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Book SynopsisDomestic violence in gay male relationships is the third largest health problem for gay men in America today. Men Who Beat the Men Who Love Them breaks the silence surrounding gay male domestic violence and exposes this hidden yet prevalent and destructive problem. The authors paint a vivid picture of gay men's domestic violence, bringing its brutality to life by including personal narratives, written by one of the authors, by clearly defining what it is and what it is not through lists of violent acts and criminal code categories, and by thoroughly examining and analyzing the criminal, mental health, medical, political, and interpersonal issues involved. The authors boldly depart from the battered women's literature by asserting that batterers have a diagnosable mental disorder, that battering is not gender based, and that much further criminalization of domestic violence is necessary.Striving for victim advocacy, the book underscores the idea that gay men's domestic violenc
Table of ContentsContents
Foreword
- Introduction
- Is This Violence?
- Why Does It Happen More Than Once
- Who Are the Batterers?
- Who Are the Victims?
- How Do You Get Out?
- How Do You Stay Out?
- How Do You Help a Friend?
- Therapists and Intervention Programs
- The Unusual Psychology of Domestic Violence
- How To Stop the Violence
- Appendices
- Index
