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Book Synopsis
Presents techniques for getting invited back for a second interaction with potential prospects and customers.

Table of Contents

Preface xv

Acknowledgments xix

Introduction xxi

CHAPTER 1 Success and Your Sales Career 1

The Complacency Challenge 2

A Word about Self-Sabotage 2

To the Importance of Overcoming Success Phobias 4

Take a Deep Breath . . . 5

Change the Message, Change the Results! 6

Mastering the Process—and Getting the Appointment! 7

Here’s Our Starting Point 7

Keep Your Commitments 11

CHAPTER 2 Who’s Who in Your Target Organization? 13

Target People with Influence 14

Target People with Authority 15

Target People with the Authority to Approve 17

Second Meetings and the “Trilogy” of Your Sales Cycle 19

Reality Check: Your Hottest Prospect 19

CHAPTER 3 Four Categories 23

Silent Adversaries, Silent Allies 23

The Role of the Recommender 24

The Influencer’s Role 26

The Decision Maker’s Role 27

The Approver’s Role 30

Lock in What You’ve Learned 32

CHAPTER 4 Selling Across the Enterprise 33

Principle 1: Think Outside the Owner’s Manual 33

Principle 2: Invest Your Time Intelligently 34

Principle 3: Think Lifetime Value—By Aligning Your Sales Process to the Organization 37

Lock in What You’ve Learned 39

CHAPTER 5 Pathways to the Right Second Appointment 41

Exploring 42

Initiating 45

Sponsoring 46

Leveraging 48

CHAPTER 6 Building a Foundation 53

Visualization 53

The Ultimate Sales TIP 55

TIP Step One 56

TIP Step Two 57

A TIP Example 57

Don’t Leave Home (or Your Office) Without It 57

Lock in What You’ve Learned 60

CHAPTER 7 Putting It All Together 61

What We Know for Sure 61

Defining the Sales Process 62

Your Constant Improvement Campaign (CIC) 64

A Thing of Beauty 66

Time to Revenue 66

Managing Your Process, Not Your Time 67

Priority One: Revenue Activity 68

Priority Two: Conversion Activity 69

Priority Three: Sponsorship Activity 70

Lock in What You’ve Learned 72

CHAPTER 8 The Five Deadly Sins of Appointment Setting 73

Sin Number One: Talking, Not Speaking 73

Sin Number Two: Using Bad Language 75

Sin Number Three: Monopolizing the Conversation 77

Sin Number Four: Stretching the Truth 80

Sin Number Five: Being a Space Invader 81

Lock in What You’ve Learned 83

CHAPTER 9 Points of Entry 85

Interacting with the Recommender 86

When Posing Questions to a Recommender 87

Interacting with the Influencer 88

Key Winning Results for the Influencer 89

When Posing Questions to an Influencer 90

Interacting with the Decision Maker 92

When Posing Questions to a Decision Maker 93

Interacting with the Approver 96

When Posing Questions to an Approver 99

The Best Call You Can Make 100

CHAPTER 10 10 Principles for Delivering More

Second Appointments 103

A True Story about Effective Targeting on the First Appointment 107

Another True Story about Effective Targeting on the First Appointment 108

Go Beyond Your Comfort Zone 109

CHAPTER 11 Three Strategies to Appointment Success 113

Key #1: Establishing Your Target and Building

Credibility before Your First Appointment 114

Key #2: Know How to Build Rapport with

Your Prospect 118

Key #3: Determining Your Contact’s Criteria for Evaluating Your Message 125

Matching the Criteria 131

Lock in What You’ve Learned 132

CHAPTER 12 Your Appointment Agendas 133

Functions 135

Features 135

Advantages 136

Benefits 136

What’s Next? 137

First-Appointment Issues for the Recommender 137

First-Appointment Issues for the Influencer 138

First-Appointment Issues for the Decision Maker and the Approver 140

Your Appointment Matrix 144

Lock in What You’ve Learned 145

CHAPTER 13 Your Four Goals for the First Meeting 147

Tell ’Em, Sell ’Em 147

What Should You Try to Accomplish during the First Appointment? 148

Entrances and Exits 148

Do Logo Gifts Really Deliver Customers? Two True Stories 152

CHAPTER 14 Presenting Your Ideas with Conviction 155

Your Convictions Must Be Convincing 158

Eight Habits of Highly Committed Salespeople 159

Don’t Get Carried Away by Your Confidence (A True Story) 161

Patience Is a (Sales) Virtue! 162

CHAPTER 15 Going Past the Sale 165

Play It Cool with Recommenders 165

Play It Cool with Influencers 166

Play It Cool with Decision Makers 167

Play It Cool with Approvers 168

Now, You Give It a Try 170

CHAPTER 16 Needs and Wants 173

Questions to Ask Yourself 173

Studying Needs 175

Uncovering Needs with the Approver (Typically a

Driver Personality) 175

Uncovering Needs with the Decision Maker (Typically an Expressive Personality) 176

