{"product_id":"how-did-i-get-to-be-70-when-im-35-inside-spiritual-surprises-of-later-life-9781683361176","title":"How Did I Get to Be 70 When I'm 35 Inside?:","description":"\u003cb\u003eBook Synopsis\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003eHave the courage and curiosity to face the inner changes of aging—and learn how they can help you find meaning in your later years.  \"I used to think that age sixty-five was the start of a slippery downward slope to the cemetery. But inside, I felt a surge of enormous energy, with the potential to approach aging as an uncharted adventure instead of a prison sentence.\" —from the Introduction  Unlike other authors, spiritual director Linda Douty discusses the challenges and surprises of aging by talking about how you actually feel, not what you're supposed to feel. In a warm, down-to-earth voice, she offers a spiritually grounded method to adjust to the unexpected as you grow older. There is no one-size-fits-all here, but a variety of responses to the inner and outer transformations of aging and new ways of looking at them. She looks at surprises, welcome and unwelcome, concerning: • Self-image • The physical body • Relationships • Spiritual life  Questions for reflecting on who you are in this period of your life—or who you would like to be—will help you live each day more purposefully and joyfully.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eTrade Review\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\"Kudos for Linda Douty! She has written the most engaging, honest, rollicking, helpful book on aging I've seen in a long time—quite possibly ever, in fact.\" —Phyllis Tickle, compiler, The Divine Hours  \"An honest, wise and practical user's manual for 'growing into age,’ brought to you by experienced guides who are personally making the passage. It’s a book that’s long been needed: deeply spiritual but never sentimental or agenda-driven.\" —The Rev. Cynthia Bourgeault, author, The Wisdom Way of Knowing, Mystical Hope  and Love Is Stronger Than Death    “Takes unflinching aim at some potentially scary territory—the unspoken fears, challenges and joys of aging…. Will provide robust guidance for the later years and be a source of compassion in dealing with the elders in your life.” —J. David Forbes, MD, president, American Holistic Medical Association  “With engaging, witty and refreshingly unvarnished prose … guides us through the psycho-physical-spiritual challenges of life’s later years…. A profoundly wise book that satisfies both mind and heart.” —Marjorie J. Thompson, pastor; author, Soul Feast: An Invitation to the Christian Spiritual Life  “Candid, clear and full of surprising wisdom about the things we dread or deny. I’d buy it for any friend over fifty.” —Marjory Zoet Bankson, author, Creative Aging: Rethinking Retirement and Non-Retirement in a Changing World  “Thoughtful, insightful, helpful and timely—exactly what I expect from Linda Douty.” —Robert Benson, author, The Echo Within  “Delightful…. [This] book has inspired and motivated me to continue my aging journey with confidence and optimism.” —Molly Srode, author, Creating a Spiritual Retirement; coauthor, Keeping Spiritual Balance As We Grow Older  “You don’t need to be seventy to treasure this book!” —Nancy L. Bieber (www.nancybieber.com), teacher, retreat leader and spiritual director; author, Decision Making \u0026amp; Spiritual Discernment: The Sacred Art of Finding Your Way  “Authentic, down-to-earth, inviting—this book helped me regard my own aging process and that of family members with grace, dignity, humor and tenderness. Hats off to Linda Douty for a fresh, honest, spiritually based perspective on aging!” —Margaret Benefiel, author, Soul at Work and The Soul of a Leader\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eTable of Contents\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003eIntroduction i x   1. Opening to Surprise 1 Two Doors 1 Don't Believe Everything You Hear 4 Changing Your Script 13  2. Surprises of the Sel f 25 I'm Still Me! 28 Your Orphaned Creative Child 35 The Vanishing Social Filter 39 Buried Dreams 43  3. Surprises of the Body 47 Who Is That in the Mirror? 49 Listening to the Body’s Wisdom 52 Coping with Pain and Illness 56 Libido and Longevity 61 Are Limitations Limiting You? 64  4. Surprises in Relationships 71 Friends Who Feed Your Soul 72 Renegotiating Partnerships 77 Adult Children: To Speak or Not to Speak 81 Honoring Memories 85 Beyond the Front Door 88  5. Surprises of the Sacred 93 God and Me 94 Rethinking Prayer 98 Heaven, Hell, or Something Else 101 Hearing the Spirit’s Guidance 103 Motives and Methods 107 Trusting the Mystery 110  6. Surprising Challenges 113 Learning to Fly Solo 114 Setting Boundaries 118 Tying Your Shoes and Giving Up the Car 121 Sleeping Dilemmas 123 Fear and Faith 125 Fallacies of Forgiveness 129 Accepting the Life You’ve Lived 131  7. Surprising Gifts 137 Being Real 137 The Healing Power of Play 140 Gratitude Is More Than a Thank-You Note 143 Delight in the Details 148 Time: Friend or Foe? 151 The Many Faces of Freedom 154  8. Surprising Wisdom 157 Living through Loss 158 Say It Now and Do It Now 161 Clearing the Clutter 162 As Simple as a Smile 165 Learn to Receive 167 Fan the Brightest Flame 170 One Who Never Leaves You 174  Epilogue 177 Acknowledgments 178 Notes 179 Suggestions for Further Reading 182","brand":"Jewish Lights Publishing","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":51360016630103,"sku":"9781683361176","price":18.89,"currency_code":"GBP","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0817\/1739\/5799\/files\/9781683361176.jpg?v=1754126410","url":"https:\/\/bookcurl.com\/products\/how-did-i-get-to-be-70-when-im-35-inside-spiritual-surprises-of-later-life-9781683361176","provider":"Book Curl","version":"1.0","type":"link"}