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A true story about coping and dealing with the many different emotions felt from bereavement and grief. Flaps and Chats follows the sad, traumatic but also liberating, and sometimes hilarious, journey of the author 'going it alone' after the loss of her beloved husband, her mother-in-law and finally her own mother. From Chatlines to affairs, from dating apps to swinging clubs, from foot fetishes to random sexual encounters. Free-falling into a hedonistic but unrealistic and unsustainable lifestyle. Eventually realising that grief can manifest itself emotionally and physically, along with crazy, irrational behaviour. Almost to the extent of pushing that self-destruct button in life and not caring about the outcome. Constantly looking for that 'quick fix' as a distraction, to numb any emotion and pain felt in the aftermath of bereavement. This book has short, sharp chapters reliving events with a no holds barred approach. Flaps and Chats tells the story of the high sexual euphoria of being wanted followed by the downward spiral and lows of depression and despondency soon afterwards. This book will have you feeling a mix of many emotions including laughter, tears and amazement.

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PART ONE 2021; Chapter 1 - Summertime Sadness; Chapter 2 - Born To Die; Chapter 3 - Build A Bridge And Get Over It; Chapter 4 - Chatlines And Blurred Lines; Chapter 5 - Sex Chats And Fanny Flaps; Chapter 6 - Let Me Be Your Fantasy; Chapter 7 - Little Lies; Chapter 8 - One Night Stand; Chapter 9 - Botox And Blow Jobs; Chapter 10 - Save A Prayer; Chapter 11 - Drinking From The Bottle; Chapter 12 - Oh Cum, All Ye Unfaithful; Part Two 2022; Chapter 1 - Time To Say Goodbye; Chapter 2 - Free Fallin'; Chapter 3 - Airport; Chapter 4 - Opportunities (Let's Make Lots Of Money) 75 Chapter 5 - On The Floor; Chapter 6 - Cold As Ice; Chapter 7 - One Step Beyond; Chapter 8 - Sultans Of Swing; Chapter 9 - Fade To Grey; Chapter 10 - Erase/Rewind; Chapter 11 - Driver's Seat; Chapter 12 - Hungry Like The Wolf; Chapter 13 - Blue Monday; Chapter 14 - Ashes To Ashes; Chapter 15 - Swing When You're Winning; Chapter 16 - Learning To Fly (But I Ain't Got Wings); Chapter 17 - Out Of My Depth; Chapter 18 - Curiosity Killed The Cat; Chapter 19 - Walk On The Wild Side; Chapter 20 - Wank Holiday Weekend; Chapter 21 - Suicide Blonde

Flaps and Chats: My own personal journal of bereavement and grief

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      Publisher: The Choir Press
      Publication Date: 18/12/2023
      ISBN13: 9781789634143, 978-1789634143
      ISBN10: 1789634148

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      Book Synopsis
      A true story about coping and dealing with the many different emotions felt from bereavement and grief. Flaps and Chats follows the sad, traumatic but also liberating, and sometimes hilarious, journey of the author 'going it alone' after the loss of her beloved husband, her mother-in-law and finally her own mother. From Chatlines to affairs, from dating apps to swinging clubs, from foot fetishes to random sexual encounters. Free-falling into a hedonistic but unrealistic and unsustainable lifestyle. Eventually realising that grief can manifest itself emotionally and physically, along with crazy, irrational behaviour. Almost to the extent of pushing that self-destruct button in life and not caring about the outcome. Constantly looking for that 'quick fix' as a distraction, to numb any emotion and pain felt in the aftermath of bereavement. This book has short, sharp chapters reliving events with a no holds barred approach. Flaps and Chats tells the story of the high sexual euphoria of being wanted followed by the downward spiral and lows of depression and despondency soon afterwards. This book will have you feeling a mix of many emotions including laughter, tears and amazement.

      Table of Contents
      PART ONE 2021; Chapter 1 - Summertime Sadness; Chapter 2 - Born To Die; Chapter 3 - Build A Bridge And Get Over It; Chapter 4 - Chatlines And Blurred Lines; Chapter 5 - Sex Chats And Fanny Flaps; Chapter 6 - Let Me Be Your Fantasy; Chapter 7 - Little Lies; Chapter 8 - One Night Stand; Chapter 9 - Botox And Blow Jobs; Chapter 10 - Save A Prayer; Chapter 11 - Drinking From The Bottle; Chapter 12 - Oh Cum, All Ye Unfaithful; Part Two 2022; Chapter 1 - Time To Say Goodbye; Chapter 2 - Free Fallin'; Chapter 3 - Airport; Chapter 4 - Opportunities (Let's Make Lots Of Money) 75 Chapter 5 - On The Floor; Chapter 6 - Cold As Ice; Chapter 7 - One Step Beyond; Chapter 8 - Sultans Of Swing; Chapter 9 - Fade To Grey; Chapter 10 - Erase/Rewind; Chapter 11 - Driver's Seat; Chapter 12 - Hungry Like The Wolf; Chapter 13 - Blue Monday; Chapter 14 - Ashes To Ashes; Chapter 15 - Swing When You're Winning; Chapter 16 - Learning To Fly (But I Ain't Got Wings); Chapter 17 - Out Of My Depth; Chapter 18 - Curiosity Killed The Cat; Chapter 19 - Walk On The Wild Side; Chapter 20 - Wank Holiday Weekend; Chapter 21 - Suicide Blonde

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