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Book Synopsis
This ground-breaking collection of writing brings vital and refreshing insights into current discussions about queer parenting. The essays blend narrative and academic voices from Canada, the United States, England and Australia. The contributors are parents, prospective parents, writers, academics, lawyers, activists, health care professionals and — most significantly — queer spawn, the children of LGBTQ parents. The themes represented in these 40 essays include butches raising sons; queer youth as parents; trans experience in fertility clinics; legal and historical reflections; bisexuality and adoption; race relations in the family; heteronormativity in queer family kids’ books; class issues within families; dealing with infertility; polyamory and parenting; discussions with sperm donors, single moms, gay dads; developments in reproductive technologies; rural and urban experience; and reflections on the meanings of biology and of “queer” parenting.

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Postmodern indeed. As a single Black lesbian mother, I assumed that a resource like this wouldn't yet exist. On searching, I discovered a literary road map to queer parenting and family that is current, diverse and mini-encyclopedic in its breadth. Reading this work made me feel as though I had added to my family of choice."" - Ruth Cameron, The Feminist Review

Table of Contents
  • Part 1: Red Rock Baby Candy: Beginnings ...
  • The Squeaky Animal Hat Club: A Queer Spawn Comes Out Melissa Hart
  • Go On, You Choose: The Ethics of Getting Pregnant by Nagging Emma Donoghue
  • Daddies & Papas 2B: The Evolution of Possibilities Interview with Chris Veldhoven & Thom Vernon
  • Boldly Going Where Few Men Have Gone Before: One Trans Man's Experience Syrus Marcus Ware
  • Red Rock Baby Candy: Infertile Homosexual Speaks! Shira Spector
  • The Making and Unmaking of Biological Ties in Gay and Lesbian Families Suzanne Pelka
  • Extra Love: An Open Adoption Story Interview with Ann-Marie MacDonald
  • Part 2: From Queer to Paternity: Queering the Family Tree
  • The Gift of Life: Sperm Donors/Donor Dads — Then and Now Groupinterview with sperm donors/donor dads
  • My Co-world and Welcome To It: Adventures in Non-Conjugal Parenting Aviva Rubin
  • To Bi or Not To Bi: Bisexuality and Disclosure in the Adoption System Allison Eadie et al
  • The Revolutionary Artist Mom and Baby League: Putting Young Queer Parents on the Map Rebecca Trotzky-Sirr
  • Beyond Thomas Beatie: Trans Men and the New Parenthood Maura Ryan
  • From Queer to Paternity: A Gay Man’s Uncharted Voyage into Co-Parenting Derek P. Scott
  • Hip Queer Single Mamas: A Community Group interview with single moms group
  • Beyond Normalization: An Analysis of Heteronormativity in Children’s Picture Books Anika Stafford
  • Part 3: Handing Out Cigars: History, Visibility and Social Change
  • Politics of the Heart: Recognition of Homoparental Families in Quebec Nancy Nicol
  • Handing Out Cigars: Outlaw Moms No More Lois Fine
  • Two Pathways to a Revolution: The Difference that Context Makes in Canad and the U.S. David Rayside
  • Mommies in Critical Care Diane Flacks
  • Reading, Writing and Resilience: Queer Spawn Speak Out About School Rachel Epstein et al.
  • A Queer Spawn Manifesto: Empowerment and Recognition Jamie K. Evans
  • Part 4: All Our Roots Need Rain: Parenting dilemmas in the day-to-day
  • Little White Children: Notes from a Chicana Dyke Dad Karleen Pendleton-Jiménez The Move Cindy Holmes & Anne Fleming
  • All Our Roots Need Rain: Queer Parenting from the Sri Lankan Diaspora N. Gitanjali Lena
  • Race Relations in the Family: On Being a Transracial Spawn of White Queer Parents Tobi Hill-Meyer
  • Lost: The Unthinkable Cost of Love Serena Patterson
  • Radical Fairies and Lesbian Avengers: Reflections from a Gay Dad and His Dyke Daughter Julie Mooney-Somers & Eamon Somers
  • This Hyphenated Mothering Thing Makeda Silvera
  • Part 5: Houses Full of Love: What we offer our children
  • Dear Who-Knows-Who: An Expectant Mother's Parenting Intentions Elizabeth Ruth
  • In the Best Interests of the Child: The Awful Truth about Queer-Raised Kids christina starr
  • Is Queer Parenting Possible? Shelley M. Park
  • Sex and the Formerly Single Mom Jaime Grant
  • In Defence of ""Traditional"" Families JoannaRadbord Houses Full of Love: Bringing up Children in Polyamorous Relationships Alessandra (Alex) Iantaffi
  • Who’s Your Daddy?: Reflections on Masculinity in Butch-Parented SonsLaurie Bell
  • I Am My Father’s Son Jonathan Feakins
  • Contributors’ Notes
  • Resources

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        Publisher: Sumach Press
        Publication Date: 30/04/2009
        ISBN13: 9781894549783, 978-1894549783
        ISBN10: 1894549783