Uncovering Needs with the Influencer (Typically an Analytic Personality) 177

Uncovering Needs with the Recommender (Often an Amiable Personality) 178

What Happens Next? 179

Mind the GAP 180

What Else Goes with the GAP Analysis? 183

Lock in What You’ve Learned 183

CHAPTER 17 The Rules of Correspondence 185

Recommender: Write from Functions to Features 186

Influencer: Write from Features to Functions 187

Decision Maker: Write from Advantages to Benefits 189

Approver: Write from Benefits to Advantages 190

Putting Postage on Your Correspondence 192

Lock In What You’ve Learned 192

CHAPTER 18 Keys to Telephone Success 195

General Observations 195

Lock In What You’ve Learned 203

CHAPTER 19 The First Appointment—Tactical

Approaches 205

Reality Check 205

What to Say 207

Do You See What’s Happening Here? 208

What If the Approver Picks up the Phone? 209

If You Get Dumped into Voice Mail 210

The Squeeze Play 211

The Third-Party Introduction 212

“Tactical Air Support” from Your CEO, President, or Owner 214

Lock In What You’ve Learned 215

CHAPTER 20 Action Items—Windows on the Second

Appointment 217

Action Items for Recommenders 218

Action Items for Influencers 218

Action Items for Decision Makers 219

Action Items for Approvers 219

Practice Makes Patience 221

CHAPTER 21 The 10 Powers 225

Are You Ready? 226

The 10 Power Steps 229

Lock In What You’ve Learned 238

Index 239

A Special Offer 245

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      Publication Date: Publication Date: 16/03/2004
      ISBN13: 9780471487234, 978-0471487234
      ISBN10: 0471487236

      Description

      Book Synopsis
      Presents techniques for getting invited back for a second interaction with potential prospects and customers.

      Table of Contents

      Preface xv

      Acknowledgments xix

      Introduction xxi

      CHAPTER 1 Success and Your Sales Career 1

      The Complacency Challenge 2

      A Word about Self-Sabotage 2

      To the Importance of Overcoming Success Phobias 4

      Take a Deep Breath . . . 5

      Change the Message, Change the Results! 6

      Mastering the Process—and Getting the Appointment! 7

      Here’s Our Starting Point 7

      Keep Your Commitments 11

      CHAPTER 2 Who’s Who in Your Target Organization? 13

      Target People with Influence 14

      Target People with Authority 15

      Target People with the Authority to Approve 17

      Second Meetings and the “Trilogy” of Your Sales Cycle 19

      Reality Check: Your Hottest Prospect 19

      CHAPTER 3 Four Categories 23

      Silent Adversaries, Silent Allies 23

      The Role of the Recommender 24

      The Influencer’s Role 26

      The Decision Maker’s Role 27

      The Approver’s Role 30

      Lock in What You’ve Learned 32

      CHAPTER 4 Selling Across the Enterprise 33

      Principle 1: Think Outside the Owner’s Manual 33

      Principle 2: Invest Your Time Intelligently 34

      Principle 3: Think Lifetime Value—By Aligning Your Sales Process to the Organization 37

