{"product_id":"i-love-a-fire-fighter-second-edition-9781462546534","title":"I Love a Fire Fighter Second Edition","description":"\u003cb\u003eBook Synopsis\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eHow can fire fighter families cope with the emotional toll of loving a first responder?\u003c\/b\u003e There are ceaseless worries--about the physical dangers of the profession, the cumulative stress, and the long hours spent away from home. In this compassionate and knowledgeable guide--now fully revised and updated--psychologist Ellen Kirschman shares sage advice and practical strategies for when times get tough. From dealing with occupational hazards like trauma, marital tension, and substance use problems, to the psychological effects of fighting wildland fires, Dr. Kirschman understands the unique challenges of life on the front lines. With candor and wisdom, she shows fire fighters and their loved ones how to navigate the highs and lows of âœthe best job in the world.â\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eTrade Review\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cp\u003e\"I laughed and cried as I read this book--the personal experiences and insights really spoke to me. I had so many 'aha!' moments! I am left with a sense that I am not alone, and I now have tools to navigate the fire service world.\"--Chris S., fire fighter spouse\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \"My husband started his career as a volunteer\/reserve and eventually worked his way to Fire Chief. I have referred to this book every step of the way and found it to be a priceless source of knowledge and guidance. Over the years, I have recommended and given this book to dozens of spouses and family members as the top resource for understanding this unique culture and lifestyle. There is no other guide as complete as this one!\"--Kelly B., Fire Chief spouse\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \"The fire service culture is rich, unique, and full of tradition. Dr. Kirschman takes you through the interpersonal dynamics and lifestyle challenges that fire fighters face, and gives you real-world perspectives and advice.\"--Kristen Wheldon, PsyD, President, Fire Service Psychology Association\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \"My fire fighter is retired now, but if we had to do it all again, this book would have been a priceless roadmap for many of the problems and emotions that we encountered throughout her career. The fire service is unlike any other profession--this is a 'must read' for all current and future fire fighters and the people who love them.\"--Lisa H., fire fighter spouse\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e \"Dr. Kirschman offers helpful insights into how fire fighters think, how the work can affect them, and how to take action for a healthy fire family. Not only is this book informative, it is also enjoyable to read. It is written in a conversational, no-nonsense style that makes you feel like you're engaging with the author. Each chapter includes strategies from seasoned fire fighters and their family members, as well as Dr. Kirschman’s extensive experience. The robust list of resources will help you continue improving your relationships and well-being.\"--Stephanie M. Conn, PhD, First Responder Psychology, Beaverton, Oregon; author of \u003ci\u003eIncreasing Resilience in Police and Emergency Personnel\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e-This is a well-written handbook to help families of firefighters understand, mitigate, and possibly prevent many of the physical and mental health problems faced by firefighters. This second edition offers new chapters, including one on the unique stress of fighting wildfires, and also goes into greater detail on mitigating emotional trauma….A useful resource to clinicians and families alike.--Doody’s Review Service, 09\/09\/2021ƒƒDr. Kirschman offers cogent tips for dealing with the spillover between work and home....I highly recommend [this book] to mental health professionals, faith based helpers, peer supporters, and family members. [It offers] invaluable insights and constructive suggestions. (on the first edition)--International Journal of Emergency Mental Health, 01\/01\/2007ƒƒDefinitely a must read for supervisors and administrators of fire and emergency services, both volunteer and career. Also, this is an important book for professional psychologists rendering services to fire personnel, their families and organizations. (on the first edition)--Atlantic OccuPsych, 01\/01\/2005ƒƒA very welcome resource for the fire service. Every fire recruit should give a copy to his or her family on the first day of training. (on the first edition)--FireWork, 01\/01\/2005\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eTable of Contents\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cp\u003eIntroduction\u003cbr\u003e I. Two In\/Two Out: Building and Strengthening Your Resilient Relationship\u003cbr\u003e 1. The Givens and Realities of the Fire Service\u003cbr\u003e 2. Spillover: Managing the Relationship between Home and Work\u003cbr\u003e 3. Relationships: Signs of Trouble, Signs of Strength\u003cbr\u003e II. Answering the Call: Fire Fighters and Their Careers\u003cbr\u003e 4. Profiles: The Fire Fighter Personality\u003cbr\u003e 5. Climbing the Career Ladder: From Recruitment to Retirement\u003cbr\u003e III. Beyond Burning Buildings\u003cbr\u003e 6. Emergency Medical Services\u003cbr\u003e 7. Wildland Fire and Trauma\u003cbr\u003e IV. The Hot Zone: Staying Safe\u003cbr\u003e 8. Injuries, Fatalities, and Challenges to Health\u003cbr\u003e 9. Improving Safety\u003cbr\u003e V. Trauma and Stress\u003cbr\u003e 10. Trauma: An Overview\u003cbr\u003e 11. Protective Factors: A Caring Organization, Resilience, and Posttraumatic Growth\u003cbr\u003e 12. Getting Help for PTSI: What to Aim For, Where to Go\u003cbr\u003e 13. Families and Trauma\u003cbr\u003e 14. Helping Yourself\u003cbr\u003e 15. Children and Trauma\u003cbr\u003e VI. Fire Fighters in Hot Water\u003cbr\u003e 16. Addiction and Arson\u003cbr\u003e 17. Domestic Abuse and Suicide\u003cbr\u003e VII. Special Families\u003cbr\u003e 18. Fire-Fighting Couples\u003cbr\u003e 19. Diversity: Women, Ethnic Minorities, and LGBTQ Fire Fighters on the Job\u003cbr\u003e VIII. Getting the Help You Need When You Need It\u003cbr\u003e 20. Counseling\u003cbr\u003e Epilogue\u003cbr\u003e Resources\u003cbr\u003e Bibliography\u003cbr\u003e Index\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Guilford Publications","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":49408649920855,"sku":"9781462546534","price":45.59,"currency_code":"GBP","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0817\/1739\/5799\/files\/9781462546534.jpg?v=1730503672","url":"https:\/\/bookcurl.com\/products\/i-love-a-fire-fighter-second-edition-9781462546534","provider":"Book Curl","version":"1.0","type":"link"}