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Book SynopsisThe author anticipated building an ordinary family. And that’s what happened. But mental illness and grief also happened, undermining the security of home and changing the familial experience from ordinary to extraordinary. A hard story to live, a hard story to read, this book describes the day to day life in a family navigating their increasingly fraught lives. A must read for any family who has experienced this and a must read for anyone wanting to know about this.
Trade ReviewIn spare, tensile, and perfectly calibrated fragments, Falling together: a family's story of mental illness and grief bears witness to the shame, rage, grief, and wrenching loneliness of losing a child to mental illness. But more than that, it resurrects the loved one in all her vulnerability and contradictions—joyful dancer, patient bird-whisperer, generous friend, desperate leaper from high places. Heartbreaking and beautifully written, woven with equal parts love and pain, this book will leave you with renewed respect for anyone who lives with mental illness, and renewed appreciation for the power of language to express what may seem beyond the reach of words.- Susan Olding, author of Pathologies: A Life in Essays // Nothing can invade a home with greater force than mental illness. In Falling together: a family's story of mental illness and grief, Donna McCart Sharkey explores love and anguish with equal passion. This book is mandatory reading for anyone who has lost a family member to mental illness. - Lynne Van Luven, professor emerita, Department of Writing, University of Victoria // Falling Together is gripping. Like a mystery novel, her daughter’s death is immediately signaled, but the accruing “whys,” from pre-adoption trauma to the medical system’s failures, draw us in. As we read, hope haunts us. Delight in her daughter wrestles with Sharkey’s increasing despair, then profound grief, but it’s her mother’s delight that endures. Beautifully written—it’s a keeper. - Betsy Warland, Author of Lost Lagoon/lost in thought
