{"product_id":"social-intelligence-the-new-science-of-success-9780470444344","title":"Social Intelligence  The New Science of Success","description":"\u003cb\u003eBook Synopsis\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003eHarvard professor and bestselling author Howard Gardner made the concept of Intelligence Quotient a part of our vocabulary. With Daniel Goleman's Emotional Intelligence, the idea entered the mainstream, becoming surprisingly popular???particularly in the business world.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eTable of Contents\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cp\u003eForeword vii\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eAcknowledgment ix\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003ePreface xi\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e1. A Different Kind of \"Smart\" 1\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eOld Wine in New Bottles? 3\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eGoing Beyond IQ 6\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eEI, SI, or Both? 10\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eFrom Toxic to Nourishing 12\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eBlind Spots, Lenses, and Filters 14\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eSocial Halitosis, Flatulence, and Dandruff 16\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eThe \"Dilbert\" Factor 23\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eCan We Become a Socially Smarter Species? 25\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eS.P.A.C.E.:The Skills of Interaction 28\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e2. \"S\" Stands for Situational Awareness 33\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eSituational Dumbness and Numbness 34\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eBallistic Podiatry: Making the Worst of a Situation 36\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eReading the Social Context 38\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eWhat to Look For 40\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eThe Proxemic Context 41\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eThe Behavioral Context 47\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eThe Semantic Context 51\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eNavigating Cultures and Subcultures 58\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eCodes of Conduct: Violate the Rules at Your Peril 61\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eBuilding the Skills of Situational Awareness 66\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e3. \"P\" Stands for Presence 69\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eBeing There 70\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eIs Charisma Over-Rated? 72\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eDo Looks Matter? 75\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eReading (and Shaping) the \"Rules of Engagement\" 75\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eThe Ugly American Syndrome 78\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eMore of You, Less of Me 80\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eA Case of Attitude 82\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eBuilding the Skills of Presence 85\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e4. \"A\" Stands for Authenticity 87\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eTake a Tip from Popeye 88\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eIt's a Beautiful Day in the SI Neighborhood 90\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eThe Snap-On Smile: Can You Fake Sincerity? 93\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eLeft-Handed Compliments 94\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eThe Puppy Dog Syndrome 97\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eNarcissism: It's Really All About Me 98\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eHead Games, Power Struggles, and Manipulation 102\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eBuilding the Skills of Authenticity 105\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e5. \"C\" Stands for Clarity 107\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eA Way with Words 108\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eHoof-in-Mouth Disease: Sometimes Silence Works Best 110\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eRole-Speak and Real-Speak 114\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eHelicopter Language and Elevator Speeches 116\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\"Clean\" Language and \"Dirty\" Language 119\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eVerbal Bludgeons 121\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eTaking a Brain for a Walk 125\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eThe Power of Metaphor 128\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eE-Prime: the Language of Sanity 130\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eBuilding the Skills of Clarity 135\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e6. \"E\" Stands for Empathy 137\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eWhat Destroys Empathy? 138\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eWhat Builds Empathy? 142\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eThe Platinum Rule 147\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eThe Irony of Empathic Professions 149\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eL.E.A.P.S.: Empathy by Design 152\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eEmpathy in Four Minutes 154\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eBuilding the Skills of Empathy 156\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e7. Assessing and Developing SI 159\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eAssessingYour Interaction Skills 160\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eSelf-Awareness: Seeing Yourself as Others See You 166\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eAssessing Your Interaction Style: Drivers, Energizers, Diplomats, and Loners 168\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eThe Strength-Weakness Irony 177\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003ePriorities for Improvement 180\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e8. SI in the World of Work: Some Reflections 185\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eThe Real and Legal Consequences of Social Incompetence 184\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eCultures of Conflict and Craziness 187\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eHierarchies,Testosterone, and Gender Politics 193\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eGetting it Right at Work and Wrong at Home 198\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eThe Diversity Puzzle 200\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eRitual, Ceremony, and Celebration 203\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003ePositive Politics: Getting Ahead with Your Value System Intact 207\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e9. SI in Charge: Thoughts on Developing Socially Intelligent Leaders 211\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eThe S.O.B. Factor 212\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eExecutive Hubris: Its Costs and Consequences 216\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eBest Boss,Worst Boss 219\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eP.O.W.E.R.:Where It Comes From, How to Get It 222\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eHow the Worst Bastards on the Planet Get and Keep Power 224\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eThe Algebra of Influence 226\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eS.P.I.C.E.: Leading When You're Not In Charge 227\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e10. SI and Conflict: Thoughts About Getting Along 233\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eThe Double Spiral of Conflict 234\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eWhy Argue? 241\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eCrucial Conversations 243\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eAdded Value Negotiating 246\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eEpilogue. SI and the Next Generation: Who's Teaching Our Kids? 253\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eOur Children Are Not Our Children 254\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eThe (Only) Ten Basic News Stories 256\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eAnxiety Drives Attention 260\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eBreaking the Addiction to Television 262\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eThe Buying of Our Babies 265\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eVideo Games:The New Sandlot 267\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eTeachers, Parents, or Neither? 270\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eBelonging or Be Longing? 272\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eThe S.P.A.C.E. Solution for Schools 276\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eA Prescription for SI at Every Age 278\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eIndex 281\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003eAbout the Author 289\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"John Wiley \u0026 Sons Inc","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":48864628408663,"sku":"9780470444344","price":15.3,"currency_code":"GBP","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0817\/1739\/5799\/files\/9780470444344.jpg?v=1722272802","url":"https:\/\/bookcurl.com\/products\/social-intelligence-the-new-science-of-success-9780470444344","provider":"Book Curl","version":"1.0","type":"link"}