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        Book Synopsis
        This ground-breaking collection of writing brings vital and refreshing insights into current discussions about queer parenting. The essays blend narrative and academic voices from Canada, the United States, England and Australia. The contributors are parents, prospective parents, writers, academics, lawyers, activists, health care professionals and — most significantly — queer spawn, the children of LGBTQ parents. The themes represented in these 40 essays include butches raising sons; queer youth as parents; trans experience in fertility clinics; legal and historical reflections; bisexuality and adoption; race relations in the family; heteronormativity in queer family kids’ books; class issues within families; dealing with infertility; polyamory and parenting; discussions with sperm donors, single moms, gay dads; developments in reproductive technologies; rural and urban experience; and reflections on the meanings of biology and of “queer” parenting.

        Trade Review
        Postmodern indeed. As a single Black lesbian mother, I assumed that a resource like this wouldn't yet exist. On searching, I discovered a literary road map to queer parenting and family that is current, diverse and mini-encyclopedic in its breadth. Reading this work made me feel as though I had added to my family of choice."" - Ruth Cameron, The Feminist Review

        Table of Contents
        • Part 1: Red Rock Baby Candy: Beginnings ...
        • The Squeaky Animal Hat Club: A Queer Spawn Comes Out Melissa Hart
        • Go On, You Choose: The Ethics of Getting Pregnant by Nagging Emma Donoghue
        • Daddies & Papas 2B: The Evolution of Possibilities Interview with Chris Veldhoven & Thom Vernon
        • Boldly Going Where Few Men Have Gone Before: One Trans Man's Experience Syrus Marcus Ware
        • Red Rock Baby Candy: Infertile Homosexual Speaks! Shira Spector
        • The Making and Unmaking of Biological Ties in Gay and Lesbian Families Suzanne Pelka
        • Extra Love: An Open Adoption Story Interview with Ann-Marie MacDonald
        • Part 2: From Queer to Paternity: Queering the Family Tree
        • The Gift of Life: Sperm Donors/Donor Dads — Then and Now Groupinterview with sperm donors/donor dads
        • My Co-world and Welcome To It: Adventures in Non-Conjugal Parenting Aviva Rubin
        • To Bi or Not To Bi: Bisexuality and Disclosure in the Adoption System Allison Eadie et al
        • The Revolutionary Artist Mom and Baby League: Putting Young Queer Parents on the Map Rebecca Trotzky-Sirr
        • Beyond Thomas Beatie: Trans Men and the New Parenthood Maura Ryan
        • From Queer to Paternity: A Gay Man’s Uncharted Voyage into Co-Parenting Derek P. Scott
        • Hip Queer Single Mamas: A Community Group interview with single moms group
        • Beyond Normalization: An Analysis of Heteronormativity in Children’s Picture Books Anika Stafford
        • Part 3: Handing Out Cigars: History, Visibility and Social Change
        • Politics of the Heart: Recognition of Homoparental Families in Quebec Nancy Nicol
        • Handing Out Cigars: Outlaw Moms No More Lois Fine
        • Two Pathways to a Revolution: The Difference that Context Makes in Canad and the U.S. David Rayside
        • Mommies in Critical Care Diane Flacks
        • Reading, Writing and Resilience: Queer Spawn Speak Out About School Rachel Epstein et al.
        • A Queer Spawn Manifesto: Empowerment and Recognition Jamie K. Evans
        • Part 4: All Our Roots Need Rain: Parenting dilemmas in the day-to-day
        • Little White Children: Notes from a Chicana Dyke Dad Karleen Pendleton-Jiménez The Move Cindy Holmes & Anne Fleming
        • All Our Roots Need Rain: Queer Parenting from the Sri Lankan Diaspora N. Gitanjali Lena
        • Race Relations in the Family: On Being a Transracial Spawn of White Queer Parents Tobi Hill-Meyer
        • Lost: The Unthinkable Cost of Love Serena Patterson
        • Radical Fairies and Lesbian Avengers: Reflections from a Gay Dad and His Dyke Daughter Julie Mooney-Somers & Eamon Somers
        • This Hyphenated Mothering Thing Makeda Silvera
        • Part 5: Houses Full of Love: What we offer our children
        • Dear Who-Knows-Who: An Expectant Mother's Parenting Intentions Elizabeth Ruth
        • In the Best Interests of the Child: The Awful Truth about Queer-Raised Kids christina starr
        • Is Queer Parenting Possible? Shelley M. Park
        • Sex and the Formerly Single Mom Jaime Grant
        • In Defence of ""Traditional"" Families JoannaRadbord Houses Full of Love: Bringing up Children in Polyamorous Relationships Alessandra (Alex) Iantaffi
        • Who’s Your Daddy?: Reflections on Masculinity in Butch-Parented SonsLaurie Bell
        • I Am My Father’s Son Jonathan Feakins
        • Contributors’ Notes
        • Resources

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