      Lock in What You’ve Learned 39

      CHAPTER 5 Pathways to the Right Second Appointment 41

      Exploring 42

      Initiating 45

      Sponsoring 46

      Leveraging 48

      CHAPTER 6 Building a Foundation 53

      Visualization 53

      The Ultimate Sales TIP 55

      TIP Step One 56

      TIP Step Two 57

      A TIP Example 57

      Don’t Leave Home (or Your Office) Without It 57

      Lock in What You’ve Learned 60

      CHAPTER 7 Putting It All Together 61

      What We Know for Sure 61

      Defining the Sales Process 62

      Your Constant Improvement Campaign (CIC) 64

      A Thing of Beauty 66

      Time to Revenue 66

      Managing Your Process, Not Your Time 67

      Priority One: Revenue Activity 68

      Priority Two: Conversion Activity 69

      Priority Three: Sponsorship Activity 70

      Lock in What You’ve Learned 72

      CHAPTER 8 The Five Deadly Sins of Appointment Setting 73

      Sin Number One: Talking, Not Speaking 73

      Sin Number Two: Using Bad Language 75

      Sin Number Three: Monopolizing the Conversation 77

      Sin Number Four: Stretching the Truth 80

      Sin Number Five: Being a Space Invader 81

      Lock in What You’ve Learned 83

      CHAPTER 9 Points of Entry 85

      Interacting with the Recommender 86

      When Posing Questions to a Recommender 87

      Interacting with the Influencer 88

      Key Winning Results for the Influencer 89

      When Posing Questions to an Influencer 90

      Interacting with the Decision Maker 92

      When Posing Questions to a Decision Maker 93

      Interacting with the Approver 96

      When Posing Questions to an Approver 99

      The Best Call You Can Make 100

      CHAPTER 10 10 Principles for Delivering More

      Second Appointments 103

      A True Story about Effective Targeting on the First Appointment 107

      Another True Story about Effective Targeting on the First Appointment 108

      Go Beyond Your Comfort Zone 109

      CHAPTER 11 Three Strategies to Appointment Success 113

      Key #1: Establishing Your Target and Building

      Credibility before Your First Appointment 114

      Key #2: Know How to Build Rapport with

      Your Prospect 118

      Key #3: Determining Your Contact’s Criteria for Evaluating Your Message 125

      Matching the Criteria 131

      Lock in What You’ve Learned 132

      CHAPTER 12 Your Appointment Agendas 133

      Functions 135

      Features 135

      Advantages 136

      Benefits 136

      What’s Next? 137

      First-Appointment Issues for the Recommender 137

      First-Appointment Issues for the Influencer 138

      First-Appointment Issues for the Decision Maker and the Approver 140

      Your Appointment Matrix 144

      Lock in What You’ve Learned 145

      CHAPTER 13 Your Four Goals for the First Meeting 147

      Tell ’Em, Sell ’Em 147

      What Should You Try to Accomplish during the First Appointment? 148

      Entrances and Exits 148

      Do Logo Gifts Really Deliver Customers? Two True Stories 152

      CHAPTER 14 Presenting Your Ideas with Conviction 155

      Your Convictions Must Be Convincing 158

      Eight Habits of Highly Committed Salespeople 159

      Don’t Get Carried Away by Your Confidence (A True Story) 161

      Patience Is a (Sales) Virtue! 162

      CHAPTER 15 Going Past the Sale 165

      Play It Cool with Recommenders 165

      Play It Cool with Influencers 166

      Play It Cool with Decision Makers 167

      Play It Cool with Approvers 168

      Now, You Give It a Try 170

      CHAPTER 16 Needs and Wants 173

      Questions to Ask Yourself 173

      Studying Needs 175

      Uncovering Needs with the Approver (Typically a

      Driver Personality) 175

      Uncovering Needs with the Decision Maker (Typically an Expressive Personality) 176

      Uncovering Needs with the Influencer (Typically an Analytic Personality) 177

      Uncovering Needs with the Recommender (Often an Amiable Personality) 178

      What Happens Next? 179

      Mind the GAP 180

      What Else Goes with the GAP Analysis? 183

      Lock in What You’ve Learned 183

      CHAPTER 17 The Rules of Correspondence 185

      Recommender: Write from Functions to Features 186

      Influencer: Write from Features to Functions 187

      Decision Maker: Write from Advantages to Benefits 189

      Approver: Write from Benefits to Advantages 190

      Putting Postage on Your Correspondence 192

      Lock In What You’ve Learned 192

      CHAPTER 18 Keys to Telephone Success 195

      General Observations 195

      Lock In What You’ve Learned 203

      CHAPTER 19 The First Appointment—Tactical

      Approaches 205

      Reality Check 205

      What to Say 207

      Do You See What’s Happening Here? 208

      What If the Approver Picks up the Phone? 209

      If You Get Dumped into Voice Mail 210

      The Squeeze Play 211

      The Third-Party Introduction 212

      “Tactical Air Support” from Your CEO, President, or Owner 214

      Lock In What You’ve Learned 215

      CHAPTER 20 Action Items—Windows on the Second

      Appointment 217

      Action Items for Recommenders 218

      Action Items for Influencers 218

      Action Items for Decision Makers 219

      Action Items for Approvers 219

      Practice Makes Patience 221

      CHAPTER 21 The 10 Powers 225

      Are You Ready? 226

      The 10 Power Steps 229

      Lock In What You’ve Learned 238

      Index 239

      A Special Offer 245

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