      Most couples struggle at some point to maintain their sexual connection. But a lot of the advice we are given on sex is either not very good or steeped in cultural assumptions and expectations that can end up hurting us.

      In Come Together, leading sexual wellness educator, Dr Emily Nagoski, takes on one of the most misunderstood subjects of all time - sex in long-term relationships - and shows us that most of what we've been taught about enjoying sex is wrong.

      Featuring inclusive stories and examples from a wide range of couples and individuals, you'll find out what great sex really looks like and the best way to overcome obstacles - including relationship conflicts, gendered beliefs about how sex 'should be' and body image worries.

      With insight, humour and empathy, Come Together will radically transform the way you approach sex and desire, and empower you to create long-term, fulfilling sexual connections.



      Trade Review
      Every couple I see in therapy comes in with cultural myths and misperceptions about sex that get in the way of the connection they desire. Emily Nagoski gifts us with an illuminating, relatable, and often funny book that completely reframes how we think about sex in long-term relationships. Come Together is a game-changer and should be required reading for every couple who wants to reimagine what great sex can look like. * Lori Gottlieb, New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone and co-host of the Dear Therapists podcast *
      Come Together is a revelation! It gives us the permission to redefine intimacy on our terms through engaging storytelling and science. It’s time we replace shame and obligation with exploration and pleasure. A must read! * Eve Rodsky, New York Times bestselling author of Fair Play *
      Come Together is wise and deeply comforting. Once again, Emily Nagoski is dismantling myths about sexuality and giving everyone permission to discover what is already true and love what they discover. * Angela Chen, author of Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex *
      A generous book that will help readers unpick everything they've been told about sex, and access more pleasure in the process. * Natasha Lunn, Sunday Times bestselling author of Conversations on Love *
      Emily Nagoski is a national treasure – helping us all understand how to finally build true, joyful, confident sex lives. * Glennon Doyle, author of Untamed *

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