{"product_id":"draw-on-your-relationships-9781138070707","title":"Draw on Your Relationships","description":"\u003cb\u003eBook Synopsis\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003eDraw on Your Relationships\u003c\/em\u003e is a bestselling resource to help people of all ages express, communicate and deal more effectively with their emotions through drawing. Built around five key themes, each section contains a simple picture exercise with clear objectives, instructions and suggestions for development. The picture activities have been carefully designed to help ease the process of both talking about feelings and exploring life choices, by trying out alternatives safely on paper. This will help to create clarity and new perspectives as a step towards positive action. \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eOffering a broad range of exercises which can be adapted for any ability or age from middle childhood onwards, this unique book explores a range of emotions surrounding a person's important life experiences, key memories, relationships, best times, worst times and who they are as a person. This is an essential resource for therapists, educators, counsellors and anyone who engages other people in co\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eTrade Review\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eJulia Bird, Director of Thrive\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eI am a founding director of a company that supports approximately 1,800 adults working in education to understand if a child has emotional developmental interruptions and what to do to make a difference. We train many teachers and other adults working in schools. \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eMargot Sunderland’s books are recommended reading for those who attend our courses. Our trainees find the Draw On books very helpful in training and then also with their children - not just those children identified for special help. They deal with universal life themes relevant for all. I particularly like the theoretical explanation mixed with superb, doable activities\/exercises and copyable handouts.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eMargot is an acknowledged expert in her field and her passion to make such important understandings and ways of working with troubled children accessible to ordinary people - parents, teachers, support workers - is manifest in the old excellent editions. Her suggestions for the new editions for both books are really exciting. I certainly will recommend the new editions to the people with whom I work.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhat is needed are work books that give the basic theoretical understanding - e.g. why using imagery is a potent way of supporting children to process feelings - with very usable activities that ordinary people can use to great effect with their children or with the children with whom they work.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThe addition of the cards will help adults open the conversation with children\/young people about difficult feelings. These are a real improvement on the books as they stand now. To have images that are so evocative will enhance the dialogue and give opportunities for all involved to tickle the imagination and make more sense and help the children digest their emotional responses to life situations that cause them such pain and difficulty.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThe new suggestions will take the work with children from labelling feelings without a real connection to deeper meaning to an integration of feelings, imagination and language that deepen awareness and supports emotional development.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThe cards will not go out of date as I imagine they will illustrate life’s difficulties that are timeless.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eI absolutely support the need for updated editions of these superb books and think the cards to be incredibly helpful in supporting children to tell their stories and process trauma.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eTable of Contents\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cp\u003eINTRODUCTION \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e• How to use this book\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e• Why use drawings and images to speak about feelings?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e• How to work safely\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e• Key rules and guidelines in helping someone to speak about feelings\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e• About sandplay and how to use it\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eYOU AND YOUR RELATIONSHIPS \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e• You, your relationships, your life\u003cbr\u003e• Encouragers and discouragers in my life (past and present) \u003cbr\u003e• People in your life, as gardens \u003cbr\u003e• The cocktail party\u003cbr\u003e• Your relationships as walls, bridges, comfortable sofas \u0026amp; take off \u003cbr\u003e• Museum of too alone \u003cbr\u003e• My childhood memories: People as places\u003cbr\u003e• Relationship riches \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eDEAD, DEPRIVING, DRAINING, DISAPPOINTING RELATIONSHIPS \u003cbr\u003e• My Relationship: Take off or stuck on the runway?\u003cbr\u003e• To leave or to stay? \u003cbr\u003e• The ‘nothing much happening’ times \u003cbr\u003e• A relationship that’s holding me back \u003cbr\u003e• People who energise. People who drain \u003cbr\u003e• Too many takers and not enough givers \u003cbr\u003e• Am I expecting too much from her\/him? \u003cbr\u003e• Disappointing relationship or futile quest for perfect mate? \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eLIFE-CHANGING RELATIONSHIPS \u003cbr\u003e• People you’ve been flying with \u003cbr\u003e• Flying together as a group\u003cbr\u003e• Collecting moments, not things \u003cbr\u003e• Oh, how we laugh!\u003cbr\u003e• Knights (posing as people) \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eLOVE HURTS \u003cbr\u003e• Museum of hurt\u003cbr\u003e• When I can’t reach you\u003cbr\u003e• Life after losing a person or their love \u003cbr\u003e• The end of a relationship. What now? \u003cbr\u003e• Loving someone who isn’t good at loving \u003cbr\u003e• Do I matter to you?\u003cbr\u003e• No one listens \/ too unhelped \u003cbr\u003e• Rejected \/ not wanted \/ uninvited \/ redundant \u003cbr\u003e• On the outside of the group \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eDAMAGING AND DESTRUCTIVE RELATIONSHIPS \u003cbr\u003e• Power over \/ power under \/ power with \u003cbr\u003e• Toxic shame\u003cbr\u003e• Managing conflict badly\u003cbr\u003e• Controlled \u003cbr\u003e• Emotional baggage \u003cbr\u003e• Hidden resentments \u003cbr\u003e• So many difficult\/annoying people in my life \u003cbr\u003e• Anger fuelled by pain from the past \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eRELATIONSHIPS AND FEAR \u003cbr\u003e• Fear of intimacy \u003cbr\u003e• Withdrawal, avoidance and leaving \u003cbr\u003e• Fear of closeness and fear of distance \u003cbr\u003e• Fear of being in groups \u003cbr\u003e• Fear of being myself in case I am too much \u003cbr\u003e• Without a voice \u003cbr\u003e• Mistrust \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eTOOLS AND TECHNIQUES TO IMPROVE AND REPAIR RELATIONSHIPS \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e• The art of relationship (for one person) \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e• The ‘when you…I feel’ exercise (for two people)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e• The ‘unfinished sentence’ exercise (for two people)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e• The 'like \/ don’t like it’ game (for two people)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e• The empathy game (for two people)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e• Our best and worst times (for two people)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e• Theories of motivation (for two people)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e• Paper conversations\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Taylor \u0026 Francis Ltd","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":51019454382423,"sku":"9781138070707","price":46.54,"currency_code":"GBP","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0817\/1739\/5799\/files\/9781138070707.jpg?v=1750780319","url":"https:\/\/bookcurl.com\/products\/draw-on-your-relationships-9781138070707","provider":"Book Curl","version":"1.0","type":"link"}