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Book Synopsis''A sharp but sensitive exploration of the pitfalls of masculinity'' Jeffrey Boakye''A wake up call to men'' JJ BolaIn this searingly honest book we join Martin Robinson magazine journalist and founder of men's media site The Book of Man on a journey into the chaos of modern masculinity. Along the way, Martin visits mental health groups and prisons, talks to sex activists, evolutionary psychologists and musicians, works out with Special Forces soldiers, watches cage fights, has a drag make-over and subjects himself to an intimacy jam' all in his quest to unpeel the onion-like layers that make up the modern man. And yes, tears are shed. Not cool, solitary tears either. Reflecting on his reporting and discussions with experts, Martin also examines some of the most pressing concerns facing men today, including violence, suicide and the spectre of toxic masculinity. He explores how men are defining themselves beyond traditional male stereotypes; whether they can learn to
Trade ReviewA sharp but sensitive exploration of the pitfalls of masculinity. Martin writes with an openness that draws you in, unpacking the masculinity myths that we need to tackle, right now, with insight. -- Jeffrey Boakye * author of Hold Tight: Black Masculinity, Millennials, and the Meaning of Grime *
A very important book. A wake up call to men. -- JJ Bola * author of No Place to Call Home and Mask Off: Masculinity Redefined *
I laughed, I cried, I learned – a beautifully written, honest, vital read. Funny as f**k yet utterly poignant and precise. -- Poorna Bell, author and journalist
Amusing, insightful and well-informed * The Herald *
[A] bright and breezy tour of 21st-century maleness, which mixes on-the-spot reporting with talking head interviews … Engaging * Metro *
Masculinity is under the microscope like never before. Good. It’s not in crisis, but it is changing. Books like this show why. * Evening Standard *
Table of ContentsPrologue 1 You Are In Control: Mental Health and Masculinity 2 You Are One of the Lads: Tribalism and Masculinity 3 You Are Hard: Violence, Environment, Power 4 You Are Ripped: Fitness, Physical Heroes and the Body 5 You Are Straight: Sexuality, Women and the Other 6 You Are the Breadwinner: Home, Fatherhood, Impact 7 You Are a Man: Fear, Insanity, Visibility and the Future
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