{"product_id":"world-class-marriage-9781442203259","title":"World Class Marriage","description":"\u003cb\u003eBook Synopsis\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eTrade Review\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003eWorld Class Marriage is a great book. It's fun and easy to read, but so rich with valuable nuggets. I've found myself going back into the book many times. Highly recommended. -- Dennis Stoica, President of the California Healthy Marriages Coalition\u003cbr\u003eThe ideas in this book carry the trademark of two experienced communications trainers: Patty and Ralph. Here are powerful tools and ideas. I recommend them to any couple interested in adding satisfaction to their relationship. -- Joek I. Vader-deGraaff, Adult Educator and President of JoeCom Trainingen\u003cbr\u003eWow! And wow again! My wife and I are both thrilled and inspired to see what you've created with World Class Marriage. -- H. Tucker Upshaw, Ph.D., Co-Principal, Upshaw Management Consulting\u003cbr\u003eThe authors give an authentic, knowledgeable and easy to follow description of the most important nurturing and damaging factors of a marriage, You learn from this eye-opening book meaningful insights and practical advice that will help you clean the dust out of your marriage. -- Dr. Zsuzsa Varkonyi, psychologist and author\u003cbr\u003eRalph and Patty have succeeded in writing about important matters in a comprehensive book written in simple language that anyone can understand! -- Annet Bakker-Brouwer, Psychologist, co-founder Netherlands Effectiveness Training\u003cbr\u003eWorld Class Marriage has wisdom that will help every relationship flourish-with your spouse, family, coworkers, friends. This is an outstanding read! -- Harville Hendrix, Ph.D, author of \u003ci\u003eGetting the Love You Want\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003eKorean family ministry leaders feel deeply enriched by the gorgeous vision of World Class Marriage (WCM) constructed on the 16 pillars. We are eager to deliver the beautiful gift of WCM to all Koreans! -- Dr. Eun Soon Yang, Founder and President, HIS University, Corona, CA\u003cbr\u003eIf you are thinking of getting married, this book will help you avoid mistakes and sleepless nights. If your marriage has lost its freshness and become dry, this book will help you bring new emotional intensity and enjoyment each day. And if your marriage is badly disturbed, this book will help you trust once more in your relationship being able to bounce back into shape. -- Dr. Karlpeter Breue, President of the Academy for Person-Centered Psychology, Bonn, Germany\u003cbr\u003eFor me, World Class Marriage is a tremendous and quite practical book that is very easy to read. Its 16 Pillars are extraordinary for helping Hispanic couples move toward a fantastic and happy marriage. Read it with an open heart. -- Bishop John Sanchez, Apostolic Assembly, Southern California District\u003cbr\u003eI thoroughly enjoyed the book and have found the information to be very relevant and accessible for clients, Thank you for writing it! -- Nicolee McMahon, Marriage and Family Therapist\u003cbr\u003eHere is solid and deeply supportive wisdom for all the couples in the world who want to be alive and fully present with each other. Doctors, psychotherapists, and teachers yearn for such an engaging, direct, and hopeful guidebook, both for their own inspiration and for the kitchen tables of those who seek their counsel. -- Mary McAulay Boyvey, MSW, LCSW, BCD, C.G. Jung Institute of San Francisco\u003cbr\u003eA World Class Marriage brings the fulfillment of a love relationship within reach. It offers the cutlery that is needed for a relationship feast. The book gives you immediately applicable skills and brilliant insights into the mysteries of love. -- Anky Floris, Life Coach and author of \u003ci\u003eRecipes for a Spicy Relationship\u003c\/i\u003e and \u003ci\u003eThe Inspirational Life-art Cardgame\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003eI just got my copy of the new edition of World Class Marriage: How to Create the Relationship You Have Always Wanted with the Partner You Already Have. There are so many marriage books (I receive several each week), but this one stands out and I want to give it my highest recommendation. In fact I'd go so far as to say if you can only buy one marriage education *how to* book this year, or are looking for one to give to your married kids or friends, this is it. It is incredibly helpful, practical, and loaded with everything a couple needs, but what makes it so especially useful is that it is delightfully written. It's easy to read, hard to put down. This one they'll read. -- Diane Sollee, director, www.SmartMarriages.com\u003cbr\u003eDespite all the books, magazine articles, and talk shows full of advice for couples, many marriages still end in divorce. Yet Howell and Jones, relationship educators who work with the California Healthy Marriages Coalition and have been married for 30 years, believe the answers to making a relationship flourish already exist in groundbreaking research that is 'largely buried in professional literature of which most couples are unaware.' They've set out to change that by distilling their findings into '16 pillars' necessary to 'elevate' a marriage to 'world class' status. Organized as chapters, many of their pillars illuminate the self-destructive ruts couples can find themselves in. Others, such as 'Using Power,' 'Listening,' and 'Knowing When to Surrender,' outline steps that can be taken to heal a wounded psyche. 'Growing Yourself' and 'Changing Behaviors, not Your Partner' are especially helpful, as psychology has made abundantly clear that change, within a relationship or otherwise, usually only comes from within. Couples who are committed to improving their relationship will find this a supportive guide. * Publishers Weekly *\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eTable of Contents\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e1 Acknowledgments 2 Definition of a World Class Marriage 3 Introduction 4 The Nature of Marriage 5 The Structure of a World Class Marriage 6 Diagram of the Structure 7 Part One: The Sixteen Pillars of a World Class Marriage 8 1. Setting Goals 9 2. Avoiding Blame 10 3. Understanding the Nature of Behavior 11 4. Using Power Listening 12 5. Giving up \"Tit for Tat\" 13 6. Assuming Self-Responsibility 14 7. Avoiding Cool Talk 15 8. Changing Behaviors, Not Your Partner 16 9. Knowing When to Surrender 17 10. Giving Caring the Way It Matters 18 11. Handling Hot Topics 19 12. Resolving Conflicts and Disagreements 20 13. Giving Apology and Forgiveness 21 14. Growing Yourself 22 15. Forging a Bond 23 16. Nurturing the Honeymoon 24 Part Two: Applying the Pillars 25 Living Together 26 Gay\/Lesbian Relationships 27 Kids and the Relationship 28 Getting Men to Communicate 29 Being Yourself in the Relationship 30 Concluding Thoughts 31 Endnotes 32 Bibliography 33 Workshops 34 About the Authors 35 International Editions","brand":"Rowman \u0026 Littlefield","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":49529987072343,"sku":"9781442203259","price":46.96,"currency_code":"GBP","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0817\/1739\/5799\/files\/9781442203259.jpg?v=1731877641","url":"https:\/\/bookcurl.com\/products\/world-class-marriage-9781442203259","provider":"Book Curl","version":"1.0","type":"link"}