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''Deeply compelling... sexy.'' Roxane Gay

''Takes you on a dizzying tour of love addiction, rehab, homophobia, betrayal, obsession and the aching need for a mother''s unconditional love. At different times throughout, you''ll find the protagonist needy, reckless and selfish but also smart, intuitive and trapped between two cultures - because as we all know, humans are nothing if not complicated. Roxane is right: this deserves five stars.'' Stylist

Told in vignettes that flash between the US and the Middle East, Zaina Arafat''s powerful debut novel traces her protagonist''s progress from blushing teen to creative and confused adulthood.

In Brooklyn, she moves into an apartment with her first serious girlfriend and tries to content herself with their comfortable relationship. Soon, her longings, so deeply hidden during her teenage years, explode out into reckless romantic encounters and obsessions with other people, which results in her seekin

Trade Review
A wonderfully written queer coming-of-age story * i newapaper *
Navigating queerness, bisexuality, love, and addiction, this captivating story takes readers on a journey to find two of the things we all long for the most: love, and a place we can call home. If you're looking for a captivating, first-person read, this really is one you don't to want to miss * Happiful *
Switching between New York, Beirut, Florence, Washington DC and the West Bank, You Exist Too Much takes you on a dizzying tour of love addiction, rehab, homophobia, betrayal, obsession and the aching need for a mother's unconditional love. At different times throughout, you'll find the protagonist needy, reckless and selfish but also smart, intuitive and trapped between two cultures - because as we all know, humans are nothing if not complicated. Roxane is right: this deserves five stars * Stylist *
The first-person narrator has a distinctive voice and is a magnetic presence on the page; the scenes with her mother are electric . . . A nuanced, sparky debut * Observer *
Powerful . . . With You Exist Too Much, Arafat announces herself as a provocative and insightful writer * Irish Times *
A wonderful illustration of how our most significant formative relationships can be simultaneously the most positive and negative force in our lives -- The Arts Desk
Real, non-fetishised bisexual characters can be few and far between in literature, but You Exist Too Much isn't just worth reading for its efforts in representation. It's a stunning debut . . . It's a devastating portrayal of what it's like to feel as though you never fit in - both in terms of the narrator's sexuality and racial identity. Arafat handles these weighty topics with real compassion * Press Association *
Arafat's writing is fresh, witty and packs a heavy punch * The Skinny *
An elegantly written debut . . . a thought-provoking exploration of love and belonging, and how the two come together to create a sense of self * New European *
A stunning debut . . . Arafat handles . . . weighty topics with real compassion * Scotsman *
You Exist Too Much is a first novel that is exquisitely written and crafted with a compelling lightness of touch * Living Magazine *

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      Publisher: Dialogue
      Publication Date: 18/11/2021
      ISBN13: 9780349701776, 978-0349701776
      ISBN10: 0349701776

      Description

      Book Synopsis

      ''Deeply compelling... sexy.'' Roxane Gay

      ''Takes you on a dizzying tour of love addiction, rehab, homophobia, betrayal, obsession and the aching need for a mother''s unconditional love. At different times throughout, you''ll find the protagonist needy, reckless and selfish but also smart, intuitive and trapped between two cultures - because as we all know, humans are nothing if not complicated. Roxane is right: this deserves five stars.'' Stylist

      Told in vignettes that flash between the US and the Middle East, Zaina Arafat''s powerful debut novel traces her protagonist''s progress from blushing teen to creative and confused adulthood.

      In Brooklyn, she moves into an apartment with her first serious girlfriend and tries to content herself with their comfortable relationship. Soon, her longings, so deeply hidden during her teenage years, explode out into reckless romantic encounters and obsessions with other people, which results in her seekin

      Trade Review
      A wonderfully written queer coming-of-age story * i newapaper *
      Navigating queerness, bisexuality, love, and addiction, this captivating story takes readers on a journey to find two of the things we all long for the most: love, and a place we can call home. If you're looking for a captivating, first-person read, this really is one you don't to want to miss * Happiful *
      Switching between New York, Beirut, Florence, Washington DC and the West Bank, You Exist Too Much takes you on a dizzying tour of love addiction, rehab, homophobia, betrayal, obsession and the aching need for a mother's unconditional love. At different times throughout, you'll find the protagonist needy, reckless and selfish but also smart, intuitive and trapped between two cultures - because as we all know, humans are nothing if not complicated. Roxane is right: this deserves five stars * Stylist *
      The first-person narrator has a distinctive voice and is a magnetic presence on the page; the scenes with her mother are electric . . . A nuanced, sparky debut * Observer *
      Powerful . . . With You Exist Too Much, Arafat announces herself as a provocative and insightful writer * Irish Times *
      A wonderful illustration of how our most significant formative relationships can be simultaneously the most positive and negative force in our lives -- The Arts Desk
      Real, non-fetishised bisexual characters can be few and far between in literature, but You Exist Too Much isn't just worth reading for its efforts in representation. It's a stunning debut . . . It's a devastating portrayal of what it's like to feel as though you never fit in - both in terms of the narrator's sexuality and racial identity. Arafat handles these weighty topics with real compassion * Press Association *
      Arafat's writing is fresh, witty and packs a heavy punch * The Skinny *
      An elegantly written debut . . . a thought-provoking exploration of love and belonging, and how the two come together to create a sense of self * New European *
      A stunning debut . . . Arafat handles . . . weighty topics with real compassion * Scotsman *
      You Exist Too Much is a first novel that is exquisitely written and crafted with a compelling lightness of touch * Living Magazine *

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