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Book SynopsisExamines marriage, familial gender relations, and the law through the lens of "elopement" notices. In conjunction with legal treatises, court records, and prescriptive literature, this book highlights the tenuous relationships among marriage law, marital ideals, and lived experience in the early Republic, an era of cultural and economic change.
Trade ReviewSievens focuses on a rich and under-used source: the ads that appeared in early American newspapers alerting readers not to extend credit to run-away wives, as well as occasional replies made by wives themselves. This is a terrific source that illuminates marriage, gender, law, print culture, and community in early America. Sievens has shown considerable sensitivity and acuity, as well as diligence in the pre-digitized days, in her approach to these fascinating sources. This is an impressively lucid coverage resting on persuasive claims. . . . Indeed, this book, in its brevity, clarity, and inherent drama, may be of particular use in the classroom. A fine book on an important topic, it will certainly be of use to many working in this field. * Journal of Social History *
Offers an engaging look at marital conflict at a key transitional time in the emotional and economic landscape of early national New England. * Journal of the Early Republic *
Stray Wives is an insightful, carefully argued, and well-written work that complicates our understanding of law, society, and gender in early national New England. Along the way, it adds to our store of knowledge on such topics as women's economic role, domestic violence, and community relationships in early America. Sievens does a lovely job of showing the ways in which wives contested their husbands' dominance at the same time that they tolerated-indeed, sometimes benefited from-their own dependence. -- Anya Jabour,author of Marriage in the Early Republic
In Stray Wives, Sievens examines hundreds of desertion notices to elucidate how couples negotiated the common law of marriage by revealing the words they addressed to the public, the issues over which they disagreed, and their strategies for maneuvering through and settling their conflicts. This important book adds both detail and depth to our knowledge of marriage and marital conflict in the early republic. -- Merrill D. Smith,author of Breaking the Bonds
To fully appreciate how far women’s rights have evolved by the twenty-first century, all one need do is read a work like this one. . . . Highly recommended. * Choice *
Sievens shows how even when free of their marriages, women often remained dependent on male kin. * The Chronicle of Higher Education *
Wonderful. . . . A fascinating and complex account of husbands struggling to assert their legal dominance in a changing cultural landscape, while law remained static. . . . Stray Wives is full of creative research and compelling new insights about marriage in early national America. Sievens’s nuanced argument about power and interdependence within marriage is absolutely convincing. She also clearly demonstrates that legal change lagged behind cultural change, leaving husbands frustrated by their inability to rule. * William & Mary Quarterly *
Table of ContentsList of Tables ix Acknowledgments Introduction * 1 A "Disobedient, Clamorous" Wife: The Problem of Wifely Submission * 2 "A Trifling Sum": Economic Support and Consumer Spending in New England Marriages * 3 "The Duties of a Wife": The Meaning of Women's Work * 4 "The Wicked Agency of Others": Community Involvement and Marital Discord * 5 "Having Confidence in Her Own Abilities": Coping with Estrangement * 6 "Free and Clear from All Claims": Divorce and the Contradictory Nature of Women's Status Afterword: Settling "All Matters of Dispute": Marital Conflict, Negotiation, and Compromise Notes Select Bibliography Index bout the Author
