{"product_id":"are-we-done-fighting-9780865719088","title":"Are We Done Fighting","description":"\u003cb\u003eBook Synopsis\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003ePowerful tools for spreading peace in your community\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eUnfounded beliefs and hateful political and social divisions that can cascade into violence are threatening to pull the world apart. Responding to fear and aggression strategically and with compassion is vital if we are to push back against the politics of hate and live in greater safety and harmony.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBut how to do it?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003eAre We Done Fighting? \u003c\/em\u003eis brimming with the latest research, practical activities, and inspirational stories of success for cultivating inner change and spreading peace at the community level and beyond. Coverage includes:\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eAn explanation of the different styles of conflict\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eCognitive biases that help explain polarized and lose-lose positions\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ePractical methods and activities for changing our own and others'' minds\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWhen punishment works and doesn''t, and how to encourage discipline in children without using violence\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eThe skill of self-c\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eTable of Contents\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003eForeword by George Lakey \u003cbr\u003eAbout Quakers and the Author \u003cbr\u003eIntroduction \u003cbr\u003eUsing This Book \u003cbr\u003e      Activity: Learning Contract or Journaling\u003cbr\u003e      Activity: Your Values and a Special Person \u003cbr\u003e      Activity: Your Strengths \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eSection 1: Peace and Power \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e 1. What Peace is \u003cem\u003eNot \u003c\/em\u003e\u003cbr\u003e      \u003c\/strong\u003eTips from This Chapter \u003cbr\u003e      Activity: Group Ideas — What Peace is Not\u003cbr\u003e      Example: Experience Changes Beliefs in Kenya \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e2. Us and Others \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e      Tips from This Chapter \u003cbr\u003e      Activity: Transforming Bias\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e3. Power-over \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e      Tips from This Chapter \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e4. Power-with and Power-from- within \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e      Tips from This Chapter \u003cbr\u003e      Activity: Walk Around \u003cbr\u003e      Activity: Find Your Power-from- within \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e5. Process and Change \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e      Tips from This Chapter \u003cbr\u003e      Activity: Meeting an Unsympathetic Politician \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eSection 2: Communication Skills \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e 6. Firm Belief \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e      Tips from This Chapter\u003cbr\u003e      Activity: Decision Making \u003cbr\u003e      Activity: Our Position \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e7. Treating Emotions with Care \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e      Tips from This Chapter \u003cbr\u003e      Activity: Making Connections \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e8. Communication \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e      Tips from This Chapter \u003cbr\u003e      Activity: Rewording a Conflict \u003cbr\u003e      Activity: Concentric Circles \u003cbr\u003e      Questions for This First Concentric Circles Activity \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e9. Conflict \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e      Tips from This Chapter \u003cbr\u003e      Activity: What Would You Need? \u003cbr\u003e      Example: Who Gets Recognized? \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eSection 3: Violence and Interpersonal Peace \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e 10. Seeing Violence \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e      Tips from This Chapter \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e11. What's Natural? \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e      Tips from This Chapter \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e12. Safety \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e      Tips from This Chapter \u003cbr\u003e      Activity: Accepting Everyone \u003cbr\u003e      Example: The Nashville Sit-ins \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e13. When Hate Rises \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e      Tips from This Chapter \u003cbr\u003e      Activity: Violence \u003cbr\u003e      Example: Sammy Rangel \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e14. Violence in Social Change \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e      Tips from This Chapter \u003cbr\u003e      Example: Elections in Idlib City \u003cbr\u003e      Activity: Four Elements \u003cbr\u003e      Activity: Follow the Leader \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e15. Who Benefits? \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e      Tips from This Chapter \u003cbr\u003e      Activity: Mainstream and Margins \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e16. Oppressors and Victims \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e      Tips from This Chapter \u003cbr\u003e      Example: Pronouns \u003cbr\u003e      Activity: What's Changed So Far? \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eSection 4: Inner Peace \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e 17. Connection \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e      Tips from This Chapter    \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e \u003cstrong\u003e18. Changing Ourselves \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e      Tips from This Chapter \u003cbr\u003e      Activity: Kindness Meditation \u003cbr\u003e      Activity: Gratitude \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eSection 5: Structural Peace \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e 19. Who's Dreaming? \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e      Tips from This Chapter \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e20. Just War, Just Peace, and Responsibility \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e      Tips from This Chapter \u003cbr\u003e      Example: Healing and Rebuilding our Communities \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e21. Unarmed Civilian Protection \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e      Tips from This Chapter \u003cbr\u003e      Example: Bear Clan Patrol \u003cbr\u003e      Activity: De-escalation on the Subway \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e22. Mediation \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e      Tips from This Chapter \u003cbr\u003e      Example: Concerned Citizens for Peace \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e23. Peace Education \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e      Tips from This Chapter \u003cbr\u003e      Example: Power-with the Smallest Children? \u003cbr\u003e      Activity: Peacebuilding Dreams \u003cbr\u003e      Activity: What is Peace? \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e24. What Peace Is \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e      Tips from This Chapter \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eAppendix 1: What We Mean by a Culture of Peacebuilding \u003cbr\u003eAppendix 2: The Basics of Facilitation \u003cbr\u003eNotes \u003cbr\u003eIndex \u003cbr\u003eAbout New Society Publishers \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e","brand":"New Society Publishers","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":48884845412695,"sku":"9780865719088","price":16.19,"currency_code":"GBP","in_stock":false}],"url":"https:\/\/bookcurl.com\/products\/are-we-done-fighting-9780865719088","provider":"Book Curl","version":"1.0","type":"link"}