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In this searingly honest memoir, Jane Haynes recalls to her psychotherapist her extraordinary story. Having overcome her strange childhood, overshadowed by her mother's absence and father's descent into madness, the real diagnosis of which the family concealed, she attempts, vividly but without sentimentality, to understand the construction of her own life.

Now a psychotherapist in her own right, Haynes opens up her case files, which include a gifted young man on the cusp of a nervous breakdown; the middle-aged woman tormented by suicidal thoughts; the pornography addict, unable to connect emotionally with his girlfriend. Tragedy is brought home to her when her son-in-law is murdered. Her account powerfully demonstrates the resilience and life force of human nature.

'I recommend it to anyone concerned with the life of the imagination'
Hilary Mantel



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Absolutely brilliant ... I have never read anything like it. This is certainly the best account of what analysis can - and can't - do that I have ever read or ever expect to read. -- Kate Kellaway
Engrossing and poignant -- Emma Tennant * New Statesman *
Literally life-changing. -- Liz Hogart * Evening Standard *
Deeply moving and gracefully written. * Catholic Herald *
Disturbingly honest and beautifully written ... literally life-changing. -- Liz Hoggard * Evening Standard *

Who is it that can tell me who I am?

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      Publisher: Little, Brown Book Group
      Publication Date: Publication Date: 26/03/2009
      ISBN13: 9781845299729, 978-1845299729
      ISBN10: 1845299728

      Description

      Book Synopsis

      In this searingly honest memoir, Jane Haynes recalls to her psychotherapist her extraordinary story. Having overcome her strange childhood, overshadowed by her mother's absence and father's descent into madness, the real diagnosis of which the family concealed, she attempts, vividly but without sentimentality, to understand the construction of her own life.

      Now a psychotherapist in her own right, Haynes opens up her case files, which include a gifted young man on the cusp of a nervous breakdown; the middle-aged woman tormented by suicidal thoughts; the pornography addict, unable to connect emotionally with his girlfriend. Tragedy is brought home to her when her son-in-law is murdered. Her account powerfully demonstrates the resilience and life force of human nature.

      'I recommend it to anyone concerned with the life of the imagination'
      Hilary Mantel



      Trade Review
      Absolutely brilliant ... I have never read anything like it. This is certainly the best account of what analysis can - and can't - do that I have ever read or ever expect to read. -- Kate Kellaway
      Engrossing and poignant -- Emma Tennant * New Statesman *
      Literally life-changing. -- Liz Hogart * Evening Standard *
      Deeply moving and gracefully written. * Catholic Herald *
      Disturbingly honest and beautifully written ... literally life-changing. -- Liz Hoggard * Evening Standard *

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