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As the end of December draws near, Facebook routinely sends users a short video entitled ‘Your Year on Facebook’. It lasts about a minute and brings together the images and posts that received the highest number of comments and likes over the last year. The video is rounded off with a message from Facebook that reads: ‘Sometimes, looking back helps us remember what matters most. Thanks for being here.’

It is this ‘looking back’, increasingly the focus of social networks, that is the inspiration behind Davide Sisto’s brilliant reflection on how our relationship with remembering and forgetting is changing in the digital era. The past does not really exist: it is only a story we tell ourselves. But what happens when we tell this story not only to ourselves but also to our followers, when it is recorded not only on our social media pages but also on the pages of hundreds or thousands of others, making it something that can be viewed and referenced forever? Social media networks are becoming vast digital archives in which the past merges seamlessly with the present, slowly erasing our capacity to forget. And yet at the same time, our memory is being outsourced to systems that we don’t control and that could become obsolete at any time, cutting us off from our memories and risking total oblivion.

This timely and thoughtful reflection on memory and forgetting in the digital age will be of interest to students and scholars in media studies and to anyone concerned with the ways our social and personal lives are changing in a world increasingly shaped by social media and the internet.



Trade Review

‘In Remember Me, Davide Sisto takes readers on a delightful journey through the annals of internet history. His deft theorizing of social media, past and present, reveals how digital media impact both intimate and collective relationships to time and memory.’
Tamara Kneese, University of San Francisco



Table of Contents
Table of contents:Acknowledgements

Introduction. Social Networks and Looking Back
The past is just a story we tell our followers
Facebook and Looking Back: #10YearsChallenge, On This Day, Memories

Chapter One. From Social Networks to Digital Archives
The Twenty Days of Turin: Facebook in 1977
Naked in front of the Computer: Social Networks in the 1990s
The World Doubled: Reincarnation or the Cocaine of the Future?
Blogs, Forums, Mailing Lists: A New Life in 56K
The Era of Shared Passions: An Epidemic of Digital Memories
Digital Memory as Crazed Mayonnaise: The Past is Emancipated, Identities Multiply

Chapter Two. Collective Cultural Autobiographies and Encyclopedias of the Dead 2.0
Experiments in Collective Cultural Autobiography
Copy and Paste: Writing About Oneself is Like Summing Up the History of the Universe
Cancer Bloggers: My Message is My Body
Stories of Cancer Bloggers on YouTube and Facebook
Facebook: Encyclopedia of the Dead 2.0?
Autobiographical Memory: Inventing a Forgotten Past
Disinterred Bodies: Social Networks and Data Flows as Archives

Chapter Three. Total Recall, Digital Immortality, Retromania
Becoming the Database of Ourselves: Lifelogging and Video-camera Memory
The Memobile: From Total Recall to Digital Immortality
The Memory Remains: The Life of Memories Post-Mortem
Mind-Uploading as a Declaration of Independence for Memories
Insomnia Inside a Garbage Heap: Funes, or of a Life that Never Forgets
Creating Space in Memory: Forgetting and Sleep as Forms of Resistance
The Web as a Melancholy Receptacle of Regret: Hollie Gazzard, The Last Message Received, Wartherapy
Retromania and Sad Passions: The End of Nostalgia and the Loss of the Future
San Junipero Exists and Lives in Facebook

Conclusion. Digital Inheritance and a Return to Oblivion
Digital Inheritance: What to Do with our Own Memories?
The Value of Oblivion and the Joy of Being Forgotten

Bibliography

Notes

Index

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      Publication Date: Publication Date: 23/04/2021
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      As the end of December draws near, Facebook routinely sends users a short video entitled ‘Your Year on Facebook’. It lasts about a minute and brings together the images and posts that received the highest number of comments and likes over the last year. The video is rounded off with a message from Facebook that reads: ‘Sometimes, looking back helps us remember what matters most. Thanks for being here.’

      It is this ‘looking back’, increasingly the focus of social networks, that is the inspiration behind Davide Sisto’s brilliant reflection on how our relationship with remembering and forgetting is changing in the digital era. The past does not really exist: it is only a story we tell ourselves. But what happens when we tell this story not only to ourselves but also to our followers, when it is recorded not only on our social media pages but also on the pages of hundreds or thousands of others, making it something that can be viewed and referenced forever? Social media networks are becoming vast digital archives in which the past merges seamlessly with the present, slowly erasing our capacity to forget. And yet at the same time, our memory is being outsourced to systems that we don’t control and that could become obsolete at any time, cutting us off from our memories and risking total oblivion.

      This timely and thoughtful reflection on memory and forgetting in the digital age will be of interest to students and scholars in media studies and to anyone concerned with the ways our social and personal lives are changing in a world increasingly shaped by social media and the internet.



      Trade Review

      ‘In Remember Me, Davide Sisto takes readers on a delightful journey through the annals of internet history. His deft theorizing of social media, past and present, reveals how digital media impact both intimate and collective relationships to time and memory.’
      Tamara Kneese, University of San Francisco



      Table of Contents
      Table of contents:Acknowledgements

      Introduction. Social Networks and Looking Back
      The past is just a story we tell our followers
      Facebook and Looking Back: #10YearsChallenge, On This Day, Memories

      Chapter One. From Social Networks to Digital Archives
      The Twenty Days of Turin: Facebook in 1977
      Naked in front of the Computer: Social Networks in the 1990s
      The World Doubled: Reincarnation or the Cocaine of the Future?
      Blogs, Forums, Mailing Lists: A New Life in 56K
      The Era of Shared Passions: An Epidemic of Digital Memories
      Digital Memory as Crazed Mayonnaise: The Past is Emancipated, Identities Multiply

      Chapter Two. Collective Cultural Autobiographies and Encyclopedias of the Dead 2.0
      Experiments in Collective Cultural Autobiography
      Copy and Paste: Writing About Oneself is Like Summing Up the History of the Universe
      Cancer Bloggers: My Message is My Body
      Stories of Cancer Bloggers on YouTube and Facebook
      Facebook: Encyclopedia of the Dead 2.0?
      Autobiographical Memory: Inventing a Forgotten Past
      Disinterred Bodies: Social Networks and Data Flows as Archives

      Chapter Three. Total Recall, Digital Immortality, Retromania
      Becoming the Database of Ourselves: Lifelogging and Video-camera Memory
      The Memobile: From Total Recall to Digital Immortality
      The Memory Remains: The Life of Memories Post-Mortem
      Mind-Uploading as a Declaration of Independence for Memories
      Insomnia Inside a Garbage Heap: Funes, or of a Life that Never Forgets
      Creating Space in Memory: Forgetting and Sleep as Forms of Resistance
      The Web as a Melancholy Receptacle of Regret: Hollie Gazzard, The Last Message Received, Wartherapy
      Retromania and Sad Passions: The End of Nostalgia and the Loss of the Future
      San Junipero Exists and Lives in Facebook

      Conclusion. Digital Inheritance and a Return to Oblivion
      Digital Inheritance: What to Do with our Own Memories?
      The Value of Oblivion and the Joy of Being Forgotten

      Bibliography

      Notes

      Index

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