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Book SynopsisLearn to start open, productive talks about money with your parents as they age As your parents age, you may find that you want or need to broach the often-difficult subject of finances. In Mom and Dad, We Need to Talk: How to Have Essential Conversations with Your Parents About Their Finances, you'll learn the best ways to approach this issue, along with a wealth of financial and legal information that will help you help your parents into and through their golden years. Sometimes parents are reluctant to address money matters with their adult children, and topics such as long-term care, retirement savings (or lack thereof), and end-of-life planning can be particularly touchy. In this book, you'll hear from others in your position who have successfully had the talk with their parents, and you'll read about a variety of conversation strategies that can make talking finances more comfortable and more productive. Learn conversation starters and strategies to open the lines of commun
Table of ContentsIntroduction: Why the Money Talk Is Essential ix
Chapter 1 Get Over Your Fear of Having “The Talk” 1
Chapter 2 Don’t Wait 13
Chapter 3 Reasons Your Parents Might Be Reluctant to Talk 23
Chapter 4 What Happens If You Don’t Have the Conversation 33
Chapter 5 Start by Talking to Your Siblings 41
Chapter 6 What Not to Say 51
Chapter 7 Conversation Starters 59
Chapter 8 A Step-by-Step Approach to a Successful Conversation 73
Chapter 9 What You Need to Know 83
Chapter 10 Talking to Your Parents About Estate Planning Documents 97
Chapter 11 Talking to Your Parents About Scammers 113
Chapter 12 Talking to Your Parents About Long-Term Care 133
Chapter 13 Talking to Your Parents About When It’s Time to Move 157
Chapter 14 If at First You Don’t Succeed . . . 173
Chapter 15 Getting Through to Reluctant Parents: Success Stories 181
Chapter 16 What to Do If Your Parents Won’t Talk 191
Chapter 17 Pay It Forward: Start Talking to Your Kids 201
A Final Note 215
Additional Resources 217
About the Author 225
Acknowledgments 227
Index 229
